Pakhi has changed Kavya's game?

The home is in celebration mode, usually when a daughter comes at home, your celebration gets even double. The happy faces we have. Here is a different case, she brought a mess. Pakhi's unexpected arrival, gave her an expected surprise. I genuinely feel that, Pakhi's anger is right, a child can't see her parents with someone else. They can see that their parents are separated, but not in EMA. Pakhi doesn't wants a step mother. But her anger is all wrong, as she is blaming her mother more.

Will take my words back, on Vanraj being a good father, as when he made the decision of he and Kavya staying the home, he had no single thought about Pakhi. Pakhi is wrong to react in such a manner, but in real life, every child will react angrily. Why no one raised any objection Kavya staying the house? Just because Vanraj gave the knowledge on how the home also belongs to him. Just because he had an emotional outburst?

Pakhi's anger is right but her grounds are wrong. She wants Anuraj together, so she is angry, she feels cheated as she thinks both are lying. Her basis are totally wrong. But she should have been angry on sharing the same house with Kavya, she should be angry on no one objecting Kavya's stay. She should support Anupama and also leave the house. But I think she needs pampering.

Still she has hopes for Anuraj, which is disgusting. She saw Vanya together in the bedroom, she should be more angry on Vanraj, She is blaming the Anupama who chose motherhood over her self respect. Did Vanraj come to console you, keeping the ego aside? No. Its as your mother

There is a quote in Gujarati "Jene koi na Pahuche ene enu pet pahonche" Meaning that we can't tolerate if someone injures us, but when your child does the same to you, you will tolerate all the pains...

Justifying the above quote, Vanraj loves Kavya so much, that he allowed to Kavya to stay in the Shah house without anyone's permission, if anyone would have asked Kavya to leave then he would have got angry, but only for Pakhi, he has to tolerate Kavya leaving the home. Dusre agardukh de to ego pe baat aati hai, par khud ke bachhe agar woh hi dukh de to sahan karna padta hai. Tedhe log ko apne bachhe hi sidha kar sakte hai

Pakhi is the toughest obstacle of Kavya, because Pakhi is on the first list of Vanraj, while Kavya is the toughest obstacle for Pakhi. Now her game is changed as will go out of the house, has Pakhi changed Kavya's game?

As usual, very well written! And I agree with all of it except:

1.) I don't think Vanraj loves Kavya. If he really loved her then he would have confessed the truth to his family, divorced Anu and married Kavya a long time ago. Imo the reason why he insisted that Kavya will live here in the family house was to assert himself over Anu and feed his ego that the assurance that house still belongs to him (and Anu of course obliged 🤢)... not out of love for Kavya.

2.) I never thought I'd say this (not a fan of Pankhi at all)... but I don't think Pankhi was wrong to blame Anu this time...

She made some very poor decisions that revealed no care for society, her children's feelings, or her self respect...

Only VanYa and their wants are at the center of her decisions nowadays, so of course others will be upset with her...

Pankhi's tantrums and aggressive attempts to force her parents to get back together are definitely wrong. But Anupama ALWAYS rewards such behavior, whether it's from Toshu, Pankhi or even Baa or Vanraj...

She yields to tantrums in the name of love and reprimands or ignores those who put forward reasonable points...

The only good decisions she made were becoming independent and the divorce, which were made pointless by her carrying in living in this house even after VanYa moved in.

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

As usual, very well written! And I agree with all of it except:

1.) I don't think Vanraj loves Kavya. If he really loved her then he would have confessed the truth to his family, divorced Anu and married Kavya a long time ago. Imo the reason why he insisted that Kavya will live here in the family house was to assert himself over Anu and feed his ego that the assurance that house still belongs to him (and Anu of course obliged 🤢)... not out of love for Kavya.

2.) I never thought I'd say this (not a fan of Pankhi at all)... but I don't think Pankhi was wrong to blame Anu this time...

She made some very poor decisions that revealed no care for society, her children's feelings, or her self respect...

Only VanYa and their wants are at the center of her decisions nowadays, so of course others will be upset with her...

Pankhi's tantrums and aggressive attempts to force her parents to get back together are definitely wrong. But Anupama ALWAYS rewards such behavior, whether it's from Toshu, Pankhi or even Baa or Vanraj...

She yields to tantrums in the name of love and reprimands or ignores those who put forward reasonable points...

The only good decisions she made were becoming independent and the divorce, which were made pointless by her carrying in living in this house even after VanYa moved in.

First of all Thank You

Anupama allowed Kavya to stay in this house... Hey Bhagwaan, I literally forgot, how I can forget this?Pakhi should be angry on Vanraj more, even Anupama had no single thought about Pakhi... But I think Anupama, must have felt that Kavya will stay for temporary duration.. So... But still its not justified that Pakhi should not be angry on Anupama

Nice answer by you btw

Today also Even if pakhi is angry on kavya aur try to change game of kavya not because kavya did bad to anupama

But today also pakhi want kavya out of house because kavya did bad to pakhi that she will seperate from her father not because kavya did bad to anupama

Even today pakhi is not thinking what anupama has gone through 25 years

Pakhi get angry on anupama for allowing kavya to house ( first of all anupama did not allow kavya to stay at house

Anupama has said i will not take decision whether kavya can stay or not. It decision should be baa and bapuji and vanraj said kavya yahi rahengi then anupama said they can stay here till kavya and vanraj find new flat)

But did pakhi forget that she has herself gone to live with kavya at kavya home

Anupama is innocent that she is thinking that pakhi getting panic because vanraj and anupama getting divorce but she dont know that pakhi is not getting panic because vanraj and anupama getting divorce but getting panic when vanraj and anupama will get divorce then meri jagah kya reh jaayegi aur kavya to mujhe papa se dur kar degi

Bus ek meri mummy anupama hai jo mujhe papa se doori nahin karegi to chalo mummy aur papa divorce nahin hone dete hain

But as anupama has keep pakhi for 9 month pakhi has connection with anupama with blood to anupama pakhi se poori tarah se rishta nahin tod sakti. Beti musibat hogi to maa to poochegi And it is natural

Bus as like anupama as direct questiion to baa in saturday episode that agar dolly ke saath aisa hua hota to bhi aap dolly ko yahi advice karti ki tumhe sanjay ke saath rehna chahiye? ( though anupama apologise to baa as anupama never want bad for dolly)

Tommorow also anupama will scold pakhi agar pakhi pyaar se nahin samjhati hai

Anupama right ask questiion to vanraj ki aapko meri mistake count karne ka bahut time hai but pakhi ko dekhne ke liye time nahi hai aapka ego jyada bada hai

pakhi ke gussa sai bhi han galat bhi sai iss liye hain uss ke jaga koi bhi hote no one tolerate to see his dad with some one else specially with that girl who threaten you to separate you from your own dad , pakhi ke gussa galat iss liye hain she is angry becoz kavya threaten her to separate her from her own dad she dont care what vanraj did to anupama here she only thinking about herself not her mother

second vanraj is good father according to me hain kabhi kuch cheeze wo kar jate hain jo uss ke bacho ke liye galat hota hain but he really love his kids

third whether vanraj love kavya aur that is just attraction mein aaj tak samjhe nahi paye because agar vanraj sach mein kavya se pyaar karta ab tak wo anupama ko divorce de kar kavya se shaadi kar chuka hota

why he have hesitation when kavya ask him to marry her ?

ofcourse Pakhi is the toughest obstacle of Kavya at the moment

for God sake pakhi is a kid we cant judge her with the grownups and she have seen the true face of kavia and knows what she is up to .

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Today also Even if pakhi is angry on kavya aur try to change game of kavya not because kavya did bad to anupama

But today also pakhi want kavya out of house because kavya did bad to pakhi that she will seperate from her father not because kavya did bad to anupama

Even today pakhi is not thinking what anupama has gone through 25 years

Pakhi get angry on anupama for allowing kavya to house ( first of all anupama did not allow kavya to stay at house

Anupama has said i will not take decision whether kavya can stay or not. It decision should be baa and bapuji and vanraj said kavya yahi rahengi then anupama said they can stay here till kavya and vanraj find new flat)

But did pakhi forget that she has herself gone to live with kavya at kavya home

Anupama is innocent that she is thinking that pakhi getting panic because vanraj and anupama getting divorce but she dont know that pakhi is not getting panic because vanraj and anupama getting divorce but getting panic when vanraj and anupama will get divorce then meri jagah kya reh jaayegi aur kavya to mujhe papa se dur kar degi

Bus ek meri mummy anupama hai jo mujhe papa se doori nahin karegi to chalo mummy aur papa divorce nahin hone dete hain

But as anupama has keep pakhi for 9 month pakhi has connection with anupama with blood to anupama pakhi se poori tarah se rishta nahin tod sakti. Beti musibat hogi to maa to poochegi And it is natural

Bus as like anupama as direct questiion to baa in saturday episode that agar dolly ke saath aisa hua hota to bhi aap dolly ko yahi advice karti ki tumhe sanjay ke saath rehna chahiye? ( though anupama apologise to baa as anupama never want bad for dolly)

Tommorow also anupama will scold pakhi agar pakhi pyaar se nahin samjhati hai

Your comment is right,

May be Anupama can keep Pakhi glued to Anupama,

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Anupama right ask questiion to vanraj ki aapko meri mistake count karne ka bahut time hai but pakhi ko dekhne ke liye time nahi hai aapka ego jyada bada hai

His ego is like Ravan... That makes me angry

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

pakhi ke gussa sai bhi han galat bhi sai iss liye hain uss ke jaga koi bhi hote no one tolerate to see his dad with some one else specially with that girl who threaten you to separate you from your own dad , pakhi ke gussa galat iss liye hain she is angry becoz kavya threaten her to separate her from her own dad she dont care what vanraj did to anupama here she only thinking about herself not her mother

second vanraj is good father according to me hain kabhi kuch cheeze wo kar jate hain jo uss ke bacho ke liye galat hota hain but he really love his kids

third whether vanraj love kavya aur that is just attraction mein aaj tak samjhe nahi paye because agar vanraj sach mein kavya se pyaar karta ab tak wo anupama ko divorce de kar kavya se shaadi kar chuka hota

why he have hesitation when kavya ask him to marry her ?

ofcourse Pakhi is the toughest obstacle of Kavya at the moment

Pakhi and Kavya both immature people, will teach a lesson to Vanraj

I still can't understand why he hesitated when Kavya asks to married...

Pakhis anger was right, but the reasoning was wrong... So we can't exactly decide whether she is right or wrong