Is this really Women Empowerment ? - Page 2

Beautifully written Rimi👏 Someone had also shared screenshots of your instagram post on twitter👍🏼

I don't want to say anything anymore about the track, I'm just too too mentally exhausted. I don't have anymore respect for ARC and neither the makers. No matter how they try to justify it in the end, it will never be the same. And personally I think Anirudh's behaviour cannot be justified at all. The makers have destroyed this beautiful show and played with our emotions. In the name of Women Empowerment they are promoting Polygamy and from the looks of it are even normalising Child Mental Abuse, something not expected from a show like Barrister Babu and a character like ARC. I can't support this show anymore. They can get support from the TRP Aunties they destroyed this show for. I haven't even watched tonight's episode. I'm glad I didn't because I heard it traumatised a lot of people. This show has traumatised me like no other. I don't want it to damage me anymore, that's why I am taking a step back.

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Then how will bon become barrister then she needs emotional love but from those who love her unconditionally which is not her mom and ani

Dear that was sarcasm.

I was not seriously commenting about the theme of the show. I'm not interested in how Bondita becomes a barrister or how or when will she get her unconditinal love anymore. I'm done with the show.

Agree Rimi!!

This is not woman empowerment in any sense. It was so heartbreaking to watch Bondita. I had stopped watching the show long back but Rudhita have always been very special to me. I had stopped watching because I wanted to remember Rudhita happily. But somehow watched it yesterday and I regret it so bad. I thought I had become very detached towards this show but watching yesterday's episode was so painful and I am not able to take it out of my mind. Really don't know why, probably because still women face such things, and being a woman myself I just felt what Ani did was wrong on so many levels e😡 and disgusting too🤢 That girl was begging him not to go ahead with this but no he didn't pay any heed. Frankly no woman deserves to go through such humiliation and pain in her life💔🥺 And Bon being a kid makes his act even more disgusting🤢 What is he even thinking? What will Bon gain from this mess? He again made her a dusri aurat or chodi hui aurat🤢 will she ever get the same respect from the society she used to get earlier? Society will ridicule her, saying her husband brought another wife🤢 is this what ARC was dreaming for her? Is this the same guy who refused to marry Mini because marrying multiple times is wrong as it hurts the dignity of both women, even when he had already left Bon?

And today he literally married another woman in front of his wife🤢 (I don't know if its a drama but still its not justified what Ani did. What if Bon didn't faint, wouldn't he have done all rituals?)

Really don't know what makers are thinking. If they are doing this hope they have the guts to show how wrong Ani is and is not some hero who has come to save women. He is doing no favour to Bondita Rasiya ne ek dum sahi kaha tha, Bondita ko ye din dikhane se accha usko sati mein hi marr jane dena chahiye tha. He is just giving her a life worse than death

I really hope if makers have made this mess they have it in them to show Bondita move on in life alone and not go around Ani. They had a beautiful relationship no doubt and I wouldn't have wanted them to separate ever but some things are just unforgivable. Don't want them to show some lame excuse and close this track by showing Ani as mahaan.

Instead of this I really wish Ani could have sent her away for studies and they had taken a leap, atleast Rudhita relation would have been intact😭

Ao sorry for the long rant but I just wanted to vent it out😔

Maine toh already kaha tha show is not about women empowerment . They have rukne the show better leap leke aao aur choti si bachhi ko gopi bahu tag se bahar nikalo.

From which angle this show looks like women empowerment ?? It will be utter shame if i say this show promotes something inspiring. Gutter thinking and writing skills of this show makers naam bairistar babu aur barrister type kuch ni .

Rimiyaaa🤗

Even though i haven't watched bb since couple or more weeks (and given everything that's going on, with the show, I don't regret that👍🏼) I will still agree to every thing that you have mentioned.

Ise women empowerment nahi BRUTAL ASSASSINATION OF CHARACTER kehte hain🤢

And wow... Kudos to the makers for nailing this act, who once upon a time have come up with so many stereotype breaking concepts, so many socially impactful messages.

Those who still have hopes from the show will definitely preach "DON'T COUNT THE CHICKENS BEFORE THEY'RE HATCHED" but unfortunately the makers have already killed the chickens😆

By no means, no effing means the can convince the ardent and genuine fans of the show (who used to watch the show for it's unique concept and for Rudi) that Ani indirectly did this fake mrg for betterment for Bon.

Like you said, Rimi, when we used to watch tv instead of studying in our childhood, our parents didn't give up on us, rather they set clear rules for us to tackle the situation.

Jo insan patni ki ujjwal bhavishya ka hawala deke liye dusri shadi kar raha hai, wo bhi apni biwi ke samne, jo khud abhi bht choti hai par usko apna pura sansar manti hai, wo mere liye izzat ke layak toh nahi raha.

For me this no so-called sacrificial act of Ani, rather it's an opportunistic behavior of marrying another woman for whom he couldn't control his feelings of infatuation, outside his existing mrg.

Never in my wildest dreams I had imagined i would use such harsh words the character who had become not just a favorite tv character but also dreamt of having such a man in our life. Jiske liye ek din 2-2 AT khatam ho jati thi, wo Anirudh ye toh nahi ho sakta.

Ise kehte hain, apni izzat khud mitti me Milana. Ab jo chal raha hai, show me, use dekhke indigestion, acidity, diarrhea sab ho jayega.

Bb ko toh bye bol hi dia, still i hope, at least Kaka come in support of Bon and banish all rights of Ani over Bon, INCLUDING HIS ZIMMEDARI. I hope he says "Tum Bon ko apni Patni nahi man sakte toh uski zimmedari lene ki bhi koi zarurat nahi. Main use padha likha kar itna kabil banaunga ki use kisiki ZIMMEDARI banne ki zarurat nahi hogi" Bas this is my last wish from the show, jo ki pura toh nahi hoga, still... Sapna toh dekh sakte hain🤪

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Agree Rimi!!

This is not woman empowerment in any sense. It was so heartbreaking to watch Bondita. I had stopped watching the show long back but Rudhita have always been very special to me. I had stopped watching because I wanted to remember Rudhita happily. But somehow watched it yesterday and I regret it so bad. I thought I had become very detached towards this show but watching yesterday's episode was so painful and I am not able to take it out of my mind. Really don't know why, probably because still women face such things, and being a woman myself I just felt what Ani did was wrong on so many levels e😡 and disgusting too🤢 That girl was begging him not to go ahead with this but no he didn't pay any heed. Frankly no woman deserves to go through such humiliation and pain in her life💔🥺 And Bon being a kid makes his act even more disgusting🤢 What is he even thinking? What will Bon gain from this mess? He again made her a dusri aurat or chodi hui aurat🤢 will she ever get the same respect from the society she used to get earlier? Society will ridicule her, saying her husband brought another wife🤢 is this what ARC was dreaming for her? Is this the same guy who refused to marry Mini because marrying multiple times is wrong as it hurts the dignity of both women, even when he had already left Bon?

And today he literally married another woman in front of his wife🤢 (I don't know if its a drama but still its not justified what Ani did. What if Bon didn't faint, wouldn't he have done all rituals?)

Really don't know what makers are thinking. If they are doing this hope they have the guts to show how wrong Ani is and is not some hero who has come to save women. He is doing no favour to Bondita Rasiya ne ek dum sahi kaha tha, Bondita ko ye din dikhane se accha usko sati mein hi marr jane dena chahiye tha. He is just giving her a life worse than death

I really hope if makers have made this mess they have it in them to show Bondita move on in life alone and not go around Ani. They had a beautiful relationship no doubt and I wouldn't have wanted them to separate ever but some things are just unforgivable. Don't want them to show some lame excuse and close this track by showing Ani as mahaan.

Instead of this I really wish Ani could have sent her away for studies and they had taken a leap, atleast Rudhita relation would have been intact😭

Ao sorry for the long rant but I just wanted to vent it out😔

U are direct the blame of polygamy and its adverse effects on bon and ani will try to act he is happy and did it purposely and bon would see how her family is snatched away from her ,back vivah is kupratha but ani should remember bon loved everyone in rc family selflessly and ani in one second snatched away her family and her world which she was living happily

He is giving her one more kupratha in life when marriage matters to her the emotional scar will be thee and he took Mano to room and sharing room with her means what though bon does not know but she would be crushed ,now bon won’t go to ani neither won’t she feel broken to go and ask ani for problems in study ,her pain ,her happiness

How will she be with her kaka sasurji ,Bihari bahu and each member of rc family and Anirudh gave sampoo direct attack and chit to sampoo to target bon emotionally plus him celebrating all rituals and sharing room won’t make situation easy

Originally posted by: Soma84

Rimiyaaa🤗

Even though i haven't watched bb since couple or more weeks (and given everything that's going on, with the show, I don't regret that👍🏼) I will still agree to every thing that you have mentioned.

Ise women empowerment nahi BRUTAL ASSASSINATION OF CHARACTER kehte hain🤢

And wow... Kudos to the makers for nailing this act, who once upon a time have come up with so many stereotype breaking concepts, so many socially impactful messages.

Those who still have hopes from the show will definitely preach "DON'T COUNT THE CHICKENS BEFORE THEY'RE HATCHED" but unfortunately the makers have already killed the chickens😆

By no means, no effing means the can convince the ardent and genuine fans of the show (who used to watch the show for it's unique concept and for Rudi) that Ani indirectly did this fake mrg for betterment for Bon.

Like you said, Rimi, when we used to watch tv instead of studying in our childhood, our parents didn't give up on us, rather they set clear rules for us to tackle the situation.

Jo insan patni ki ujjwal bhavishya ka hawala deke liye dusri shadi kar raha hai, wo bhi apni biwi ke samne, jo khud abhi bht choti hai par usko apna pura sansar manti hai, wo mere liye izzat ke layak toh nahi raha.

For me this no so-called sacrificial act of Ani, rather it's an opportunistic behavior of marrying another woman for whom he couldn't control his feelings of infatuation, outside his existing mrg.

Never in my wildest dreams I had imagined i would use such harsh words the character who had become not just a favorite tv character but also dreamt of having such a man in our life. Jiske liye ek din 2-2 AT khatam ho jati thi, wo Anirudh ye toh nahi ho sakta.

Ise kehte hain, apni izzat khud mitti me Milana. Ab jo chal raha hai, show me, use dekhke indigestion, acidity, diarrhea sab ho jayega.

Bb ko toh bye bol hi dia, still i hope, at least Kaka come in support of Bon and banish all rights of Ani over Bon, INCLUDING HIS ZIMMEDARI. I hope he says "Tum Bon ko apni Patni nahi man sakte toh uski zimmedari lene ki bhi koi zarurat nahi. Main use padha likha kar itna kabil banaunga ki use kisiki ZIMMEDARI banne ki zarurat nahi hogi" Bas this is my last wish from the show, jo ki pura toh nahi hoga, still... Sapna toh dekh sakte hain🤪

Bon ko husband wife relation , marriage menaing husband sharing kuch pata nahi for bon ani is her rakshak and shikshak who are present in form of ani her pati babu that is it , all she had for him adoration and respect and amazed by idea of prem which she does not even have life ,her emotional insecurity and emotions were due to society blaming her ,sampoo words and due to her lack of age she is unable to express herself and her emotional pain ,she is in age where she does what others want but in Inder to understand her process of mind ,her problems she needs to grow and get emotional maturity

But ani snatched her childhood from her

Originally posted by: Indira12

But what disappointed me the most was- there was no disclaimer given. NO DISCLAIMER GIVEN, NEITHER FOR EMOTIONAL ABUSE NOR FOR POLYGAMY. If child marriage is illegal nowadays and therefore a disclaimer is attached for it, polygamy too is illegal now and needs a disclaimer. It was an actual marriage taking place, pheras were going on and no disclaimer on it! No disclaimer on the mental torture that was being clearly depicted. Very disappointed!

P.S. - Hum bolte the na, ke whatever crappy track they bring they don't ruin Rudhita's essence and they are very serious regarding it, lagta hai humare khud ki hi nazar lag gayi thi uspe. 🥺😭

I agree with everything...

and specially this point. Inko kya lagta hai bas physical torture and child marriage ke vakt hi dena hai disclaimer?

baaki ye sab chalta hai ? why? because anyone has the right to mentally torture people? do polygamy ? waah bhai waah makers! 👏 *slow claps*

You are right behen... hum logo ki hi nazar lagg gayi !

Originally posted by: Aashi_009

Good eve Di ❤️

Actually it's not any women empowerment...it's just a crap ...... they are just insulting the term empowerment ....in the name of uplifting women they are just degrading everything .... literally inhumane people .... what impact will it bring to the children audience of the show not only the audience also the child working.... I don't know what to say..on today's episode..they just butchered the characters... Anirudh who never supported polygamy...is marrying again (whether it's fake or real)....it's just a mental torture to a 12 yr old child who considers him her world ..

They just spoiled their own creation...A beautiful story ended on such a bitter note 💔

At last I would just say that never be that much attached or affectionate towards a character cause it hurts when they did something wrong which is not supposed to be done by them..... nd I am glad that I. got many friends....I got to know about my favourite Di , writer ....Rimi Didi❤️..Di you are best... nd I'll miss you a lot 😭..

Aashi

Awww ashi your words mean a lot to me 🤗

I am so glad that you like my work.... they express who I am ❤️

I am always there on insta you can reach out to me... and even on watty.... don't miss me coz I'm always there 🤗❤️

Love you! ❤️

Originally posted by: Arcturus_S

Definitely it is not women empowerment Rimi. Looking at the recent episodes, I think they have changed the theme of the show. Now it is more like how childhood trauma can lead into serious personality development disorders and behavioral problems

Kaha tha na Sim.... show me sense nahi bacha.. TRP, masala, drama... bas yahi sab hai...👍🏼