Is this really Women Empowerment ? - Page 3

Originally posted by: rikara94

Inko lagta hai women empowerment woh hota hai jisme aurat mahan hoti hai, aurat ka dil bada hota, jo apne upar huye zulam ko bhul kar sab ko maaf kar deti, aur jiske liye pati devta hota phir chahe kitna bhi torture and zaleel kyu na krta ho👍🏼

Exactly... Ani ne kaha mujhe Bhagwaan nahi insaan samjho.... lekin bhaisaahab pehle aap apni Zimmedari ko Devi nahi bachhi toh samjho 👍🏼

I don't use insta di....cause I'm very obedient bacha🤣.....but I'm always on watty ...cause I can't live without reading😆...see you there soon after my practicals 👍🏼.....Love you a lot didi ❤️

Originally posted by: leanne_1983

Beautifully written Rimi👏 Someone had also shared screenshots of your instagram post on twitter👍🏼

I don't want to say anything anymore about the track, I'm just too too mentally exhausted. I don't have anymore respect for ARC and neither the makers. No matter how they try to justify it in the end, it will never be the same. And personally I think Anirudh's behaviour cannot be justified at all. The makers have destroyed this beautiful show and played with our emotions. In the name of Women Empowerment they are promoting Polygamy and from the looks of it are even normalising Child Mental Abuse, something not expected from a show like Barrister Babu and a character like ARC. I can't support this show anymore. They can get support from the TRP Aunties they destroyed this show for. I haven't even watched tonight's episode. I'm glad I didn't because I heard it traumatised a lot of people. This show has traumatised me like no other. I don't want it to damage me anymore, that's why I am taking a step back.

Yes ... this is mental torture and I am glad I have decided to leave all this behind! The saddest part is that, I was a person who would re watch old episodes but now I can't even do that!

💔

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Agree Rimi!!

This is not woman empowerment in any sense. It was so heartbreaking to watch Bondita. I had stopped watching the show long back but Rudhita have always been very special to me. I had stopped watching because I wanted to remember Rudhita happily. But somehow watched it yesterday and I regret it so bad. I thought I had become very detached towards this show but watching yesterday's episode was so painful and I am not able to take it out of my mind. Really don't know why, probably because still women face such things, and being a woman myself I just felt what Ani did was wrong on so many levels e😡 and disgusting too🤢 That girl was begging him not to go ahead with this but no he didn't pay any heed. Frankly no woman deserves to go through such humiliation and pain in her life💔🥺 And Bon being a kid makes his act even more disgusting🤢 What is he even thinking? What will Bon gain from this mess? He again made her a dusri aurat or chodi hui aurat🤢 will she ever get the same respect from the society she used to get earlier? Society will ridicule her, saying her husband brought another wife🤢 is this what ARC was dreaming for her? Is this the same guy who refused to marry Mini because marrying multiple times is wrong as it hurts the dignity of both women, even when he had already left Bon?

And today he literally married another woman in front of his wife🤢 (I don't know if its a drama but still its not justified what Ani did. What if Bon didn't faint, wouldn't he have done all rituals?)

Really don't know what makers are thinking. If they are doing this hope they have the guts to show how wrong Ani is and is not some hero who has come to save women. He is doing no favour to Bondita Rasiya ne ek dum sahi kaha tha, Bondita ko ye din dikhane se accha usko sati mein hi marr jane dena chahiye tha. He is just giving her a life worse than death

I really hope if makers have made this mess they have it in them to show Bondita move on in life alone and not go around Ani. They had a beautiful relationship no doubt and I wouldn't have wanted them to separate ever but some things are just unforgivable. Don't want them to show some lame excuse and close this track by showing Ani as mahaan.

Instead of this I really wish Ani could have sent her away for studies and they had taken a leap, atleast Rudhita relation would have been intact😭

Ao sorry for the long rant but I just wanted to vent it out😔

Good that you let it all out Shre...

I can imagine what you are going through I agree with every word!

This depressing track can never get out of my mind! God! I thought I was watching a progressive show but ye toh Dark show nikla🤢

Originally posted by: Aashi_009

I don't use insta di....cause I'm very obedient bacha🤣.....but I'm always on watty ...cause I can't live without reading😆...see you there soon after my practicals 👍🏼.....Love you a lot didi ❤️

very good bachha you are then 😆

theek hai.. all the best! ❤️

Originally posted by: Soma84

Rimiyaaa🤗

Even though i haven't watched bb since couple or more weeks (and given everything that's going on, with the show, I don't regret that👍🏼) I will still agree to every thing that you have mentioned.

Ise women empowerment nahi BRUTAL ASSASSINATION OF CHARACTER kehte hain🤢

And wow... Kudos to the makers for nailing this act, who once upon a time have come up with so many stereotype breaking concepts, so many socially impactful messages.

Those who still have hopes from the show will definitely preach "DON'T COUNT THE CHICKENS BEFORE THEY'RE HATCHED" but unfortunately the makers have already killed the chickens😆

By no means, no effing means the can convince the ardent and genuine fans of the show (who used to watch the show for it's unique concept and for Rudi) that Ani indirectly did this fake mrg for betterment for Bon.

Like you said, Rimi, when we used to watch tv instead of studying in our childhood, our parents didn't give up on us, rather they set clear rules for us to tackle the situation.

Jo insan patni ki ujjwal bhavishya ka hawala deke liye dusri shadi kar raha hai, wo bhi apni biwi ke samne, jo khud abhi bht choti hai par usko apna pura sansar manti hai, wo mere liye izzat ke layak toh nahi raha.

For me this no so-called sacrificial act of Ani, rather it's an opportunistic behavior of marrying another woman for whom he couldn't control his feelings of infatuation, outside his existing mrg.

Never in my wildest dreams I had imagined i would use such harsh words the character who had become not just a favorite tv character but also dreamt of having such a man in our life. Jiske liye ek din 2-2 AT khatam ho jati thi, wo Anirudh ye toh nahi ho sakta.

Ise kehte hain, apni izzat khud mitti me Milana. Ab jo chal raha hai, show me, use dekhke indigestion, acidity, diarrhea sab ho jayega.

Bb ko toh bye bol hi dia, still i hope, at least Kaka come in support of Bon and banish all rights of Ani over Bon, INCLUDING HIS ZIMMEDARI. I hope he says "Tum Bon ko apni Patni nahi man sakte toh uski zimmedari lene ki bhi koi zarurat nahi. Main use padha likha kar itna kabil banaunga ki use kisiki ZIMMEDARI banne ki zarurat nahi hogi" Bas this is my last wish from the show, jo ki pura toh nahi hoga, still... Sapna toh dekh sakte hain🤪

Soma 😭

I am not in a position to write much... bas yahi bolungi that I agree with you 😭

@Bold 1- ohh God this is so heartbreaking... mujhse poochho, "Biggest Anirudh Fan" here

Ye mera ARC nahi hai Soma, ye humaara vaala ARC nai hai.... he got assassinated😭

@Bold2- Yes this would be the best ! 🤣

I am always a fan of grey-shaded characters. They were very few on ITV but they were the only shows I used to follow because there is a scope for variation, to delve into the depths of one's heart and display the complex web of human emotions. For me, the good boy characters always felt one-dimensional because the makers make them sacrificial lambs.

It was Anirudh who made me re-evaluate my decision. His dreams of woman empowerment, his impulsiveness, his struggle, and his pain are what made me hooked to this show. The Anirudh I have grown to admire and love is not there anymore. Not even in bits and pieces. His character is butchered beyond scope of redemption.

Even if they make Bon independent, Ani-Bon legally separated and Bon finding a partner for herself, as a woman I will be satisfied but as a fan of Anirudh, I will be forever heartbroken. The makers brutally sabotaged one half of the soul and no matter how much they make the other half perfect, it will be always incomplete.💔

I will remember Anirudh as the guy who laughed at Bondita's antics when she tried to get his books into the car and got herself trapped, and cried at the vermillion that adorned her head, the injustice done to the innocent child. I will remember him fighting his disgust and washing her bedsheet, struggling but not giving up on his responsibilities.

I will remember him for many more little things that he did, the golden heart he had, his struggle, and his flaws which made him endearing to me.

I am thankful to all the people who read my stories or my opinions. I read some wonderful stories and many beautiful and matured theories and takes on different episodes.

Glad to come across this forum and wonderful people.

Originally posted by: pratyay

I am always a fan of grey-shaded characters. They were very few on ITV but they were the only shows I used to follow because there is a scope for variation, to delve into the depths of one's heart and display the complex web of human emotions. For me, the good boy characters always felt one-dimensional because the makers make them sacrificial lambs.

It was Anirudh who made me re-evaluate my decision. His dreams of woman empowerment, his impulsiveness, his struggle, and his pain are what made me hooked to this show. The Anirudh I have grown to admire and love is not there anymore. Not even in bits and pieces. His character is butchered beyond scope of redemption.

Even if they make Bon independent, Ani-Bon legally separated and Bon finding a partner for herself, as a woman I will be satisfied but as a fan of Anirudh, I will be forever heartbroken. The makers brutally sabotaged one half of the soul and no matter how much they make the other half perfect, it will be always incomplete.💔

I will remember Anirudh as the guy who laughed at Bondita's antics when she tried to get his books into the car and got herself trapped, and cried at the vermillion that adorned her head, the injustice done to the innocent child. I will remember him fighting his disgust and washing her bedsheet, struggling but not giving up on his responsibilities.

I will remember him for many more little things that he did, the golden heart he had, his struggle, and his flaws which made him endearing to me.

I am thankful to all the people who read my stories or my opinions. I read some wonderful stories and many beautiful and matured theories and takes on different episodes.

Glad to come across this forum and wonderful people.

I think what they are trying to show is sacrifices were needed even if they had to go for great lengths for changes to happen! Back in those days if you want to prove something someone had to take extraordinary measures! But my problem is Ani need not had to go that far when he could have solved this right from the start when Bon was very much younger and had no attachment with Ani! Instead he let her do everything a married girl would do in her in laws house plus address himself her husband a couple of times and all those moments with his dialogues towards her that would have made her heart flutter and suddenly when he fell in 'love' with a girl he barely knows he woke to reality that Bon is changing..before that he did not know that a girl who is growing will naturally develop this unexplainable feelings for a guy as this is a natural law of attraction and esp Ani who has been fighting and protecting her and talking in all those heartfelt dialogues? I dont know but this is called betrayal becuz he acted like eveything was fine on the wedding day of AE's giving Bon the impression that he is ok with her and then marrying AE right infront of Bon..what is that called? I know Ani is known for his sacrificing nature but seems he only does that when he feels the urge to do in his interest! Making Bon a barrister is his interest and he influenced Bon. Bon is outspoken and stands for truth but what makes Ani think that she would choose that in the future? So why enforcing it on her? If he feels he wants something or wants Bon to do something she must do it and has no other way out! So naming it only selfless is an overstatement.... I have to admit I really loved Ani and Bon and them being rudhita but seeing what Ani is doing and him crying over something he purposely did is annoying!! He was not forced into that situation unlike during his marraige with Bon... he could have chosen other ways to explain to her instead of always pushing the real topic! I dont know how the rest of the story will unfold! Like I said no matter what kinda excuse he gives himself and others what he did not in not acceptable for me atleast

Sorry this is my pov

Originally posted by: sharafah

I think what they are trying to show is sacrifices were needed even if they had to go for great lengths for changes to happen! Back in those days if you want to prove something someone had to take extraordinary measures! But my problem is Ani need not had to go that far when he could have solved this right from the start when Bon was very much younger and had no attachment with Ani! Instead he let her do everything a married girl would do in her in laws house plus address himself her husband a couple of times and all those moments with his dialogues towards her that would have made her heart flutter and suddenly when he fell in 'love' with a girl he barely knows he woke to reality that Bon is changing..before that he did not know that a girl who is growing will naturally develop this unexplainable feelings for a guy as this is a natural law of attraction and esp Ani who has been fighting and protecting her and talking in all those heartfelt dialogues? I dont know but this is called betrayal becuz he acted like eveything was fine on the wedding day of AE's giving Bon the impression that he is ok with her and then marrying AE right infront of Bon..what is that called? I know Ani is known for his sacrificing nature but seems he only does that when he feels the urge to do in his interest! Making Bon a barrister is his interest and he influenced Bon. Bon is outspoken and stands for truth but what makes Ani think that she would choose that in the future? So why enforcing it on her? If he feels he wants something or wants Bon to do something she must do it and has no other way out! So naming it only selfless is an overstatement.... I have to admit I really loved Ani and Bon and them being rudhita but seeing what Ani is doing and him crying over something he purposely did is annoying!! He was not forced into that situation unlike during his marraige with Bon... he could have chosen other ways to explain to her instead of always pushing the real topic! I dont know how the rest of the story will unfold! Like I said no matter what kinda excuse he gives himself and others what he did not in not acceptable for me atleast

Sorry this is my pov

Aur toh aur ab reception ,publicly romance ,Holi and bon ko dusra hone ka darja uske family rights Chee a uske self esteem ko chit pahuch an

Who bhi tab when women education was considered sinful and yahi hoga society would blame bon for everything

That girl went through so much emotional pain ab polygamy ke adverse effects sahe

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Aur toh aur ab reception ,publicly romance ,Holi and bon ko dusra hone ka darja uske family rights Chee a uske self esteem ko chit pahuch an

Who bhi tab when women education was considered sinful and yahi hoga society would blame bon for everything

That girl went through so much emotional pain ab polygamy ke adverse effects sahe