Who is the dumbest of all? - Page 15

Originally posted by: jane_austen

@bold Agree 100%

I understand how being too lenient can make children wilful. But I still feel her rebellious nature is part of her inherent mental makeup. I have two nieces - brought up by same parents who have instilled both of them with discipline. Yet, one of then is like Sai in many ways - wilful, rebellious and has to be handled gently (as Ashwini says!). Despite all the disciplining, she cannot shed her inherent nature - only close family members are privy to that. Ofcourse, in cases where Sai goes over the limit it may be due to her father being too lenient. Perhaps it is a combination of her inherent nature plus lenient parenting. Anyways I'm enjoying this discussion. 🤗

Loving it myself..❤️

I do feel with Sai its more about being understood than explaining each one of her actions.. She is not a person who likes to give explanations on every actions of her..specially when she knows she is right.. She is not a people pleaser unlike Virat.. So there is a need in her to be understood.. One would hardly see her altercations with Aayi or even for that matter Sivani Bua.. Aayi has understood Sai from the day she stepped in .. in the house.. Just like her Aaba understood her.. Aaba was lenient because I cant imagine my father just calling my name out in reprimanding tone when I go on to misbehave with his senior just because he is being loaded with more work... virat was pretty lenient with her as well in the beginning..

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i understood ur point. 😆

i guess the investigation will be done in upcoming episodes if the articles are to be believed.

Hopefully they show that .

still, if we see not everyone who investigates can catch the culprit. upar se like Virat said both pulkit and devi are majors so dont need anyone permission to get married. here devyani loves pulkit and pulkit loves devyani.

Dwvyani is mentally unstable. So she may be taking wrong decision. So technically she is not a 'consenting' adult.

i know devyani is mentally unstable, and many are wanting her to be cured first as she is not in the position to take such important decisions about her life. but here we need to see from the POV that devi ki haalat hi ayisi hai cuz she got separated from her husband and child and chavans are feeding her wrong medicines which is of no good for her. she is not going to get well jab tak woh CN mein hai.

virat is of no use as uske naak ke neecha ithna sab ho raha tha still he had no clue about anything

Virat duffer hai 😆 but not to the point he will ignore solid proof. Eg. Harini ka DNA test. Concern for his niece may knock some sense into him to improve his investigation skills and eventually he may come to correct conclusion.

and sai college jaati hai kudh ke kaam hai no one can take 24/7 care of devyani when kaku and gang mauke ki talaash mein baite rehte hai to harm her.

someone told me that devi tries to jump off the balcony in KD, if they show something like that there then sai will definitely have reasons to want her to get married to pulkit ASAP. cuz jab tak woh saare investigation etc karti saboot laati pata nay thab tak Chavans kya kaand karte.

I think they may show that here too

it may not be about the right she has and full of logical acts but she is taking sensible decision. why would she put herself into trouble if she has any other choice?😆

Aapne to decide kar liya ki duffer ACP ka kuch nahi ho sakta 🤣

i mean she has all the info need to belive that pulkit is the right guy after he tells her the whole story, he showed her proof the devi is only his wife, and will tell her harini's story also before she escapes devi from CN so she has no reason to not do it. only draw back is that virat is against it too. but sai is sach ka saath dene waali, so can't help it.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Loving it myself..❤️

I do feel with Sai its more about being understood than explaining each one of her actions.. She is not a person who likes to give explanations on every actions of her..specially when she knows she is right.. She is not a people pleaser unlike Virat.. So there is a need in her to be understood.. One would hardly see her altercations with Aayi or even for that matter Sivani Bua.. Aayi has understood Sai from the day she stepped in .. in the house.. Just like her Aaba understood her.. Aaba was lenient because I cant imagine my father just calling my name out in reprimanding tone when I go on to misbehave with his senior just because he is being loaded with more work... virat was pretty lenient with her as well in the beginning..

@bold I agree

@blue Yes. These is where her father was too lenient with her.

Originally posted by: jane_austen

she is mentally unstable, but she is already married to pulkit, she is already his wife, its not like iss bimaari ke chalte she is marrying him for the first time. moreover, we audience and sai will know devi's story so, they cant wait till she gets cured cuz as i said jab tak she is with chavans her mental health is not gonna get better. so woh option hi nay hai.

about being adult, i felt the same, lol. but then ACP virat chavan said that adult waala dilouge so maybe serial mein ayaisa hi hota hoga 😆

about the investigation, as i said sai will try to talk to virat saheb about this but he is not interested in talking about, he infact tells her that iss bharemin sai will never talk again either with him or gharwaale. An investigation will be shown anyway, but am sure that its gonna fail, chavans truth wont come out till the separation happens lol. well, she do try. ayisa nay hai ki seeda devi ko bhagaya hai.😆

her attempts:

1) try to talk to virat about it and convince (fails)

4) no use of talking to family (already failed)

2) investigation (fails)

3) devi tries to commit suicide like in KD (am emergency to take a decision)

4) she believed that pulkit is the right guy..she showed her proofs and all

5) devyani loves him.

so she will get them married. 😆

Aapne audience ka option nhi rakha