The Past Comes Calling - Page 30

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Just realizing the hilarity of this.....Previously, Imlie was protecting Adi from PD waale cuz he DIDN'T want to accept his marriage with her😆. Now she will be protecting him cuz he HAS accepted he is her husband but still can't nibhaao the rishta since woh dusre rishton mein bandha hai😆.

Let's see what the next variation of this majboori will be😆

This show is taking me for spin. can't predict anything.Good in a way though.. This Adi babu flips are making my head spin.. still have trust on cvs.. till now they weaved the story so brilliantly and i think they will take it further same way.Imlie is pretty strong charecter just like Satyakaam. I think they won't mess with it and also based hug scene you can see they didn't taint Adilie.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

We know that Adi- Imlie's situation is different from Dev- Meethi's situation by miles. DC actually gave dhoka to Meethi- he was a married man who had an affair with Meethi & left her. She had a child out of wedlock & both of them had to face the consequences of DC's betrayal.

Adi-Imlie had an actual marriage- though forced. Also he has never kept Imlie in the dark about anything. She always knew that Adi was in a relationship with Malini & she even participated in their marriage. Nothing has been hidden from her. So there is no dhoka. Yes there was hurt & non- acceptance of their marriage. But he has not betrayed her in anyway. So Adi is anything but like Dev.

Adi Imlie should have told the truth to SK & Meethi the last time they had come to PD. They would have been hurt & angered but would have understood Adi's pov. SK wouldn't have forced Imlie on Adi where she was not wanted. He loves that girl & would have respected her decision. Imlie's fear for Adi's life & Adi's zidd to ignore the truth of their marriage really messed up their opportunity to come clean.

As you have mentioned that this trip around, the way Adi is behaving & declaring Imlie to be his wife in front of any Tom, Dick & Harry has given the impression that they are living a true married couple life. They even stayed out at night. So now the matter is truly complicated.

SK would consider that Adi has betrayed Imlie the same way DC betrayed Meethi. But this is the consequence that Adi- Imlie's silence on their unhappiness with their forced marriage & hiding Adi's 2nd marriage is going to be. SK would lose all his respect for Adi & go for his blood due to his betrayal.

@bold: Yes, that's true. Adi took Imlie along through every decision he made and didn't hide anything from her. In that sense, he hasn't betrayed her in so much as sort of not given her her due for a long time. So yes, no doubt he is not in the Dev category cuz Dev straight up lied to Mithi and then abandoned her without looking back. That reminds me, even Mithi acknowledged in yesterday's scene that she is responsible for her decision to sleep with Dev and have his baby so you can't put the full blame on him alone😆.

Re: Adi-Imlie.....yeah that's the main problem now. Adi has declared very candidly over and over again this time in PD that he is with Imlie out of his own free will. He has given a loud and clear impression that he has fully accepted Imlie and they are a normal married couple. This is very different from the last time he was here when he was clearly showing reluctance to be around Imlie and the rest of the PD waale. So after doing all this, it will be a strike against him whenever they learn the truth about him and Malini. Even if by that point, Adi may have emotionally pulled back from Malini....but the impression that will come out is that he spent all this time in PD treating Imlie as his wife and then he went back to another wife.

That said, I guess all this is a ways away....once Adi leaves PD this time and soon Imlie will also return to Delhi, all this possibility of SK finding out will again go to the backburner for a while as the situation in Delhi with Malini and the Tripathis drama takes center stage again.

Respect will definitely take a big hit whenever the truth is revealed. That is inevitable. Adi should enjoy all this respect and regard from SK while he has it😆.

Originally posted by: Tulips123

This show is taking me for spin. can't predict anything.Good in a way though.. This Adi babu flips are making my head spin.. still have trust on cvs.. till now they weaved the story so brilliantly and i think they will take it further same way.Imlie is pretty strong charecter just like Satyakaam. I think they won't mess with it and also based hug scene you can see they didn't taint Adilie.

I don't think they will taint Adi-Imlie....but yes, they do need to be more careful with the words and actions they choose to show from Adi in the coming phase because it's going to get extra tricky now.

Since he is in this in between zone right now where he's acknowledged Imlie has a place in his heart, that he does consider himself her husband but that he's also caught in other relationships back in Delhi.....they have to find a way to navigate it to show what the conflict between the heart and majboori is. If he is in that zone of needing to realize that he cannot live without Imlie no matter what zimmedaari he is feeling burdened by, then that needs to be conveyed in clearer terms. Doing the usual vague dialogues on Adi may not work as much anymore😆. They will need to draw a line about where he is with Malini and what keeps pulling him back to Imlie.

LOL I keep forgetting to mention one of the other amusing exchanges from the episode.

Aparna says to AC ki in jhagdon se hi toh rishta nikhar ke kundan banta hai or something to that effect....lol essentially saying that fights between a couple help strengthen their relationship long term. To which AC replies, "Really? Then you guys must think that mine and Dev's relationship is the greatest ever".🤣

Kabhi kabhi AC ka sarcasm is bang on😆

Aparna is a sweetheart but her naivete just makes me shake my head....lol can't she see that Adi-Malini aren't even able to manage a single fight/issue between themselves? They are just not the kind of couple who can navigate conflicts because they don't know how to communicate with each other....they are both in their own heads and they talk past each other in many ways. Conflicts can only be navigated, resolved, managed if there is communication.

I would like to see this theme be worked through in the coming epis....no glossing over Adi-Malini's fights for once and let everyone see how incapable they both are of actually resolving their fights. Adi does need to answer for his lies but I hope he also raises the issue of Malini walking out of his house over just this much only.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don't think they will taint Adi-Imlie....but yes, they do need to be more careful with the words and actions they choose to show from Adi in the coming phase because it's going to get extra tricky now.

Since he is in this in between zone right now where he's acknowledged Imlie has a place in his heart, that he does consider himself her husband but that he's also caught in other relationships back in Delhi.....they have to find a way to navigate it to show what the conflict between the heart and majboori is. If he is in that zone of needing to realize that he cannot live without Imlie no matter what zimmedaari he is feeling burdened by, then that needs to be conveyed in clearer terms. Doing the usual vague dialogues on Adi may not work as much anymore😆. They will need to draw a line about where he is with Malini and what keeps pulling him back to Imlie.

Yup clarity of thoughts is a MUST... even I his confused state of mind.. we get it he is in kashmakash and will remain in it for a while still choose better words to show that he may be fighting an internal battle but do.not casually write down making him look like bad guy..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I keep forgetting to mention one of the other amusing exchanges from the episode.

Aparna says to AC ki in jhagdon se hi toh rishta nikhar ke kundan banta hai or something to that effect....lol essentially saying that fights between a couple help strengthen their relationship long term. To which AC replies, "Really? Then you guys must think that mine and Dev's relationship is the greatest ever".🤣

Kabhi kabhi AC ka sarcasm is bang on😆

Aparna is a sweetheart but her naivete just makes me shake my head....lol can't she see that Adi-Malini aren't even able to manage a single fight/issue between themselves? They are just not the kind of couple who can navigate conflicts because they don't know how to communicate with each other....they are both in their own heads and they talk past each other in many ways. Conflicts can only be navigated, resolved, managed if there is communication.

I would like to see this theme be worked through in the coming epis....no glossing over Adi-Malini's fights for once and let everyone see how incapable they both are of actually resolving their fights. Adi does need to answer for his lies but I hope he also raises the issue of Malini walking out of his house over just this much only.

That was hilarious 🤣 but at the same time I was like but aunty aap jo suggestion de rahi hain khud pe kyon nahi apply karti. That is divorce the tucha and be happy.😆 aapki kaunsi majboori hai

See aparna ki baat also had a point that the challenges one faces in married life nikharooes it.. it is about fighting and resolving and finding solutions together getting to figure the other one a bit better with each disagreement .. in that sense she was right at her place but problem.toh yehi hai ke yeh dono jaante bhujte huye bhi about their issues aren't even touching on them or trying to resolve.. that malini and her mom are so stuck up that they don't even see that they could be at fault too .. ohir toh kundan nahi koyla hi banta hai bhasham hi hota hai jab you shut down the door of navigating through issues together and be like we are best we can make no mistake and everyone else should do our pooja..that is the essential problem..malini just isn't admitting or can admit that she has taken a wrong step and over reached ya her leave everything aside everytime a problem arises and shutting adi even if he wants to talk is only making things worse between them making him.more and more distant.. which he always was emotionally.. while imlie ki yehi quality atleast su ti toh hai whether they agree or not is different thing is bringing them.closer they have that give and take wala rishta...hence they are turning into.kundan itne mainstream saath na bhi hoke while here it is only turning into raakh

Earlier someone in the thread had mentioned the point regarding Adi's reluctance to reveal the truth about his marriage to Imlie to anyone because that would mean separation from Imlie. I think there is 100% truth to this point.

When the forced marriage was fresh, Adi was angry & refused to acknowledge the truth of the marriage. But he was still ready to come clean. He planned to reveal the truth to Malini & then his family. However after Malini fainted & realising her fragile state, he was afraid to reveal the truth.

After that he tried his hardest to make Imlie leave his home. But someway or the other his family wouldn't let her leave. Finally he himself went with Imlie to PD to leave her & made up his mind to reveal all his kaand to SK. But once again was stopped by Imlie who feared for his life.

Parallely to this, Imlie slowly started to become his focus because she was naive & had a habit of getting herself into trouble. His protectiveness for her continued to increase even though he distanced himself from Imlie with anger & accusations. But he still wanted to be loyal to his commitment to Malini & managed to leave Imlie in PD. But then came the monumental gunshot incident.

The gunshot incident where he realised that Imlie could actually die broke down all his walls. There was an outpour of all his suppressed emotions for Imlie. When he was trying to hold onto Imlie to anchor her , he emotionally also bound his life with hers in some fundamental way.

We can then see how any mention of revealing their truth on their own stopped from Adi's side. He actively tried to prevent the truth from being revealed. I do not remember any incident except for the vague statement by Adi to Nishant about him revealing his secret when the chances of people being hurt would be reduced. If there are other incidents apart from this then let me know. But I think that was the last time that Adi actively spoke about revealing the truth.

All his discussions with Imlie have then revolved around how truth cannot be hidden & will be revealed on its own. But he didn't bring up revealing the truth by themselves post the gunshot incident. This was because he had somehow accepted Imlie as a part of his life. We then saw how his comfort with her began to increase, his protective gestures started to increase. He actively started to show his worry for her well being though most of the times disguised in scolding. No one can forget the bridge rescue incident. Anytime Imlie was not in his radar he would become restless.

Basically he didn't want to reveal the truth post gunshot because that would mean separation from Imlie. As soon as he reveals the truth to anyone, the only rational advice he is going to get is to break off his relationship with Imlie. But now Adi cannot live without Imlie. So it is a delicious conundrum.

The story is really structured so well. The entire journey of Adi- Imlie relationship is so well charted. But both Adi & Imlie are going to have to face the consequences for their actions if they want to be together. That's the price they will have to pay if they want their happily ever after.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

That was hilarious 🤣 but at the same time I was like but aunty aap jo suggestion de rahi hain khud pe kyon nahi apply karti. That is divorce the tucha and be happy.😆 aapki kaunsi majboori hai

See aparna ki baat also had a point that the challenges one faces in married life nikharooes it.. it is about fighting and resolving and finding solutions together getting to figure the other one a bit better with each disagreement .. in that sense she was right at her place but problem.toh yehi hai ke yeh dono jaante bhujte huye bhi about their issues aren't even touching on them or trying to resolve.. that malini and her mom are so stuck up that they don't even see that they could be at fault too .. ohir toh kundan nahi koyla hi banta hai bhasham hi hota hai jab you shut down the door of navigating through issues together and be like we are best we can make no mistake and everyone else should do our pooja..that is the essential problem..malini just isn't admitting or can admit that she has taken a wrong step and over reached ya her leave everything aside everytime a problem arises and shutting adi even if he wants to talk is only making things worse between them making him.more and more distant.. which he always was emotionally.. while imlie ki yehi quality atleast su ti toh hai whether they agree or not is different thing is bringing them.closer they have that give and take wala rishta...hence they are turning into.kundan itne mainstream saath na bhi hoke while here it is only turning into raakh

LOL oh ofcourse Aparna's point is valid on a general level that fights can help couples work through their issues and come out stronger because of it.

My point was only regarding the irony of how misplaced Aparna's thought process is on Adi-Malini....they've all been witness to how every little fight b/w AM has been blowing up right in front of all of them time and again.....still they are in some delusion ki all these fights are strengthening AM ka rishta😆. I guess it's more like hope that they want to believe ki sab theek hai ya ho jaayega.

Here again, Adi ke khud ke boasts about how much he loves Malini and how she is the only one for him are going to come back to bite him. Family waale are also hung up on that only ki Adi ITNA pyar karta hai Malini se toh sab solve kar hi lega😆. They want to believe his grand declarations rather than see the proof in his actions that he's shown over and over again by not being able to resolve his issues with Malini.

All the things Aparna is talking about are applicable to Adi-Imlie. THEY are the pati-patni jinka rishta jhagdon se nikhar kar kundan ban raha hai😆. They are the pair that are able to improve the communication between them through each set of conflicts they've gone through....understanding has improved with each fight, unlike with AM where understanding has decreased with each fight.

But Tripathis will remain clueless and keep expecting things from the AM rishta that just don't exist😆

I just really want Adi to not guilt trip over Malini leaving the house, rather question her over why she left the house over this one misunderstanding.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL oh ofcourse Aparna's point is valid on a general level that fights can help couples work through their issues and come out stronger because of it.

My point was only regarding the irony of how misplaced Aparna's thought process is on Adi-Malini....they've all been witness to how every little fight b/w AM has been blowing up right in front of all of them time and again.....still they are in some delusion ki all these fights are strengthening AM ka rishta😆. I guess it's more like hope that they want to believe ki sab theek hai ya ho jaayega.

Here again, Adi ke khud ke boasts about how much he loves Malini and how she is the only one for him are going to come back to bite him. Family waale are also hung up on that only ki Adi ITNA pyar karta hai Malini se toh sab solve kar hi lega😆. They want to believe his grand declarations rather than see the proof in his actions that he's shown over and over again by not being able to resolve his issues with Malini.

All the things Aparna is talking about are applicable to Adi-Imlie. THEY are the pati-patni jinka rishta jhagdon se nikhar kar kundan ban raha hai😆. They are the pair that are able to improve the communication between them through each set of conflicts they've gone through....understanding has improved with each fight, unlike with AM where understanding has decreased with each fight.

But Tripathis will remain clueless and keep expecting things from the AM rishta that just don't exist😆

I just really want Adi to not guilt trip over Malini leaving the house, rather question her over why she left the house over this one misunderstanding.

Oh acha like that 😆 sorry galti se mistake ho gaya samajhne main mere ko😊 hahab yup that way toh they have shut their eyes along with Aditya too in seeing the major underlying issues and have made peace with yeh saaara gloss is real pyaar and sach main they are so in love with no issues in between them when roz roz they see them having disagreements to the extent that malini came crying to them about ek choti si baat and then thay escalated to this point and now she has left and they still think it is all thanda thanda cool cool and are nikharooing their rishta by this.. hahah IF Only... if this isn't called laat maar ke jaana and literally no value dikhana of anybody or anything then idk what it is ..

It also shows lack of understanding of each other in between family hi adi keh deta hai and yeh bewakoof maan lete hain instead of guiding them being experienced ke nahi iss tarah issues solve nahi hote nahi kiye jaate.. bas ek token sorry ya groveling doesn't make everything alright .. they have first hand witnessed how the car issue was escalated too then too malini had left bina baat kiye inlie had to intervene set up a whole.show adi had to do his usual job of mopping but then too none of them tried to explain ke theek hai abhi toh dulha ho gayi but address it on your own in private..

Sew grand gestures can work.as first step ke chalo.isse pighal jaaye but uske baad main baat toh address karo on your own time when you feel.comfortable enough again to resolve and reach a conclusion.. adi ne khud apne liye ghadha khoda hai.. by hum.sab theek kar deinge way and distancing himself so much from the family and not having anybody. To really share his real thoughts.. besides imlie. Matlab jab uski aoni khud ki maa hi nahi samjhti uska.mental state toh phir kisi aur se kya kehna 😆

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Basically he didn't want to reveal the truth post gunshot because that would mean separation from Imlie. As soon as he reveals the truth to anyone, the only rational advice he is going to get is to break off his relationship with Imlie. But now Adi cannot live without Imlie. So it is a delicious conundrum.

The story is really structured so well. The entire journey of Adi- Imlie relationship is so well charted. But both Adi & Imlie are going to have to face the consequences for their actions if they want to be together. That's the price they will have to pay if they want their happily ever after.

That is obviously all there in his subconscience. If they showed him hiding the truth consciously to keep Imlie with him while he still also keeps being Malini's husband, you can understand why it will start going into a shady territory. So that's again the delicate balance that needs to be handled properly.

I don't think revealing the truth was even an issue after a point. Both Imlie and Adi had accepted consciously there would be too much collateral damage from the truth so it's best to forget about revealing it. But to me, the more interesting thing was Imlie's question to Adi about "Why did you bring me back here"? after the gunshot incident.....Adi called it zimmedaari at that time in helpless frustration....that's where I would say we saw a more clear sign of how Adi had begun to shift in the zone of not being able to live without Imlie.....of needing her in his life, in his home. Ofcourse it was all still in the subconscious zone even then.

But now, going forward....it may move into a more conscious zone. He has admitted he wasn't being able to live in his own house without Imlie....but will he continue to realize it more once he goes back without her? And if he realizes that, how can he still play husband to Malini as usual? That's the line they need to manage properly.

Ofcourse consequences will be faced by both Adi-Imlie for their actions....but one can see why the issues with Adi are in a more delicate space right now and need to be managed writing-wise.