Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 26

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Aaj ke epi pe mere kuch vichar!

1. Bon is going through full on brainwashing. Aaj Kaka also started peddling his brand of how to woo your husband.

2. I liked the Rudhita scene actually. You could see how much Ani was affected by Bon's efforts, like he could see the brainwashing affect her and was like kya karu ab main. And he was in tears while removing those pins. And while they were talking, Ani was trying his best to explain everything, and he was making 100% sense. But so were Bon's questions, she too was asking all the correct questions, but Ani did not have the answers.

3. About the rail ki patri analogy, yes the tracks cannot meet, but in this analogy, we forget a critical object, the rail ties, those planks of wood that always keep these tracks connected. Jab tak these ties are present, these connections are present, these tracks cannot be separated. And Rudhita have a lot of them.

4. The invitation card scene was like jaise society interfere karne lagi, bana banaya bighda. These two were somehow managing to connect but Kaka ke jab ne Bon ka patnidharm phir jagaya and Ani ka gussa bhi. The high point of their relationship, seen in the fbs when they were walking together to Bon's exam, was when they obviously walked against social norms. But aaj social norms have sucked Bon in completely and Ani is too confused and anger-prone to help her effectively, causing cracks in their relationship. But sab jagah se naam hatega na? Bondita now goes by Bondita Roy Chaudhary, use bhi mitaega kya?

5. Aaj wapis AE was a prop. All she was doing was observing, and disapproving of Ani too. And Ani was not paying any attention to her either. His attention was towards Bon only. Uska pehli nazar ka pyaar hafte bhar bhi tike toh bahut hai.

6. Ani has noble goals, but beta pehle apne gusse pe control aur feelings pe clarity la, phir samaaj sevak ban, warna muh ki khaega.

I am not commenting on AniRama shaadi because me views alag level pe optimistic hai, but still no progress in AniRama relationship, which is clearly to show ke koi pyaar nahi hai.

Ashleyyyy meri dost!🤗

I just watched the epi and read your post. Beautifully penned gist all that happened. ❤️

I agree with you on all the points. Just want to add my own thoughts.

Mujhe sab ne bataya ke uss zamanay mien divorce nahi hota tha.

Aaj ki epi dekh ker I felt very depressed. Kyunki clearly Aniruddh iss rishte se itna fed up hai ke ager divorce hoskta, tou Aniruddh abh tak divorce le chuka hota aur Bon ko as Bon Das bas mentee bana ker aram se reh rha hota. Hes not fed up of Bondita. He has great affection for her... Lekin bas as a teacher would have for their students.

I am losing all hopes for a future for them. I dont even think there can be any future for both as husband and wife.

This thought and Aniruddh's claims to separate their names from everywhere have depressed me a lot.

I am actually thinking ke Aniruddh ka bhi qasur nahi hai aur Bondita ka bhi nahi hai. Lekin they are not meant for each other.

It pains my heart too much. I was one of those people who really believed that Aniruddh aur Bondita ka rishta baday ho ker sahi hojayega.

Nahi hoga.

Aniruddh kabhi usko kisi doosry nazar se dekh hi nahi sakta.

Mien buht dukh ke sath keh rhy, koi sarcasm nahi... koi joke nahi... lekin Aniruddh should actually marry someone else and let Bondita free too.

Yehi dono ke liye acha hoga.

Bondita ne zidd, ghussa, pyar...sab kuch ker dekh lia... Shes just not meant for him bas. Us mien koi burai ya kami nahi hai, mager bas woh Aniruddh ke liye theek nahi hai.

Her dress up scene was very depressing too. I wanted to cry for both of them.

Aniruddh tried really hard to explain to her.. and kudos to him for being so sensitive to her pain and all... lekin bas... itna hi inka rishta. Humdardi aur insaniyat ka.

About that rail tracks wali analogy... Yar tumne sahi kaha... patrian alag hoty hain lekin beech ke logs unko separate nahi rehne dete...joday rakhte hain.

Lekin Ashley, rail tracks per jab buht deir tak pressure padta tou woh toot bhi jatay hai...ghis bhi jatay hain. Unke beech ke logs bhi toot jatay hain aksar. Doosra, dono parallel tracks equal in size and shape hote hain.

I am very sad to say that these two rail tracks can and should never meet actually. Kyunki Aniruddh aur Bondita rail tracks tou hain, lekin na parallel hain completely, na aik doosre ke equal.

Inki compatibility nahi hoskty.

😭

I am sorry that I am just crying over them now... lekin iss track ne mere eternally romantic mind ko jisne Ani aur Bon ke liye kafi sapnay dekhe thay, usko bilkul change ker ke rakh dia hai.

Maaf kerna dost. I dont intend to hurt or offend anyone.

Originally posted by: listmist

Suddenly all focus on side effects of bal vivah just cleared what future holds for rudhita... Not interested in another balika vadu msg type show👎🏼

Originally posted by: listmist

Par muje yeh batao bon itna saj dajh kar Manorudh ke reception function par kya kar rahi h🥺

I think show kis track pe jaa raha but I think these are last efforts from bon side iske baad nahi honge

Iske baad she will either hate ani for polygamy ,gradually sever ties with him and I think romantic aspect chodo their unique bond will be in perils

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Ashleyyyy meri dost!🤗

I just watched the epi and read your post. Beautifully penned gist all that happened. ❤️

I agree with you on all the points. Just want to add my own thoughts.

Mujhe sab ne bataya ke uss zamanay mien divorce nahi hota tha.

Aaj ki epi dekh ker I felt very depressed. Kyunki clearly Aniruddh iss rishte se itna fed up hai ke ager divorce hoskta, tou Aniruddh abh tak divorce le chuka hota aur Bon ko as Bon Das bas mentee bana ker aram se reh rha hota. Hes not fed up of Bondita. He has great affection for her... Lekin bas as a teacher would have for their students.

I am losing all hopes for a future for them. I dont even think there can be any future for both as husband and wife.

This thought and Aniruddh's claims to separate their names from everywhere have depressed me a lot.

I am actually thinking ke Aniruddh ka bhi qasur nahi hai aur Bondita ka bhi nahi hai. Lekin they are not meant for each other.

It pains my heart too much. I was one of those people who really believed that Aniruddh aur Bondita ka rishta baday ho ker sahi hojayega.

Nahi hoga.

Aniruddh kabhi usko kisi doosry nazar se dekh hi nahi sakta.

Mien buht dukh ke sath keh rhy, koi sarcasm nahi... koi joke nahi... lekin Aniruddh should actually marry someone else and let Bondita free too.

Yehi dono ke liye acha hoga.

Bondita ne zidd, ghussa, pyar...sab kuch ker dekh lia... Shes just not meant for him bas. Us mien koi burai ya kami nahi hai, mager bas woh Aniruddh ke liye theek nahi hai.

Her dress up scene was very depressing too. I wanted to cry for both of them.

Aniruddh tried really hard to explain to her.. and kudos to him for being so sensitive to her pain and all... lekin bas... itna hi inka rishta. Humdardi aur insaniyat ka.

About that rail tracks wali analogy... Yar tumne sahi kaha... patrian alag hoty hain lekin beech ke logs unko separate nahi rehne dete...joday rakhte hain.

Lekin Ashley, rail tracks per jab buht deir tak pressure padta tou woh toot bhi jatay hai...ghis bhi jatay hain. Unke beech ke logs bhi toot jatay hain aksar. Doosra, dono parallel tracks equal in size and shape hote hain.

I am very sad to say that these two rail tracks can and should never meet actually. Kyunki Aniruddh aur Bondita rail tracks tou hain, lekin na parallel hain completely, na aik doosre ke equal.

Inki compatibility nahi hoskty.

😭

I am sorry that I am just crying over them now... lekin iss track ne mere eternally romantic mind ko jisne Ani aur Bon ke liye kafi sapnay dekhe thay, usko bilkul change ker ke rakh dia hai.

Maaf kerna dost. I dont intend to hurt or offend anyone.

Anirudh is not fed up of this relation I don’t know see bon is in her down phase and she is badly poorly influenced by society and I am sure she will question and be disgusted of society for asking such patni rights and feeding and even angry with kaka for leading her to such astray and destroying the innoncent bond with her mentor ,rakshak ani

Ani knows bon can be a potential partner she has all qualities but she needs to make her life as Layer on due to all this she will be frustrated because of all this

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Anirudh is not fed up of this relation I don’t know see bon is in her down phase and she is badly poorly influenced by society and I am sure she will question and be disgusted of society for asking such patni rights and feeding and even angry with kaka for leading her to such astray and destroying the innoncent bond with her mentor ,rakshak ani

Ani knows bon can be a potential partner she has all qualities but she needs to make her life as Layer on due to all this she will be frustrated because of all this

Thats my point only, katy.

Aniruddh sees her as a potential STUDENT bass... He knows her calibre and he knows that she can reach the skies if she concentrates. Aniruddh wants to give her wings to fly. But thats all.

He has nothing else in mind for her as a potential wife or a potential lover in the future.

He is very clear on this that he will never ever be able to think about a grown up Bondita in even a slightly romantic way.

He will always be concerned about her well being and studies, but thats all.

These two people are beautiful but they are simply not compatible as potential husband and wife...and instead of continuing to live in a completely love-less (i am talking about physical love which is the right of both the involved partners even after Bon grows up) i think its fair enough for both of them to part ways.

Bon jitna abhi Ani ke sath rahay gy, she will continue to grow more attached with him, and he will continue being miserable in this relation as he will NEVER see her as his equal partner or a potential wife.

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Thats my point only, katy.

Aniruddh sees her as a potential STUDENT bass... He knows her calibre and he knows that she can reach the skies if she concentrates. Aniruddh wants to give her wings to fly. But thats all.

He has nothing else in mind for her as a potential wife or a potential lover in the future.

He is very clear on this that he will never ever be able to think about a grown up Bondita in even a slightly romantic way.

He will always be concerned about her well being and studies, but thats all.

These two people are beautiful but they are simply not compatible as potential husband and wife...and instead of continuing to live in a completely love-less (i am talking about physical love which is the right of both the involved partners even after Bon grows up) i think its fair enough for both of them to part ways.

Bon jitna abhi Ani ke sath rahay gy, she will continue to grow more attached with him, and he will continue being miserable in this relation as he will NEVER see her as his equal partner or a potential wife.

I agree with you Aisha.... but divorce was not an option back then... unless Ani is the one who tries to change the law system by bringing divorce... but then why did the writers make it such a way that Bon was destined for Ani and there came together for a reason...are the writers trying to say they came together to show child marraige was bad and serperate ways... then why all the sindhoor scene Ash.. when Neha was saying during the period track that Bona and Ani will triumph and not let anyone come between their pure bond...are they talking about a bond that a student and teacher relation...that one we all can see on a day to day basis... what is so unique about that relation? Honestly writers should remember what they write initially.... they are trying to consistent by being inconsistent...... when will Ani realise that actually he never find someone as intelligent, understanding, genuine and selfless like Bon.... the writers are just forcing their thoughts on us after giving us rudhi couple vibes...why did they let rudhi perform that song for BiggBoss finale?? All we asked us them was not to serperate rudhita.... and if they cant fulfill that I dont know what to say... but i do appreciate all the efforts the actors put in!!! Wish they listened to what we said and respect our opinion... we respected the makers even when they gave us tracks we did not anticipate but yet they are not listening to us

Originally posted by: sharafah

I agree with you Aisha.... but divorce was not an option back then... unless Ani is the one who tries to change the law system by bringing divorce... but then why did the writers make it such a way that Bon was destined for Ani and there came together for a reason...are the writers trying to say they came together to show child marraige was bad and serperate ways... then why all the sindhoor scene Ash.. when Neha was saying during the period track that Bona and Ani will triumph and not let anyone come between their pure bond...are they talking about a bond that a student and teacher relation...that one we all can see on a day to day basis... what is so unique about that relation? Honestly writers should remember what they write initially.... they are trying to consistent by being inconsistent...... when will Ani realise that actually he never find someone as intelligent, understanding, genuine and selfless like Bon.... the writers are just forcing their thoughts on us after giving us rudhi couple vibes...why did they let rudhi perform that song for BiggBoss finale?? All we asked us them was not to serperate rudhita.... and if they cant fulfill that I dont know what to say... but i do appreciate all the efforts the actors put in!!! Wish they listened to what we said and respect our opinion... we respected the makers even when they gave us tracks we did not anticipate but yet they are not listening to us

It was all a farce, Sharafah.

All those sindoor scenes and all... it was all farce.

There was perhaps never anything between them...we read too much meaning into it. That Rtm 21 was also just a lollipop. Makers were probably working around various ideas... And they ended up deciding on this unfortunate bakwas one.

If divorce was not common, then perhaps the makers will show how Aniruddh himself will change this system so that he can divorce Bon.

Since the promos and everything is all screaming about Baal vivaa suddenly... they have just woken up from their slumber and decided to focus on the evils of baal vivah by breaking the vivah of Ani and Bon...letting her free...and then her journey towards the persuation of her goals.

Also, Ani very clearly in Monday's epi has mentioned that he will tear apart their names together and he tore all the cards on which Bondita andAniruddh's names got printed by mistake in Manorama's wedding card.

Aniruddh will go mad after the cliff wala bon ka stunt...and that would be the final nail in the coffin. To make her detach from himself, he will marry ninja, and the makers will make us believe that how mahaan and how sacrificing he is. They will continuously keep him in the sympathy light so that later, when a grown up Bon comes back in tje pic who would hate Ani, the audience would all go...aww bechara Aniruddh. He just married Ninja for Bon's benefit! And the makers would expect that the audience will accept all the crap and start shipping A bechara Aniruddh and an unforgiving Bondita 🤢👎🏼

P.S. These are just my worst and most pessimistic assumptions. I really really really hope that Ani does not marry Ninja. 😭

Originally posted by: Doc.love

It was all a farce, Sharafah.

All those sindoor scenes and all... it was all farce.

There was perhaps never anything between them...we read too much meaning into it. That Rtm 21 was also just a lollipop. Makers were probably working around various ideas... And they ended up deciding on this unfortunate bakwas one.

If divorce was not common, then perhaps the makers will show how Aniruddh himself will change this system so that he can divorce Bon.

Since the promos and everything is all screaming about Baal vivaa suddenly... they have just woken up from their slumber and decided to focus on the evils of baal vivah by breaking the vivah of Ani and Bon...letting her free...and then her journey towards the persuation of her goals.

Also, Ani very clearly in Monday's epi has mentioned that he will tear apart their names together and he tore all the cards on which Bondita andAniruddh's names got printed by mistake in Manorama's wedding card.

Aniruddh will go mad after the cliff wala bon ka stunt...and that would be the final nail in the coffin. To make her detach from himself, he will marry ninja, and the makers will make us believe that how mahaan and how sacrificing he is. They will continuously keep him in the sympathy light so that later, when a grown up Bon comes back in tje pic who would hate Ani, the audience would all go...aww bechara Aniruddh. He just married Ninja for Bon's benefit! And the makers would expect that the audience will accept all the crap and start shipping A bechara Aniruddh and an unforgiving Bondita 🤢👎🏼

P.S. These are just my worst and most pessimistic assumptions. I really really really hope that Ani does not marry Ninja. 😭

I was also thinking the same thing Aisha... you know sometimes I feel like writing in to stop playing with our emotions... if they wanted to show Ani as just protector what ever they have shown after HM should not have been shown... yes child marraige is wrong we all know that!! I hope writers understand that the era the show is set in is 1920 not 2000s... if a girl even willingly wants to come out of her marriage would be ridiculed... Ani can try to change this for the future generations and can put the first step for it but not putting bondita on the line to do it... no matter what he say people of that time are not going to accept and if they show that they did...the system of child marraige being illegal would not have happened just a few decades ago... so writers must sound logical... and they shaped in such a way that they are meant to be together...during separation track a lady will tell Bon no problems will happen in ur marraige life and all... so by showing Ani doing all this and showing Ani marrying another lady is a very ridiculous move... the writers can't please everyone but they can listen to their fans who have been by them no matter what right??! I feel us just ranting our emotions here are never going to affect them.... they will carry on doing whatever they wish only... I hope they show Ani is only for Bon and not go marry AE for any reason and also that Bon and Ani are meant to be together... not ridiculous rail analogy... why show Ani blushing and all? Why even give us RTM 21? Then why make Mini a bad person??

Writers how many of us must repitedly plead not to serperate Rudhita that you will listen?? Are you being fair to us?? Please dont expect us to buy eveying you give us! We all have been very loyal to BB and have supported it! Please listen to us and dont force ur idea to serperate rudhi on us...because no matter how many times the track was disappointing or irritating we stood just for rudhis... though we want good and very thought provoking tracks ,, we want Rudhi to be together!

Originally posted by: Kaede

Behen hopes lost mat karo, agar nahi dekha jaa raha to thode din break le ke dir binge watch kar.lena. this is the only way out.

Originally posted by: sharafah

I was also thinking the same thing Aisha... you know sometimes I feel like writing in to stop playing with our emotions... if they wanted to show Ani as just protector what ever they have shown after HM should not have been shown... yes child marraige is wrong we all know that!! I hope writers understand that the era the show is set in is 1920 not 2000s... if a girl even willingly wants to come out of her marra8ge would be ridiculed... Ani can try to change this for the future generations and can put the first step for it but not putting bondita on the line to do it... no matter what he say people of that time are not going to accept and if they show that they did...the system of child marraige being illegal would not have happened a few decades ago... so writers must sound logical... and they shaped in such a way that there meant to be together...during separation track a lady will tell Bon no problems will happen in ur marraige life and all... so by showing Ani doing all this and showing Ani marrying another lady is a very ridiculous move... the writers cabt please everyone but they can listen to their fans who have been by them no matter what right??! I feel us just ranting our emotions here are neve going to affect them.... they will carry on doing whatever they wish only... I hope they show Ani is only for Bon and not go marry AE for any reason and also that Bon and Ani are meant to be together... not ridiculous rail analogy... why show Ani blushing and all? Why even give us RTM 21? Then why make Mini a bad person??

Writers how many of us must repitesdelt plead not to serperate Rudhita that you will listen?? Are you being fair to us?? Please dont expect to buy eveying you give us! We all have been very loyal to BB and have supported it! Please listen to us and dont force ur idea to serperate rudhi on us...because no matter how many times the track was disappointing or irritating we stood just for rudhis... though we want good and very thought provoking tracks ,, we want Rudhi to be together!

They will end up with Ani and a grown up Barrister Bon marrying again eventually.

I think this is how they will justify all this crap.

Bas yar.. this is the problem na. Too many cooks spoil the broth. In ITVshows, there are the creatives and then there is the pressure from the channel and this and that. They start good, but turn silly eventually.

It is our fault that we, the audience get so emotionally attached with them.