Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 115

Originally posted by: RUDY575

He will do romance with ae ......to teach bon about her bhavishya👏arc we don't know this

No he will teach practical biology lessons and he will be still be doodh ka dhula🤢

What troubles me most about this track is that a young girl is penalised, shamed, and emotionally tortured just for admitting her budding desire for her husband, even while she is fully unaware of the nature of that desire. Instead of giving her a secure and safe space to grow amidst the confusing messages of society versus her own thought-process, ARC is crushing the blossoming bud, Bondita.

In Indian society, it was never okay for women to have desires, much less to express them. Bondita is a pure-hearted and innocent being, who is going through the normal process of physical and emotional puberty. Granted that ARC would feel uncomfortable at being the object of Bondita's infatuation mainly because she is underage and also because it is impossible for him to reciprocate her feelings, but instead of taking help of elderly female relatives, such as Bondita's mother, ARC instead went into overkill in his reaction, which is excessive for several reasons:

1. To gang up on a young girl not yet in her teens, and shame her publicly for her devotion and attachment to her husband is just plain cruel

2. To distance himself from her so thoroughly was a shock, and to conscript the services of Bondita's own mother and to distance her from the two people who she trusted with all her heart is a sadistic travesty.

3. To commit polygamy under the guise of teaching young Bondita a lesson, when she is unable to comprehend her so-called mistake of being infatuated with her husband is revengeful and regressive.

4. To bring down the wrath and disapproval of then entire patriarchal society for no fault of her own is to crush all enthusiasm, creativity, and ambition in Bondita.

5. To hold Bondita solely responsible and punish her for society's regressive practice of child marriage, and its attending evils, is not only unjust but an irredemable act.

Under the guise of making Bondita "see the light" there are extreme steps that will neither "reform" Bondita, nor the patriarchal society in which is trapped.

Sumati without speaking to Manorama or her parents, only on Anirudh words accepted for his 2nd marriage. If she is so concerned about her daughter studies, she should have worked hard (at least as a maid) without depending on her brother and made her to study at least privately. While fixing marriage with Old man also, she had not even seen his face. Believing blindly. When Bondita will be grown, she will definitely show her hatred and cold hearted behavior. Anirudh will then silently endure her behavior, showing him as victim and as sacrificing person. How can a person become successful in professional life unless he/she will have a peaceful family life at home.

Originally posted by: aimf

What troubles me most about this track is that a young girl is penalised, shamed, and emotionally tortured just for admitting her budding desire for her husband, even while she is fully unaware of the nature of that desire. Instead of giving her a secure and safe space to grow amidst the confusing messages of society versus her own thought-process, ARC is crushing the blossoming bud, Bondita.

In Indian society, it was never okay for women to have desires, much less to express them. Bondita is a pure-hearted and innocent being, who is going through the normal process of physical and emotional puberty. Granted that ARC would feel uncomfortable at being the object of Bondita's infatuation mainly because she is underage and also because it is impossible for him to reciprocate her feelings, but instead of taking help of elderly female relatives, such as Bondita's mother, ARC instead went into overkill in his reaction, which is excessive for several reasons:

1. To gang up on a young girl not yet in her teens, and shame her publicly for her devotion and attachment to her husband is just plain cruel

2. To distance himself from her so thoroughly was a shock, and to conscript the services of Bondita's own mother and to distance her from the two people who she trusted with all her heart is a sadistic travesty.

3. To commit polygamy under the guise of teaching young Bondita a lesson, when she is unable to comprehend her so-called mistake of being infatuated with her husband is revengeful and regressive.

4. To bring down the wrath and disapproval of then entire patriarchal society for no fault of her own is to crush all enthusiasm, creativity, and ambition in Bondita.

5. To hold Bondita solely responsible and punish her for society's regressive practice of child marriage, and its attending evils, is not only unjust but an irredemable act.

Under the guise of making Bondita "see the light" there are extreme steps that will neither "reform" Bondita, nor the patriarchal society in which is trapped.

Hello...

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I agree with each and every point....you said....

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Originally posted by: mprvn36

Sumati without speaking to Manorama or her parents, only on Anirudh words accepted for his 2nd marriage. If she is so concerned about her daughter studies, she should have worked hard (at least as a maid) without depending on her brother and made her to study at least privately. While fixing marriage with Old man also, she had not even seen his face. Believing blindly. When Bondita will be grown, she will definitely show her hatred and cold hearted behavior. Anirudh will then silently endure her behavior, showing him as victim and as sacrificing person. How can a person become successful in professional life unless he/she will have a peaceful family life at home.

There is no logic dear....

They want to show romance....so they made story kachara....

I don't know what they want to show....

Hello to you too! I too enjoy your posts a lot @Rudy. Until now I have been a more or less silent forum visitor, but now this track has made me ready to share my thoughts. Have a great day or night wherever you are.

Originally posted by: mprvn36

Sumati without speaking to Manorama or her parents, only on Anirudh words accepted for his 2nd marriage. If she is so concerned about her daughter studies, she should have worked hard (at least as a maid) without depending on her brother and made her to study at least privately. While fixing marriage with Old man also, she had not even seen his face. Believing blindly. When Bondita will be grown, she will definitely show her hatred and cold hearted behavior. Anirudh will then silently endure her behavior, showing him as victim and as sacrificing person. How can a person become successful in professional life unless he/she will have a peaceful family life at home.

Originally posted by: aimf

Hello to you too! I too enjoy your posts a lot @Rudy. Until now I have been a more or less silent forum visitor, but now this track has made me ready to share my thoughts. Have a great day or night wherever you are.

Thank you dear....🤗

You too have a great day...👍🏼

Originally posted by: aimf

What troubles me most about this track is that a young girl is penalised, shamed, and emotionally tortured just for admitting her budding desire for her husband, even while she is fully unaware of the nature of that desire. Instead of giving her a secure and safe space to grow amidst the confusing messages of society versus her own thought-process, ARC is crushing the blossoming bud, Bondita.

In Indian society, it was never okay for women to have desires, much less to express them. Bondita is a pure-hearted and innocent being, who is going through the normal process of physical and emotional puberty. Granted that ARC would feel uncomfortable at being the object of Bondita's infatuation mainly because she is underage and also because it is impossible for him to reciprocate her feelings, but instead of taking help of elderly female relatives, such as Bondita's mother, ARC instead went into overkill in his reaction, which is excessive for several reasons:

1. To gang up on a young girl not yet in her teens, and shame her publicly for her devotion and attachment to her husband is just plain cruel

2. To distance himself from her so thoroughly was a shock, and to conscript the services of Bondita's own mother and to distance her from the two people who she trusted with all her heart is a sadistic travesty.

3. To commit polygamy under the guise of teaching young Bondita a lesson, when she is unable to comprehend her so-called mistake of being infatuated with her husband is revengeful and regressive.

4. To bring down the wrath and disapproval of then entire patriarchal society for no fault of her own is to crush all enthusiasm, creativity, and ambition in Bondita.

5. To hold Bondita solely responsible and punish her for society's regressive practice of child marriage, and its attending evils, is not only unjust but an irredemable act.

Under the guise of making Bondita "see the light" there are extreme steps that will neither "reform" Bondita, nor the patriarchal society in which is trapped.

Beautifully analysed dear.. such a disturbing track as a human.. hope makers are left with some sense..

I feel bon is much more sensible than ani though she is in such vulnerable age.. ani to xxxxxxxx ...

N they r defending this track 😳😳😳 i don't like to pass any adverse comment on actors.... Caz characters n persons are different... But after watching yesterday's interview i am very furious n sad towards how pravishta was defending ani's sacrifice..

I am feeling like I don't even want any interview of ani-bon together either it should be ani -ae or bon alone

Originally posted by: Rudhita18

Alas, aisa kuch nhi hoga when she will grow up she is gonna thank Anirudh for his so called sacrifice 🤮🤮... . And may they can even start Anidita romance aswell😖😖

Now want bon batuk pairing once she grows up. And and see this coming 👍🏼