How you consider extra marital affair ? just a mistake or sin/paap ??

In yesterday's episode serial leads gave wrong message to society by saying extra marital affair is just mistake and you can't overlook other good quality of person in question because of this reason.

I am strictly against this cheap mentality where writers are trying their best to show that extra marital affair is just mistake, for me extra marital affair is CHOICE and sin/paap.

I was more heartbroken when anupama also repeated her cheater husband's words that it is GALATI . i had never expected word like GALATI word for extra marital affair from anupama's mouth.

Till date i have seen this as anupama is part of dysfunctional family but yesterday i feel really bad when i saw lady was covering cheater husband's sins just because he has converted 1 bhk house to 5 bhk house with khoon/pasina whatever.

Very disappointed with anupama💔

It's a sin, particularly in cases like Vanraj's where they continue for years without any semblance of guilt...

And it is not a small mistake (as it was being made to sound like by our Vee, his Baa and sadly Anu too) in any situation, even if it's just a quick fling that the cheater confesses to later on their own...

Anyway Anu's weird new moral compass makes no sense... cheating on your wife for eight years, and then finally bringing the mistress into the family home, and shouting at a father who does all the above himself and then tries to throw you out of the house are "mistakes" of a similar level? 😕

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

It's a sin, particularly in cases like Vanraj's where they continue for years without any semblance of guilt...

And it is not a small mistake (as it was being made to sound like by our Vee, his Baa and sadly Anu too) in any situation, even if it's just a quick fling that the cheater confesses to later on their own...

Anyway Anu's weird new moral compass makes no sense... cheating on your wife for eight years, and then finally bringing the mistress into the family home, and shouting at a father who does all the above himself and then tries to throw you out of the house are "mistakes" of a similar level? 😕

Exactly!

Writers feels they are writing perfect narration for anupama and vanraj but reality is they are looking pathetic and they are completely destroying anupama's character by giving lines her that tere papa se galti ho gayi ....i mean what is this garbage😡 Anupama's character is now looking like some devi's character ... i think i am making mistake by calling her devi because jab atyachar badh jata hai tab devi bhi maa durga he hoti hai . Would love to see durga roop of anupama against this durachari and atyachari ravan raj .

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Exactly!

Writers feels they are writing perfect narration for anupama and vanraj but reality is they are looking pathetic and they are completely destroying anupama's character by giving lines her that tere papa se galti ho gayi ....i mean what is this garbage😡 Anupama's character is now looking like some devi's character ... i think i am making mistake by calling her devi because jab atyachar badh jata hai tab devi bhi maa durga he hoti hai . Would love to see durga roop of anupama against this durachari and atyachari ravan raj .

Spot on! Anupama was sounding so pathetic when she was telling Samar off yet again... the only good thing she has done in the last few episodes is make her mind up to finally move out...

If Anu isn't even able to stick to that one good decision then all her character development over the last few months has officially gone down the drain, and the CV's will have officially managed to make her dumber/more of a doormat than she was to start with! 😵

If it's a one off one night stand for the first time ..it can be considered a mistake. But in such a case where they are physically and emotionally involved for so long never.

Even a one night thing many including me can never ever think of forgiveness but if either partner loves the other too much and wants one chance it's a big maybe

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

If it's a one off one night stand for the first time ..it can be considered a mistake. But in such a case where they are physically and emotionally involved for so long never.

Even a one night thing many including me can never ever think of forgiveness but if either partner loves the other too much and wants one chance it's a big maybe

Kavya and vanraj are physically and emotionally involved for more than 8 years how can they use MISTAKE word ?!!!! How can anupama use MISTAKE word?!!!

Writer has lost her mind completely 🤢

It's sad .

Nobody ia denying that v has done a lot for family .But he has wronged Anu in all way possible.He has always mistreated her which led to children having no respect for her and then crossing limits with her.

Regarding cheating...A cheating is a cheating and no justification can be enough for it .

First he blamed Anu when he was questioned & now he is saying respect me coz I am your father.

So basically everything should happen according to him

I have quit and will follow written update for sometime and c if it is worth it

It's too toxic and angers me ..it's just about an hour before my sleeping time when I prep next days meals ... watching makes me upset than happy or time pass

I can't imagine a woman like her are glorified

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I have quit and will follow written update for sometime and c if it is worth it

It's too toxic and angers me ..it's just about an hour before my sleeping time when I prep next days meals ... watching makes me upset than happy or time pass

I can't imagine a woman like her are glorified

Yes same here, not going to be watching this again until Anu moves out, or maybe not at all...

Women that do stuff like this should not be glorified at all... and I could at least sympathise if Anu was forced or had nowhere else to go, but she has two jobs, her kids are all grown up, and her mother literally came to her house and pleaded with her to come back to her mayka...

Plus literally everyone besides Vanraj didn't want Kavya in the house, but Anu kept her their against all their wishes...

This new Anu 3.0 is so obsessed with being mahaan that she doesn't seem to care what most of her family actually want 🤢

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

If it's a one off one night stand for the first time ..it can be considered a mistake. But in such a case where they are physically and emotionally involved for so long never.

Even a one night thing many including me can never ever think of forgiveness but if either partner loves the other too much and wants one chance it's a big maybe

One night stand....

TOTALLY NOT A MISTAKE...SHAME ON THOSE WHO THINKS LIKE THAT

This story is not anupama's ...it's the story of many small town and village women....

I have witnessed it .. women like anupama are ideal and present everywhere...

Do they deserves such in laws? Such husband or such kids who pukes over their emotions?

One night stand is noT A MISTAKE..

I would rather use a word "p" for such cheap people... Wtf r u married for 25 years wid a woman and just have one night stand? Be it man or woman...

It's seriously not done..