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Originally posted by: Toto123

Rimi I was waiting for your post!!😳

I can completely relate to your emotions regarding the show!! The show has been so close to our hearts that we get affected deeply when such things happen.

You have listed down all the points very aptly👏

I am equally disspointed with potrayal of both Anirudh's and Bondita's charachter. I know that we cannot always get what we want in the show & I am ok with them exprimenting with storylines but such drastic changes in the beheviour of the Charachters with whom we r so attached is diappointing.

Yes , everyone has right to his or her indivisual feelings and but it is expected that such freedom should be given to all equally!!

Anirudhs concern for bondita is right but way of handling is very wrong..And somewhere down the line its his fault too.. Right from HM track he has always treated her as his wife and RC bahu.If the makers and Ani 's chrachter was so crystal clear about his thoughts regarding bondita , Why did they play RTM of Pyaar mera , dil mera........

My main point being , the problem is not about what they r showing, the problem is about the inconsistent actions of ARC.

Today he said that Bonditas mistake was that she took a wrong meaning of his Kartavya wali actions!! What is he even talking about.....

Was it his kartvya to dance at sampoorna's funtion on a couple song.

Was it his kartavya when he repeatedly reminded bon of how everything in the house was disturbed becoz she didnt value relations during sampoo track...

Was it his kartavya to repeatedly call her his wife even when there was no outsider to worry about

The only conclusion for his outburst are his feeling for manorama.But what is bons fault in that..& even his mind said the same thing!!

The way he explained Manorama at the end what his feeling are about bon, if he had done the same with bon, all the problems would have ended!!! All he said to bon or rather shouted at her was that she was a zimmedaari and not patni!! Why didnt he tell her why she could not be his patni ,... where was the most valid point of her being too young for it....He had done that bon would have understood and not rebelled.. like she is doing now.

He denied all the connection and bond he shared with her till date and named evrything as a bojh👏👏. He left her alone for people to influence her....First sampoo & then Kaka.

If he is really so concerned about her, he should have the guts to talk to her himself and explain her.

I can probably write more...but I am going to stop with last thought..That things have been wrong in the show from quite long..Its just that this was the final straw & for people to get detached from the show.

& to answer your question..

NO we should not Accept this.. Every fandom has a connection to the show and hence to show loyalty they support it even when they show wrong things!! This exact behaviour is the reason for cringy content in ITV shows. Its time that we break the chain👍🏼

Toto 🤗

Actually I had to edit this multiple times because in my gussa I had written isse bhi bada post 🤣

Yes you are right, we were so attached to this show and characters... and humse behtar kaun jaanta hai that we don't always get what we want.. but yaar kitni baar? Even when I write fiction, the one thing which is most important is not to change the character there could be so many tracks which were better than this crap! 🤢 Last time they continued Sampoo crap for so long and in the end to divert our mind they got Periods track ... aur fir molestation ... so that we can keep mum.. but abb dekho sab kiya dhara pe paani fer diya na

I agree... I really cannot understand the character of ARC anymore.... because he is always confused about his actions! Bolega kuchh karega kuchh aur hi Post HM track toh Bondita se zyada he was adamant to be her Pati abb kya ho gaya ? the moment he got the true love of his life he forgot about everything kya 👎🏼

He did not care a bit for Bon after revealing the biggest raaz of her life and that too in the most disgusting way 🤢 but the moment he got Manorama's letter, he ran to her where was Bondita ? did he not for once think uspe kya beeti hogi ?🤢

I am really not blaming Anirudh or anyone... I am blaming the writing of this plot which is clearly influenced by TRPs 🤢

Yes.. I am not going to accept this as well!

Originally posted by: Toto123

Rimi I was waiting for your post!!😳

I can completely relate to your emotions regarding the show!! The show has been so close to our hearts that we get affected deeply when such things happen.

You have listed down all the points very aptly👏

I am equally disspointed with potrayal of both Anirudh's and Bondita's charachter. I know that we cannot always get what we want in the show & I am ok with them exprimenting with storylines but such drastic changes in the beheviour of the Charachters with whom we r so attached is diappointing.

Yes , everyone has right to his or her indivisual feelings and but it is expected that such freedom should be given to all equally!!

Anirudhs concern for bondita is right but way of handling is very wrong..And somewhere down the line its his fault too.. Right from HM track he has always treated her as his wife and RC bahu.If the makers and Ani 's chrachter was so crystal clear about his thoughts regarding bondita , Why did they play RTM of Pyaar mera , dil mera........

My main point being , the problem is not about what they r showing, the problem is about the inconsistent actions of ARC.

Today he said that Bonditas mistake was that she took a wrong meaning of his Kartavya wali actions!! What is he even talking about.....

Was it his kartvya to dance at sampoorna's funtion on a couple song.

Was it his kartavya when he repeatedly reminded bon of how everything in the house was disturbed becoz she didnt value relations during sampoo track...

Was it his kartavya to repeatedly call her his wife even when there was no outsider to worry about

The only conclusion for his outburst are his feeling for manorama.But what is bons fault in that..& even his mind said the same thing!!

The way he explained Manorama at the end what his feeling are about bon, if he had done the same with bon, all the problems would have ended!!! All he said to bon or rather shouted at her was that she was a zimmedaari and not patni!! Why didnt he tell her why she could not be his patni ,... where was the most valid point of her being too young for it....He had done that bon would have understood and not rebelled.. like she is doing now.

He denied all the connection and bond he shared with her till date and named evrything as a bojh👏👏. He left her alone for people to influence her....First sampoo & then Kaka.

If he is really so concerned about her, he should have the guts to talk to her himself and explain her.

I can probably write more...but I am going to stop with last thought..That things have been wrong in the show from quite long..Its just that this was the final straw & for people to get detached from the show.

& to answer your question..

NO we should not Accept this.. Every fandom has a connection to the show and hence to show loyalty they support it even when they show wrong things!! This exact behaviour is the reason for cringy content in ITV shows. Its time that we break the chain👍🏼

Toto exactly my point...👏

Who asked him to say.... I am the only one who can feed you ebr...no one....

While preparing for funtion of binoy and shampoo he said bahu of Roy Chowdhury...

I am done with him......

Toto I hated him the day he thought about dagu girl while reading Rahim dhohe...

It was pathetic...gross...

Originally posted by: ..RiMi..

Toto 🤗

Actually I had to edit this multiple times because in my gussa I had written isse bhi bada post 🤣

Yes you are right, we were so attached to this show and characters... and humse behtar kaun jaanta hai that we don't always get what we want.. but yaar kitni baar? Even when I write fiction, the one thing which is most important is not to change the character there could be so many tracks which were better than this crap! 🤢 Last time they continued Sampoo crap for so long and in the end to divert our mind they got Periods track ... aur fir molestation ... so that we can keep mum.. but abb dekho sab kiya dhara pe paani fer diya na

I agree... I really cannot understand the character of ARC anymore.... because he is always confused about his actions! Bolega kuchh karega kuchh aur hi Post HM track toh Bondita se zyada he was adamant to be her Pati abb kya ho gaya ? the moment he got the true love of his life he forgot about everything kya 👎🏼

He did not care a bit for Bon after revealing the biggest raaz of her life and that too in the most disgusting way 🤢 but the moment he got Manorama's letter, he ran to her where was Bondita ? did he not for once think uspe kya beeti hogi ?🤢

I am really not blaming Anirudh or anyone... I am blaming the writing of this plot which is clearly influenced by TRPs 🤢

Yes.. I am not going to accept this as well!

RiMi ek bar mera PM padhlena! Phir araam se gussa karna...

Originally posted by: ChannelizedWing

When you plant seeds in the garden, you don't dig them up every day to see if they have sprouted yet. You simply water them and clear away the weeds - you know that the seed will grow in time. Similarly, just do your daily practice and cultivate. Abandon impatience and instead be content creating the causes for goodness; the results will come when they're ready.

Makers and channel are impatience for trp that's why they are ruining their own beautiful creation for few good numbers and these numbers never allowed a good show to grow and bloom among viewers.

That is so true ... we can clearly see makers ki impatience in the tracks 😕

Originally posted by: RUDY575

Rimi....

Each and every point I agree..

I feel cheated👎🏼

I watched this show after long time

......

I don't care about it anymore...

Thank you rimi for all the reviews FFS vms pics gif...

Your ffs potray the women empowerment topic then this show...

Aww Monu thank you so much 🤗 Although maine bhi apne stories me mostly Romance pe dhyaan diya hai but I never spoiled the essence of Bon's character yar 😔

Originally posted by: pretty-oni

Totally agree with each penned emotions.Now i really Don't bother what they convey.Each character is destroy brutally.So no mending is possible.

Lost all interest...finally.. 💔

Yes... I seem to have lost all connection with the track and the leads 🤢

I feel bad that there was time I was crazy about them 😔

Originally posted by: Toto123

Rimi I was waiting for your post!!😳

I can completely relate to your emotions regarding the show!! The show has been so close to our hearts that we get affected deeply when such things happen.

You have listed down all the points very aptly👏

I am equally disspointed with potrayal of both Anirudh's and Bondita's charachter. I know that we cannot always get what we want in the show & I am ok with them exprimenting with storylines but such drastic changes in the beheviour of the Charachters with whom we r so attached is diappointing.

Yes , everyone has right to his or her indivisual feelings and but it is expected that such freedom should be given to all equally!!

Anirudhs concern for bondita is right but way of handling is very wrong..And somewhere down the line its his fault too.. Right from HM track he has always treated her as his wife and RC bahu.If the makers and Ani 's chrachter was so crystal clear about his thoughts regarding bondita , Why did they play RTM of Pyaar mera , dil mera........

My main point being , the problem is not about what they r showing, the problem is about the inconsistent actions of ARC.

Today he said that Bonditas mistake was that she took a wrong meaning of his Kartavya wali actions!! What is he even talking about.....

Was it his kartvya to dance at sampoorna's funtion on a couple song.

Was it his kartavya when he repeatedly reminded bon of how everything in the house was disturbed becoz she didnt value relations during sampoo track...

Was it his kartavya to repeatedly call her his wife even when there was no outsider to worry about

The only conclusion for his outburst are his feeling for manorama.But what is bons fault in that..& even his mind said the same thing!!

The way he explained Manorama at the end what his feeling are about bon, if he had done the same with bon, all the problems would have ended!!! All he said to bon or rather shouted at her was that she was a zimmedaari and not patni!! Why didnt he tell her why she could not be his patni ,... where was the most valid point of her being too young for it....He had done that bon would have understood and not rebelled.. like she is doing now.

He denied all the connection and bond he shared with her till date and named evrything as a bojh👏👏. He left her alone for people to influence her....First sampoo & then Kaka.

If he is really so concerned about her, he should have the guts to talk to her himself and explain her.

I can probably write more...but I am going to stop with last thought..That things have been wrong in the show from quite long..Its just that this was the final straw & for people to get detached from the show.

& to answer your question..

NO we should not Accept this.. Every fandom has a connection to the show and hence to show loyalty they support it even when they show wrong things!! This exact behaviour is the reason for cringy content in ITV shows. Its time that we break the chain👍🏼

See ani himself throughout his monologue confessed about his outburst was due to Manorama ,it is an infatuation because he is seeing a bold girl like that which he wants bon to be although he does not know bon is selfless along with this and very pure hearted soul

His barrister brain told bon is not just a kid she is growing girl with emotions and her own intelligence

Secondly bon is not considering her self respect and is not able to express her pain and all because of her age and she considered ani her sansaar a person like her mom where she does not need to be afraid of being ousted or she can be weak and tell anything to him but she forgot ani is her husband and she till now does not see ani as husband figure because usually a wife shows tashan to her husband and preserved her self respect but it comes with time , bon is entangled in relations plus ani greatness

That is why an emotional confrontation of bon with ani si rewueired where she puts point of if she would have been in senses ,she would have died rather him marrying her , she wrote letter to her would be husband and she needs another check to realsie she is victim of sati Partha and her life was to be killed maybe going out of home could have helped but kaka influenced her and kaka knows what bon is going through but his love for his son and preserving grahlaximi is more than emotions for bon

Bon is not feeling an ounce of self respect as ani is like sansaar to her like her maa so this is the difference she needs to understand and she needs to start keeping her self respect intact and realise ani is her accidental husband , she needs to distant herself from him emotionally so that all relations can free her , it can come by blow of polygamy , and if bon starts doing these things or even confronts ani for being bojh to him and saying she does not want to be his zimmedaari and problem to him ,ani would realsie that the girl infront of him is growing up and she is a fierce woman and maybe it can put an endgame for rudhita then but if makers make her ultra nibbi and her begging ani to not leave her and ani doing polygamy for whatsoever reason that I am doing for bon but he would be doing for himself which his mind knows so I Ford expect from him

So bon needs to go out of ani life for time being to grab up herself

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

RiMi ek bar mera PM padhlena! Phir araam se gussa karna...

Read it and replied Ash.

I am in no mood to justify Ani or Bon's actions on the basis of a flawed person. This is a show and people follow the leads! If the leads are continuously been depicted to have all sorts of flaws in them, it just makes us loose connect with the characters!

Originally posted by: ..RiMi..

Read it and replied Ash.

I am in no mood to justify Ani or Bon's actions on the basis of a flawed person. This is a show and people follow the leads! If the leads are continuously been depicted to have all sorts of flaws in them, it just makes us loose connect with the characters!

Flaws utne hi consistent hai, Ani has a temper, both are impulsive, both are ziddi. Khair chhodo, aapke views aapke hai. Bas mere posts pe reply kiya karna!😳

It's so well written, so well thought of 👏 . Every point of yours is so aptly justified Rimi. ❤️

I read a post of yours where you beautifully described the difference between attraction and love. I was very disappointed upon watching that episode, but your post gave me hope! I still did not comment there because I wanted to do it after they showed that concept. But makers proved us completely wrong. I said it just yesterday, in ITV there is no concept of attraction/infatuation and so is the concept of platonic love. There is either a love inspired from physical beauty and romance (which does not comes under the category of love actually) or a dull zimmedari.

We tried justifying him saying he is scared of accepting these things due to entire SR fiasco. But he himself accepted yesterday, he shouted at Bon, not because he was scared or he felt this was not the right age of Bon, but because he is in love with Manorama, extinguishing all our hopes in a snap!

We thought of a beautiful concept of love, a love so pure in itself but makers had to dissolve that, labelling it as attachment and what not. All those moments spent by Rudhita was not love but yes the pehli jhalak is touted to be love, REAL love as you say.

Just what I was thinking during the whole track. Anirudh's attraction, love whatever it is 🤢 could still be justified as long as he does not realizes that. The moment HE REALIZES he is in love with someone else, that is emotional cheating and that is in no way acceptable. About people feeling out of love in reality, yes that does happens but there is a way- MOVE OUT. Just clearly move out from the bonding that isn't making sense to you now.

But the thing is- is that what the show was about? To have perspectives and dilemma about one's emotions, falling out of love, is this called cheating or not? First and foremost they are dealing with a marriage in which the wife is a child. This kind of topics doesn't suit only in this case. How is a 12 year old going to understand these extremely complicated human emotions? That's the first spot of non-relatability. Secondly, the show was about a relationship that witnesses growth amongst all the stigmas of the society, that denies to be in the conventional form of marriage; about social reforms they bring TOGETHER; about women in a positive light. This extra marriage love, choosing zimmedari over REAL love was not at all the concept.

Highly saddened with the way Bon was shown yesterday. The Bon we knew would have atleast questioned about the atrocities inflicted upon her. She was made to perform Sati. Won't the curious and sensitive mind of Bon atleast question that to Ani? Won't she question that how come all those moments spent by them can only be labelled by him as attachment? I am not saying ki she needs to cry buckets or leave the house. But atleast she would have done that mooh-fulana, tarks and all just like she did in the Masterji case when Ani came home late. Bon has a pure heart- she has a very little ego and she does not know that her Patibabu is already in love with someone else. She is somehow not trying to give-up on remembering how Ani did not give up on her too. She is not ready to believe that all those moments was a lie because we ourselves, being adults, took a long time believing that and here she is of a small age and is the direct person involved. But they could have shown that keeping her age in mind. She was the one who forgave Ani after knowing about his engagement with Mini. That was how it was needed to be done, not as a typical 23 year old TV bahu with that shankh noise going on in the BGM, like you said - glorifying it. I feel on knowing about Ani's love, she might step back and SHE SHOULD, that is extremely needed but I highly doubt that upon seeing the recent doings of the makers. 🤢 Is she even mature enough to understand her patibabu's attractions? Difference between her and Mini- maybe she won't choose wrong paths to justify her love. 🤢

Also, I don't know about the upcoming tracks but proving a child marriage does not work or a child marriage is wrong was never the concept of the show. There is already a lot been said about it.

And yes, humiliating women in public needs to stopped asap!

Your viewpoint made me write a essay in the reply 🤣 . I guess everyone wanted to lessen their frustration after watching yesterday's episode. 💔