Chhoti si, Cute si Ladki - Page 13

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Hey, beautifully summarized again.

LOL@ having forgotten after 90 epis of Adi being a boor to Imlie that this is how he was with her originally and now he's coming back to that, with the added nuance of love.

He's always used anger and scolding to keep her at a distance....fearing that if he softens even a bit, she will take over his heart. Now he's finally learning what a losing battle he was fighting and she was always meant to find a way into his heart because she is unlike any other....and he's felt a connect with her unlike any other.

No really, if any people have missed the initial epis, they would be really finding this change in Adi's behaviour towards Imlie drastic when in reality this was actually a part of how he originally behaved with her before the forced marriage😆

But rewatching these initial epis made me realise how different Adi's behaviour with Imlie is going to be once she is back in T house. He may try to limit it but he will not be able to curb his instinctual softness towards her.

And this is going to be easily noticeable to all his family because the change would be too drastic for them to comprehend. Malini toh would definitely notice & that would make her cling to him more because she definitely doesn't have the emotional strength to leave him if her current behaviour is anything to go by.

On the Dev bit - the only reason he is being placed in PD right now is for someone to know that truth. My money is on Aditya. Only because we know Aditya is not Dev but he does not. Also, he needs to get the magnitude of the mess his first lie/ hiding the truth has created. If he returned as is, he will manage the situation back home and everything will be back to almost normal except for the moping around that he is going to go through. But if he returns with the knowledge of Dev’s truth, he will be forced to compare on the situations. He needs to make peace with the fact that he never left Imlie when she needed him and there was no chance he would ever do what Dev did with Mithi by fathering a child and conveniently moving away; with or without knowing about the child.

And all this realization will add another dimension to his equation with Imlie - one of more naked protection against injustice; that she is the victim in this case and should never have gone through what she did for 19 years of her life. Imlie is his priority over everyone and everything else. So he is not going to go about feeling sad for the others for long.

Also, Mithi needs her closure in order for her to do justice to her equation with SK

Not to go off topic but Sumbul shared in her story a scene from one of the beginning episodes- when Adi was kidnapped and they were all in a barn with buffaloes, Imlie laughs EXACTLY like how Adi did in today’s episode 😍😍 So cute to see the comparison. You guys should check it out when you get a Chance.

@ AY @ nadaan @ pamk06

Agree with all your discussion regarding Adi being the more vulnerable one in the relationship. He is never going to forget Imlie actually leaving him in this lifetime at least, if not due to how it unraveled him from within, then at least due to how much papad he had to belo to earn a place in her life again😆

The makers have shown time & time again how Adi becomes restless if he does not know Imlie's whereabouts or if she is in any sort of danger. Even the slightest change in her routine raises his antennas, case in point would be him missing Imlie immediately after returning home when Imlie was invited to Chaturvedi house.

This latest feat of Imlie leaving him, not getting easily mollified into returning back, reassuring him all the time that she would be fine to live alone as a married woman, not demanding anything from him ever has imbibed in his mind the fear that she can leave him anytime. Though Imlie insists that she will always be married to only him, she has yet to give him any assurance that she feels anything for him because of his husband status or beacuse of him as a person. So this will be a major vulnerability for him until he is assured by Imlie that she wants to be with him & have a relationship with him not because they are married but because she loves him.

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Not to go off topic but Sumbul shared in her story a scene from one of the beginning episodes- when Adi was kidnapped and they were all in a barn with buffaloes, Imlie laughs EXACTLY like how Adi did in today’s episode 😍😍 So cute to see the comparison. You guys should check it out when you get a Chance.

Ye lo 🤣 nice parallel clearly had no memory of it otherwise

https://instagram.com/stories/sumbul_touqeer/2535868733597232644?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&igshid=um9nwdkctbo3

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Ye lo 🤣 nice parallel clearly had no memory of it otherwise

https://instagram.com/stories/sumbul_touqeer/2535868733597232644?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&igshid=um9nwdkctbo3

Thank you for sharing 😊 can you please do a comparison GIF please please?🤗🤗

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Thank you for sharing 😊 can you please do a comparison GIF please please?🤗🤗

I posted adi laughing ones in creations gallery. 😆 will get to this.. 😃

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: THIS. And it's just such a fascinating thing to watch unfold na? 😆....He has recognized she is his need, he has even TOLD her she is his need.....lol but she has shown that he isn't her need yet...that she can live without him😆....and that's a bitter pill to swallow for him right now. It just also stems from how their personalities are also fundamentally different.....Imlie is a person whom life has taught with many hard knocks what it is to lose and keep moving forward even after loss. Adi has never faced loss like she has....so he is struggling with it more. He is experiencing this fear for the first time and it will stay with him until Imlie is able to give him that assurance that she won't leave him.

In any other show, when the FL accepts someone as her husband and tells him she will always be his wife only, that usually works enough for a reassurance😆....but yahaan kahaani ulti hai. Imlie never budges from her stance that he is her husband and she will always only consider herself to be his wife....but at the same time she is willing to live her life by herself without him.....lol that's what keeps Adi restless in this fear of losing her....ki here he is coming undone without her and there she's like "bye bye, ab jaayiye".😆

So true about Malini too....she loves a facade of Adi but neither her nor Adi fully realize that yet. He needs to start displaying his true self in Delhi also for this realization to come about. PD otherwise is always like an alternate universe where he shows his true self and then bottles everything up back in Delhi again😆.....hopefully he won't be able to do that this time.

So true, that she is so adamant that he is her husband and equally adamant that she can live alone. Aditya is also so "ulat khopdi". Pehle she was calling him a "husband" so he had an issue and now she is calling him a husband then too he has an issue. But the issue is different. First he did not want to do anything with being her husband and how he wants to be everything related to and including her husband , but Imlie is only giving him the title. 😆

I do think fear/anger/restlessness of not able to do what he wants to do for Imlie due to societal demands and his own actions, is going to bring out his true self though. He might try a lot to suppress but where Imlie is concerned, we all know his control is feeble. Also, as it comes out, its going to affect his relationship with Malini. He will try to make amends but the major difference is, previously his heart was totally set on Malini and he was so sure of her place in his life and he did not know any other way so he could go that extra mile to do things for her but this time its different. He has experienced a different relationship, feelings and now he is himself is wavering. It is going to be difficult. He is currently behaving as if he is all Ok with going back to his old life but its going to be tough ride for him 😊

Originally posted by: Lodestar

@ AY @ nadaan @ pamk06

Agree with all your discussion regarding Adi being the more vulnerable one in the relationship. He is never going to forget Imlie actually leaving him in this lifetime at least, if not due to how it unraveled him from within, then at least due to how much papad he had to belo to earn a place in her life again😆

The makers have shown time & time again how Adi becomes restless if he does not know Imlie's whereabouts or if she is in any sort of danger. Even the slightest change in her routine raises his antennas, case in point would be him missing Imlie immediately after returning home when Imlie was invited to Chaturvedi house.

This latest feat of Imlie leaving him, not getting easily mollified into returning back, reassuring him all the time that she would be fine to live alone as a married woman, not demanding anything from him ever has imbibed in his mind the fear that she can leave him anytime. Though Imlie insists that she will always be married to only him, she has yet to give him any assurance that she feels anything for him because of his husband status or beacuse of him as a person. So this will be a major vulnerability for him until he is assured by Imlie that she wants to be with him & have a relationship with him not because they are married but because she loves him.

Yep, those were the obvious ones....it also cracks me up to this day that in the middle of his own marriage with Malini, during the varmaala also he was more busy with being worried about where Imlie is🤣......it does make me wonder if he would have managed to complete the remaining rituals if he hadn't been assured ki ab Imlie yahin hai, saamne hai even if he otherwise didn't want to accept her place in his life.

This again sort of ties back to one of my fav. conversations b/w Adi-Imlie at the hospital....when Imlie tells him all these symbols of marriage have meaning only if you assign faith to them....otherwise it's just a dhaaga....if he wants to believe it's a dhaaga, that is what it will become for him. She has long since resigned herself to the fact that all these symbols of their marriage mean nothing to him.....she's never pressured him to accept them either.

Which is why in Monday's epi when Adi starts feeling hurt or upset for the first time over the idea of her removing her sindoor/MS, it's precisely because the faith crystallized for him in that moment.....he believed in the symbols of their marriage because he now believed in their marriage. Otherwise as he was thinking to himself also, all this sindoor/MS stuff never mattered to him before.....it only took on meaning when it got attached to Imlie. Yes, he married Malini with those rituals too but I don't think any of those rituals, those symbols ever really registered on him as deeply as they have in Imlie's case.....he checked off the box with Malini.....while in Imlie's case, every symbol is an article of faith to him now.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

On the Dev bit - the only reason he is being placed in PD right now is for someone to know that truth. My money is on Aditya. Only because we know Aditya is not Dev but he does not. Also, he needs to get the magnitude of the mess his first lie/ hiding the truth has created. If he returned as is, he will manage the situation back home and everything will be back to almost normal except for the moping around that he is going to go through. But if he returns with the knowledge of Dev’s truth, he will be forced to compare on the situations. He needs to make peace with the fact that he never left Imlie when she needed him and there was no chance he would ever do what Dev did with Mithi by fathering a child and conveniently moving away; with or without knowing about the child.

And all this realization will add another dimension to his equation with Imlie - one of more naked protection against injustice; that she is the victim in this case and should never have gone through what she did for 19 years of her life. Imlie is his priority over everyone and everything else. So he is not going to go about feeling sad for the others for long.

Also, Mithi needs her closure in order for her to do justice to her equation with SK

Regarding Dev, I get a feeling that may be SK ppl will kidnap Dev so that Aditya and Imli does not meet him. I don’t know how but may be SK and Mithi will convince Imli to go back with Aditya to hide the truth and that will pave the way for Imli to get back to T’s house.

It is also possible Aditya could find out in PD, but in the precap Dev was kidnapped before Aditya turned.