Originally posted by: neeraja91
What i dont understand is why Virat got the impression that Pp is mature and the right person to "guide" Sai. He barely knew her to start with, but he had seen how for such a petty reason as not recognizing her voice- she gave up, blocked his number and decided to get married to someone else! MU hui thik hai- hota hai, but it was SO easy for her to rebound to someone else. That yoo seedha shaadi. Even if we cut her some slack n say she was doing shaadi meeting put of parental pressure she never considered telling the prospecive groom the truth. She had no right to ruin someone elses life due to her issues. so self centered that she didn't care about anyone but herself. Finally virat convinces her to marry samrat and she does, but shes spending her suhaag raat calling virat to cry! How mature and sensible! 🙄
Exactly my question, I could not understand his reasoning behind his thinking that Patralekha samajhdaar aur mature hai.. Did he not see how Sai handled her father being shot, what is mature if not that.. Patralekha was extremely selfish, egoistic and immature on how she handled Samrat's proposal..
And Virat thinks that pp is struggling to move on and with Samrat MIA shes become more "lonely" and "depressed". How was such a woman supposed to be Sai's mentor. She has enough to sort out in her own life! Neither did she have any academic qualifications that were similar to Sai's area of interest nor she did ever demonstrate that she had any "maturity". She herself had been a bahu for only a little bit longer than Sai. so gjar ke taur tarike toh pp also barely knew. So how was she a good choice?!
In Sai's words, mujhse 204 din pehle hi aayi hain aap Pakhi didi
And virat knew how pp felt about his marriage, how did he expect her to be friends with his "wife" even if its "deal waali shaadi". Its ridiculous that virat suggested it and actually insensitive to both women. He knew pp still loved him but he was asking her to dress Sai up and take care of her and he knew Sai had guessed the truth about who pp was to him, and he knew that she had only married and come to nagpur because she trusted HIM. Yet he was trying so hard to just hand her responsibility to someone else. She was new in a house full of strangers, right after her aabas death, she had not even grieved properly and here she was married and he had seen the reactions of his family- not just disapproval but downright despicable behavior- zero insaaniyat, calling her names etc...and in the midst of all this she only knew him, she had only him to turn to and he was trying to palm her off to someone else.
Insesnitive and entitled thats what I felt he was being there..Just after Sai lost her father one day, got into and unwanted marriage the next, she did not need this..
And now after seeing pp's behavior with Sai and all the drama that has happened with chilli grinding, daily fights/taunts, ladakh trip issue, etc etc wtc- still on shivratri virat is talking about dosti with pp. 🙄
Exactly the question I asked Janki..What makes him think Pakhi is someone who can be befriended by Sai.. He should break his friendship with her, on the basis of above mentioned incidents.. Not everything can be attributed to oh they have not understood each other, I need to bridge the gap.. BS.
Virar really needs to give pp a verbal bashing for her behavior and utter irrationality and also introspect as to why Sai keeps dragging pp into their fights. Does he not see her insecurity, frustration and annoyance. He does but he ignores it- several times Virat has correctly pointed out to Sai that she doesn't like him talking to pp and pp's presence in their life. Sai could not be more clear than she has been about what she feels regarding virat-pp. Yet the man is ignoring the issue rather than addressing it. He just expects Sai to read all his unsaid feelings and realize that he has moved on and forgotten pp. Aise kaise? !
Sai has been pretty clear of what Pakhi does to her, what she thinks about Pakhi, what she thinks about his and Pakhi's relationship , what she feels about suggested friendship with Pakhi.. Sai has shown enough jealousy and frustration towards Pakhi.. Yet this man is delusional.. Delusion is where Virat and Pakhi connected..Wahi pyaar ho gaya.. 😆This man wants Sai to understand his actions.. and goes on to the mithai shop to make jalebis the moment its his turn..🤔
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