Originally posted by: phibi
I mean, I didn't understand a well-known professor who genuinely cares about his students can deny a girl and broke up for a reason which actually he supports...high education..
I know as a wife he doesn't want the girl with high career demands but still, he is supporting Anokhi to stay in his college for her bright future... does he actually thinks she should be just a homemaker after studying this hard.?...
I mean ek professor ki ye soch...hard to digest
No one truly knows what Shaurya thinks or wants. He is an introvert for most part who tends to fall in with his family's plans. However he did break up with Shagun, I think there are two reasons -
1) He did not want to marry a very professionally ambitious person because in his mind career oriented women tend to choose their career over their family. He has no problem with women education or their ambitions in general, he just does not want his wife to prioritize her career over their marital bliss. His mindset is the result of his upbringing, his mom's supposed choice and the fact there is no women in his circle who seems to have balanced both aspects of life successfully.
2)I think he truly did not care for Shagun and I am unsure if they ever shared their dreams and fears with each other. Shagun had to know that the family did not like working women, still she not only applied for higher education (nothing wrong with it) but never shared that with Shaurya (I have an issue with this). Then on eve of their engagement, she not only broke the news but expected Shaurya to accept it leaving Shaurya in difficult position with his family. He mentioned that he fought with his family to get her guest lecturer job but she was not satisfied even with that. In other words from his perspective, Shagun broke his trust and abandoned him while choosing her career over him. His fear of abandonment kicked up once again.
For a minute let us forget that Shagun was a woman, If a girl was getting engaged with someone who had a steady job, however on the eve of their engagement, woman's fiance told her that he got an opportunity for higher education and will be abroad for two years before returning and marrying her. How many women will take this kindly and accept the preposition happily? How many families will be okay with it? Shagun's timing and approach was wrong.