Dulhan (Hum) Sami,Sumbul,Faizan,Mashal - Page 36

Originally posted by: cutejodikangal

Doubt his dad would’ve wanted her to live with her rapist or worst yet, the person who wanted to get her raped? Amal or any girl for that matter don’t need no izzat and acceptance from a guy that too the one who tried to get her raped. She can very well forgive Mikaal and move on with her life. There is an entire world out there for her and she can find another respectable guy in the future if she wants to, because lets face it- love without respect isn’t going to sustain and how is she ever going to bring herself to respect Mikaal? 😕

Yeah I get what you’re saying. I still think he deserves a bit of respect after saving her from Shahmeer but if she wants to move on and start afresh it’s her choice. Will have to wait and see.

Originally posted by: Geraldin

Yeah I get what you’re saying. I still think he deserves a bit of respect after saving her from Shahmeer but if she wants to move on and start afresh it’s her choice. Will have to wait and see.

When you save someone you earn their love and empathy not respect, at least not when a guy who himself was actually the reason why she was here in the first place. In this world, Respect is the most difficult thing to earn and Mikhaal lost it even before he earned.

Originally posted by: cutejodikangal

When you save someone you earn their love and empathy not respect, at least not when a guy who himself was actually the reason why she was here in the first place. In this world, Respect is the most difficult thing to earn and Mikhaal lost it even before he earned.

Yes but don’t you think he’s done whatever he could to earn it back? He admits he lost her respect for what he did and he also told her that he would do whatever he could to earn it. And to the best of my knowledge he’s done just that. One of my previous messages goes into detail about it so won’t repeat it. Whatever happens he’s done his best to be forgiven by Amal. If he has to die or be put to jail forever, he said he’ll accept it as his just punishment for what he did to her. You can’t label someone as a sinner forever when they’ve tried their best to repent. The balls in her court whether she wants to forgive him or not.

Originally posted by: Geraldin

Yes but don’t you think he’s done whatever he could to earn it back? He admits he lost her respect for what he did and he also told her that he would do whatever he could to earn it. And to the best of my knowledge he’s done just that. One of my previous messages goes into detail about it so won’t repeat it. Whatever happens he’s done his best to be forgiven by Amal. If he has to die or be put to jail forever, he said he’ll accept it as his just punishment for what he did to her. You can’t label someone as a sinner forever when they’ve tried their best to repent. The balls in her court whether she wants to forgive him or not.

She already told him that some sins cannot be forgiven which is true here. Because what he did is something that can never be taken back. Whatever he did to redeem himself will earn him her forgiveness which I think she will grant but that doesn’t mean he earned the right to live with her.

Originally posted by: cutejodikangal

She already told him that some sins cannot be forgiven which is true here. Because what he did is something that can never be taken back. Whatever he did to redeem himself will earn him her forgiveness which I think she will grant but that doesn’t mean he earned the right to live with her.

True she may never want to live with him, and that may the harshest justice for him. I still want a fairy tale ending but otherwise it’s punishment enough for him to live without his mohabbat, to have to suffer the pain of this one sided love.

“I never knew until that moment how bad it could hurt to lose something you never really had.” - quotes about broken hearts.

Originally posted by: Geraldin

True she may never want to live with him, and that may the harshest justice for him. I still want a fairy tale ending but otherwise it’s punishment enough for him to live without his mohabbat, to have to suffer the pain of this one sided love.

“I never knew until that moment how bad it could hurt to lose something you never really had.” - quotes about broken hearts.

I think it’s probably better for her if she chooses to be with him. Not necessarily forgive him but compromise n accept mikaal. By all accounts he has changed n why should she struggle for money. Struggle to get a job, have to look at her stepmother, her stupid step sister n stepbrother. She could stay here n live a comfortable life. Why risk struggling more and have the possibility of meeting another person like shameer or the old mikaal.

Originally posted by: Gobi13

I think it’s probably better for her if she chooses to be with him. Not necessarily forgive him but compromise n accept mikaal. By all accounts he has changed n why should she struggle for money. Struggle to get a job, have to look at her stepmother, her stupid step sister n stepbrother. She could stay here n live a comfortable life. Why risk struggling more and have the possibility of meeting another person like shameer or the old mikaal.

But why does she need to marry Mikaal in order to live a comfortable life? I don't know about forgiveness, but I do think they should go their separate ways and the families should provide her with money, a home or something to make up for what their sons did to her.

Originally posted by: Gobi13

I think it’s probably better for her if she chooses to be with him. Not necessarily forgive him but compromise n accept mikaal. By all accounts he has changed n why should she struggle for money. Struggle to get a job, have to look at her stepmother, her stupid step sister n stepbrother. She could stay here n live a comfortable life. Why risk struggling more and have the possibility of meeting another person like shameer or the old mikaal.

I'll be happy if she ends up with Mikaal, just because I love happy endings. I never wormed up the the idea of open end.. or a girl being independant and lonely in the end. 😳

Most important thing is that he is regretted what he did to Amal and also save her from Shameer that's why I think Amal will forgive him and also will accept him as husband because in some episode she was requiring him to accept the marriage when he was offering her a seprate house. Other side director directly showing us different between mikal and shameer's character shamir till the was not regretted with his action so may be we can get happy ending.

One more thing Allah also said if a person is regretted on his sin and asked for sorry you should forgive and give him a chance so may be..

Originally posted by: Arshi1195

But why does she need to marry Mikaal in order to live a comfortable life? I don't know about forgiveness, but I do think they should go their separate ways and the families should provide her with money, a home or something to make up for what their sons did to her.

She could but given the fact tht mikaal doesn’t actually have any income or property to give. I don’t know exact laws of Pakistan but I don’t think she would get anything from him.