Pakhi and manhandling- Page 2

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

For Pakhi it boils down to one thing.

Virat keeps going against his family keeps standing up-supporting Sai. The same guy who refused Pakhi saying he will not go against his family to marry her. He rejected her love!

So every time pakhi sees Sai she is reminded Virat choose Sai and not her ( even though sairat wedding circumstances were forced). And she has to live under the same roof. So this drives Pakhi crazy!

On another note, in Sai’s case she is not opening up to Virat or trying to get close to him because of Pakhi! For Sai Pakhi was Virat’s first choice (irrespective of 1.47 yoga love) and she is living with her under the same roof where she gets taunted by the same woman on regular basis. Lord! in initial days Virat wanted Pakhi to be a mentor to Sai!

it’s really one hell of a dysfunctional drama !!

Yeah but the hatred is so much that she jus doesn't care how she is behaving. Has turned blind and acting mad.

Tell me about Virat wanting Pakhi to guide Sai. A big joke. How much did he think he knows about Pakhi. He himself doesn't know about her, I would say he knew about Sai much more than he knew about Pakhi from the beginning.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

It is said that hurt people hurt people. Those who are hurt also hurt others. I'm not justifying her actions and I'm not saying everyone who hurts others is already hurt. I'm not saying it is right. I'm not saying that she has a right to do so. But this is what it is. I have been a target of someone's anger and I came to know it was their inner pain that converted into anger and I became the target. Many people cannot deal with pain and helplessness. So they bring it out on others. Different people deal with pain differently. I saw a clip on insta where Virat says to Sai you are right but what Pakhi said is also not wrong. The expression on Patralekha's face spoke volume about her inner need. She was so satisfied that Virat took her side. It made me realise one thing about her character though I knew it before but it made me realise the extent to which she has become fixated on him. She doesn't care whatever happens to Devyani or anyone for that matter. Bhavani always takes her side, praises her, and prioritises her over others but Patralekha was never happy. I never saw that happy expression on her face whenever anyone insulted Sai or praised her. She always has a smirk, an ego boost. And I know I might get bashed for this 😆but she was happy from within when Virat took her side. It was like a few raindrops on a desert. For a few moments the real Patralekha was out who just needs his love. The look on her face was such. She is in pain and tries to give pain to Sai in a futile attempt to soothe her wounds. When she hurts Sai it's because she is frustrated from within and helpless as well. Because she knows she can't do anything. Anything that Virat does for her even if it is taking her side in an argument seems like a balm to her wounds. But little does she know that Virat taking her side is like painkiller. It curbs the pain but doesn't remove it completely. She has to accept her reality which she does not. She has to move on from heart to find herself again. Till then her pain will keep on hurting others too. So there are only two ways through which she can be stopped either she accepts the reality(whether she chooses to give her marriage a chance or Separates from the family and chooses to love Virat from a distance without interfering in his life or decides to keep on moving towards her future with a hope in her heart, whatever) or through force. Though using force against her is an option but it is always used in tv serials where no one wants to understand the third wheel and they are shown as completely irredeemable, so they are mocked, manipulated and jailed or even killed, I want something different from this serial. So I would like them to choose the first option. We have a different female lead. I want a different third wheel too. Not completely mahaan, not completely negative. I wish they show her stooping but to realise her mistakes and get back up. I want her to make a life for her where she is not so fixated on Virat that she cannot think of anything else.

Oops turned out rather long. Sorry.😆

Was a pleasure to read. Why do you have to be sorry?

You have written it beautifully. Have covered all aspects of Pakhi. You won't be bashed to have stated the facts. Yes, she gets happy if Virat takes her side or praises her. All she wants is his attention and also that he doesn't treat Sai well.

You have analysed her as she should be. 👏👏

She is like a wounded lion, waiting to pounce on Sai. As you said she is hurt so wants to pass on that hurt to Sai.

Yeah let's hope she changes to good in future.

Originally posted by: laksh

He didn't grow angry at Sai while looking at her. He was surprised and puzzled.

Blasting Pakhi, have to watch the show. I wrote in one of the threads as why he shouts at Sai more than Pakhi.

I don't think it is chauvinism.

This attribute is not chauvinism..what i meant was he has traits of chauvinism.. Asking Sai to endure the torchure meted on her in the name of household chores , accepting it a challenge thrown by ghar ke bade is chauvinism..Expecting an 18-19 year old girl who is aspiring to become a doctor to do household work is chauvinism.. Asking her to not participate in a dance competition because he is plain jealous and then entering his ex's room who also is his Vehni..is chauvinism and hypocrisy..

Coming back to Pakhi's abuse..Virat doesnt reprimand her..Virat doesnt stop her from talking about Sai in strict tone..He lets her interrupt their fights, conversation while asks the likes of Maushi and Shivani Bua to not get in between pati patni.. I have serious degree of issues with him..when he lets Patralekha talk to Sai in any manner she wants..abuse her as well..and most of the times gives her dirty looks where I believe she doesnt even see him giving those..Sai stopped Patralekha from falling, when she hot the bag in Ladakh trip episode, and she removed her hand a bit rudely...Have we ever seen him reprimanding Pakhi the way she behaved with his wife , considering he is her friend and has a right to correct her where she is wrong.No. But then its his character to avoid conflicts as much as he can... I am hoping in the coming episodes he does give her back in not so subtle tone.. I still have hopes from the character Virat..A lot at that.

Originally posted by: laksh

Was a pleasure to read. Why do you have to be sorry?

You have written it beautifully. Have covered all aspects of Pakhi. You won't be bashed to have stated the facts. Yes, she gets happy if Virat takes her side or praises her. All she wants is his attention and also that he doesn't treat Sai well.

You have analysed her as she should be. 👏👏

She is like a wounded lion, waiting to pounce on Sai. As you said she is hurt so wants to pass on that hurt to Sai.

Yeah let's hope she changes to good in future.

It's a req don't compare pakhi with lion family , she is vixen or hynaa

Originally posted by: laksh

Was a pleasure to read. Why do you have to be sorry?

You have written it beautifully. Have covered all aspects of Pakhi. You won't be bashed to have stated the facts. Yes, she gets happy if Virat takes her side or praises her. All she wants is his attention and also that he doesn't treat Sai well.

You have analysed her as she should be. 👏👏

She is like a wounded lion, waiting to pounce on Sai. As you said she is hurt so wants to pass on that hurt to Sai.

Yeah let's hope she changes to good in future.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

It's a req don't compare pakhi with lion family , she is vixen or hynaa

Sorry, won't 😂😂

Wrong example 😓

Originally posted by: laksh

Ended up watching few scenes which I otherwise might have skipped. I was in the hunt of a scene where I heard Sai tells Ninad that your son is my husband 😂😂

The reason for this post is to point how Pakhi is subtly violent now. She uses physical force.

Like in today's episode :

I hated the way she stopped Sai, she just snatches the phone from her all of a sudden. Was it really necessary, she couldn't have stopped her any other way?

One consolation was it didn't go unnoticed by Virat. It definitely was not something he liked is what I gathered.

This behavior takes me back to the day when she holds Sai's hand to stop her on the day they first spoke about the Ladakh trip.

She stops Sai by holding her hands. Sai gets shocked and can see some fear too in her. She then asks what happened, why have you caught hold of my hand like that.

As soon as she says that Virat looks at Paakhi shocked. He will keep looking at her. It is not an usual way to stop someone and especially when they both do not share any kind of a friendly relationship, it is absolutely not an acceptable way to stop someone.

We do know how vile she is but it also an indication of how much she can stoop in her actions and how as Sai wisely pointed out that she has absolutely no control over her emotions.

She thinks herself to be full of tameez. We all know about her tameez anyway but not knocking the door while entering or overhearing others conversations is not the same as such manhandling.

On the contrary, Sai whom she keeps calling badtameez tried to stop this same person on the day they were about to go on a trip by first calling out her name and then keeping her hand on her shoulders gently.

Virat looks at that as well in that scene and he looks puzzled but her very next statement which was like a consolation to the lady made him realize what she was trying to do.

The girl just stops her and in an attempt to comfort her, to cool her down, places hand on her shoulder and says politely, I know you would have never liked me to join you both and also requests her to not cancel the trip and go ahead without her.

And it is this girl she taunts saying where do you request, you only know to order.

Aai rightly pointed out about Sai noticing all this "sirf usi ne samajhdaari dikhayi". Lovely Aai.

Anyway the post is not about Sai, it is to bring Pakhi's behavior to notice. It looks more like what can be expected from her in future. A person who has no control over herself in anyway.

I think Pakhi as character is not portrayed well by the actress playing Pakhi. The actress doesn't have control over her body when she performs angry scenes. She looks boisterous. Her expressions are all over, body language is boisterous and voice modulation is pathetic, so she looks odd in anything she does. But in angry scenes she looks OTT or possessed for lack of better word. I feel if a better actress had performed as Pakhi, it would have come across much better.

Also, audience is upset because the character is promoted by the actress herself, ML, channel and the PH as gray or even mature while calling the actual positive lead rude, manner less, crossing lines etc. So this character has lost its true calling by the actress trying too hard to be in lime-light without having actual acting skills.

Originally posted by: methebest

I think Pakhi as character is not portrayed well by the actress playing Pakhi. The actress doesn't have control over her body when she performs angry scenes. She looks boisterous. Her expressions are all over, body language is boisterous and voice modulation is pathetic, so she looks odd in anything she does. But in angry scenes she looks OTT or possessed for lack of better word. I feel if a better actress had performed as Pakhi, it would have come across much better.

Also, audience is upset because the character is promoted by the actress herself, ML, channel and the PH as gray or even mature while calling the actual positive lead rude, manner less, crossing lines etc. So this character has lost its true calling by the actress trying too hard to be in lime-light without having actual acting skills.

Dear the issue is, that it isn't just that the actress who is portraying the character wrong, but it is very clear both the writers and director have created this character in a different way from the originals. The writers and directors are the one who dictate their expectations of how the actor should present the character in each scene in order to display the required emotions and intentions of the character as intended. Here it seems the way the actress portrays pakhi as this boisterous, sour-faced and whiny woman who always loves to play victim card and claim she is being attacked and humiliated even when that is not the case is just how the hindi version character has been written.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Dear the issue is, that it isn't just that the actress who is portraying the character wrong, but it is very clear both the writers and director have created this character in a different way from the originals. The writers and directors are the one who dictate their expectations of how the actor should present the character in each scene in order to display the required emotions and intentions of the character as intended. Here it seems the way the actress portrays pakhi as this boisterous, sour-faced and whiny woman who always loves to play victim card and claim she is being attacked and humiliated even when that is not the case is just how the hindi version character has been written.

I would say 80 (director )and 20 ( actor )division of blame . The directors and the actor should be blamed for the way the character has turned out. I just can’t get behind the OTT reactions in certain scenes when she is angry. If they rewatch those scenes they can see what went wrong and what’s not connecting with the audience

Her otherwise normal reactions are fine. Don’t want to get into it.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

I would say 80 (director )and 20 ( actor )division of blame . The directors and the actor should be blamed for the way the character has turned out. I just can’t get behind the OTT reactions in certain scenes when she is angry. If they rewatch those scenes they can see what went wrong and what’s not connecting with the audience

Her otherwise normal reactions are fine. Don’t want to get into it.

I agree that there is partial blame towards the actress of the presentation of pakhi character due to her poor acting, especially given how well and adequately every other actor in the show performs their parts, but clearly the director and writers have created this character differently from the originals in some aspect.