Originally posted by: ..RiMi..
Disclaimer : This post is my view on the current track and how it is being executed. I do not want this to be a thread for debating if Anirudh/Bondita is right or wrong. This is all about, whether we should ACCEPT such tracks or not ?
I was trying my best to give this track a second chance, but now it has crossed all limits. I am pained not just as a loyal viewer of the show, but also a girl and a human being! Again, I am not talking about Anirudh or Bondita here.. I am talking about what they are showing ?
What made me upset :
1) Anirudh's Love Confession scene
I have a major issue with the way they carried it out!
Till Tuesday I felt Anirudh's anger was not influenced by Manorama, and it was because of his concern for Bondita's future, but makers proved me wrong 
I was so irritated with the way he revealed the truth intentionally or unintentionally it definitely had the taste of humiliation...😡...it blowed me up even more at the fact that he had been preserving her all these while from these exact people to finally give her a giant humiliation infront of them....but I still had a hope when I saw him crying in study.....my stupid self thought it was for bon only....but alas🥺...makers proved me wrong🤬
Instead of showing that Anirudh's feeling for Manorama was simply attraction / infatuation, that scene seemed to make us 'sympathize' with him 
They portrayed it as a 'tragedy' in Anirudh's life that he is in REAL 'Love' with Manorama and now he has to choose between LOVE and RESPONSIBILITY
Don't know how many more heartbreaks we have to witness at this rate..it was impactful at the time of mini....but now manorama's character has made the great principles man like ARC a complete joke to us...now I'm honestly at a stage where I'm confused what is his real character this one or the earlier one was facade?😕...well done cvs
So they are clearly showing that a girl (Bondita) who has been there for him for so long, cares for him, loves him, respects him, confides in him, can do anything for him, is simply his RESPONSIBILITY because she cannot TURN HIM ON? They are showing that 'love' is what Ani feels for Manorama, that too in just 2 days ?This is simply degrading the meaning of love in the name of DRAMA 
The poor execution have unfortunately made us all see ani like this only.....
Now honestly this has made ani look like a complete different character to me😵..I'm not connecting to him anymore😵
Now if he chooses Bondita over his so-called love, does he become Mahaan ???? Why ? What if his marriage was a normal ARRANGED MARRIAGE? Would he not have fallen for Manorama then ?
And hence I don't want ani to choose bon this time just because I don't want to see his mahaanta anymore later to show like he did this for bon only🤪....okay evenif he I doing this for bon as per his say what was that desperation and all to talk to manorama during the anniversary celebration😕...and shouting at bon for the flowervase😡
Now, if he had not married her as per his choice and did not want to be bound by this relationship, why did he not apply it on Bondita as well ? Why did he let her wear sindoor, saadiyaan, choodi , etc. and let her do all other things which a wife does for her husband? Because of society? Then where did this sense go now when he publicly declared that she is NOT HIS WIFE ? 😊
I give no ear to him now who keeps fluctuating from patni to zimmedari to patni cum zimmedari to bon no zimmedari se shaadi to back to zimmedari again and so on🤪....but publicly declaring her not his wife, isn't he again giving her the day of a chodi huyi ahead again.....doesn't the gold medalist has this much common sense😵or has he pledged during his London graduation day to never use his common sense or brain in real life😕
Love is all about acceptance! It is important to understand that even after being committed to your wife/girlfriend, you will still meet so many people in life and it is obvious to get attracted to someone's personality, but what makes you stay in the relationship is realizing the difference and not mistaking your feeling with love or demeaning the relation with your partner 👎🏼 If you are doing that, it is still cheating 👎🏼
Perfectly explained rimu👍🏼nothing more to say about this👍🏼
I have a question - What if this was the other way round? What if Ani had always been loyal to Bondita, considered her his wife (platonic) and later on when Bon grew up, she met a man of her own age and fell in 'love' with him ? Would it be justified even then ? Would Bon be called mahaan in that case if she left the other guy for Anirudh ?
Not at all rimu. ..we know the answer na...arre bon is a girl of that era ...she will fall for ani only but ani is a male na. ..he is human and can fall for anyone 👏now i badly need a track in future where bon falls for some other and ani should realise bon is not wrong at all😎...himmat hai toh uske bina jeekar dikao😈...oops sorry I'm leaving the show for my own good and now I'm no more interested.....😎
2) Bondita's character assassination
During this whole track, I felt they will show how wrong it is to get distracted at this age ... but yesterday, the way Bondita gave her monologue She is 12 for God's sake ! How is it even possible for her to understand what exactly these people are talking about when they say PATI ka RISHTA ? 😲 She is swearing to save her relationship at this tender age ?
Here I wanted a bon who outbursts but see what we got😕...but later I felt sorry for the kid ...she was already a savage girl more than ani and see the moment she started living with him , she has become something else in his influencegot I don't want bon to become a barrister just like ani....she is much better without a barrister degree than gold medalist brain in most of the real life aspects....except that she is wrongly influenced by the society😒...hope atleast ani's marriage breaks her and she becomes back that bon who could even compare him outright with a mate bhau bhau😎
This is what these so-called woman empowerment TV shows do not understand 👎🏼 They glorify a girl like Bondita, who simply cried at the humiliation she faced from her husband publicly and later swears to mend her relationship and fight for the love which he is simply not ready to give?
Can't disgree that this womenempowerment show itself showcased mami, mini, sampoo etc. ..as super evils...and also see what is their krantikari girl .....a phuski bomb who don't even give a damn to the emotion of a little girl child ...the first thing she did after seeing bon's concern towards ani regarding anniversary was directly going to her pati babu and proposing him👏without even thinking twice she who is herself a revolutionary should be against a second marriage evenif namesake ...because it will indirectly make bon suffer in front of the society....but no she is krantikari.....I love this character for the fact that she is only focused on her mission and nothing else but disappointed at the fact cvs introduced her for inquilaab zindabaad which went out to nowhere 🤔. .where is inquilaab zindabaad😞...I'm still searching😕
What difference is there between her and Mini ?👎🏼 Yes Bon was influenced by Kaka and society but what is the point of glorifying such scenes as they did in today's episode ? If they had to show that Bon is under wrong influence then there was no point hyping that scene with so much glory
Exactly as I told you above
They have made a 12 year old Bon into aa Nibbi ITV heroine who is there to snatch her Pati's love 👍🏼 Her pati is in love with another woman bechari does not even know that yet and trying to mend their relationship and make it deeper
She will wake up from her sleep soon hopefully🤔...but making her an ultra nibbi was overboard....she was much better in the shubra maa track
This show instead of empowering woman has constantly degraded every women character, be it Mini, Sampoorna or Bondita ... This is highly unacceptable! I am not saying Bon should have simply left the house, but at least she should have had some self respect! does FL have only this job of crying and swearing to protect their marriage ?
If this track was introduced post leap him would have walked out maintaining her self respect but no they introduced it now..I'm wondering what is left to be shown after the leap🤔...don't tell me it's just rudhita romance...sorry who knows rudhita is actually existant as a pair for makers or is it just our illusion🤔..sab moh maaya hai🤣😔
3) Anirudh humiliating Bondita in Public 👎🏼: It is high time we stop supporting such tracks where Male Lead is allowed to humiliate Female Lead publicly in the name of DRAMA 🤢
We all are humans and we are flawed, I understand, but what makes a good person different from a bad person? - Our choices!
Yes, Bondita was behaving like a teenager and Ani is just 22. But the way he shouted at her in Tuesday's episode is not something which we expect from a man who respects other human beings 👎🏼
And adding to this ani talking to her at night as if nothing happened made me go insane 🤬....bon was also talking as if nothing hurt her at all....i wont support this kind of behaviour of a man ever even if he is a ML😡...
As humans, we all have a past troubling us all the time and when someone triggers it, we all get hyper.. but if all of us started loosing our self control and unleashing our wrath on our loved ones, then this whole world would become a mess!
ARC was always shown to be a man of solid principles, but what made him publicly shout and humiliate Bondita ? Who gave him that right ? Yes, he is a parental figure to her, But even a parent is careful not to humiliate their kids in public because it can have a huge impact on the kid's mind.
I have stopped reading him as I told you he seems a man of fluctuating thoughts from time to time ......
A person's true values come into light in these situation only and I am disappointed that Anirudh came out to be a hot head, loosing his mind and failing to understand that Bon was not at fault in all this ! And a person who would not think twice before mortifying his own 'Zimmedari' if he is angry 👎🏼 Sorry but I cannot support such a character in the show and for me ARC was never this guy!
Agree with you rimu👍🏼
About making mistakes and learning from them, haven't Anirudh made enough mistakes till now? How many times have they shown him asking for an apology for his actions?
What has he exactly learnt them after the HM track, shubra maa track, sampoo track🤔don't know
In the end, this show is over for me after today's episode! I just wanted to jot down all the points somewhere 😆 Now I am relieved ! Sorry for the long read 🤣 I really don't care what they show in future anymore 😆
Show is officially over for me after the Fridays episode🤣have already moved on😎...and slowly started following shakhi😳..KV was the main reason for me especially that noodles scene🤣🤣..omg he was superb there👏...
Hope i will regain my mental peace soon😊
So the question is not about who is right and who is wrong, it's whether we should accept such tracks in a women empowerment show or not?
PS: Sorry if I reply late to your comments here... I read at kachhua speed 😆
...it blowed me up even more at the fact that he had been preserving her all these while from these exact people to finally give her a giant humiliation infront of them
....but I still had a hope when I saw him crying in study.....my stupid self thought it was for bon only....but alas
...makers proved me wrong
...well done cvs
..I'm not connecting to him anymore
....okay evenif he I doing this for bon as per his say what was that desperation and all to talk to manorama during the anniversary celebration
...himmat hai toh uske bina jeekar dikao
...oops sorry I'm leaving the show for my own good and now I'm no more interested.....
...hope atleast ani's marriage breaks her and she becomes back that bon who could even compare him outright with a mate bhau bhau
. .where is inquilaab zindabaad😞...I'm still searching
..KV was the main reason for me especially that noodles scene
