To accept or not to accept, that is the question! - Page 2

Originally posted by: AK_2010

I am very disappointed to see them reduce Bondita to a roti-dhoti heroine who has no self-respect or strength by her self.

What was their intention? Showing a woman grow out of a patriarchal world and show everyone that she can be whatever she wants? Or show how a girl's life revolves around husband no matter what the husband says the woman has to work on her marriage.

They are showing Bondita working on a marriage where she does not understand what marriage is while her counter part is PRACTICALLY ABSENT in the relationship

I thought that this show would be different but I guess ITV gets high on showing such public humiliation of their FL

I cannot and neither should anyone else tolerate such BS 🤢

@Bold - exactly my point Akshu... why does everything in every show always has to do with women and marriage Why are always women expected to work on their marriage? why are always women expected to accept their husband the way they are? Why can't Bon simply deny having any relation with Ani from now on and why isn't Ani the one to work on their relationship ?

It is such an irony that a show which claims to empower woman is the one which is actually degrading women 👎🏼 Itna bada hangaama karta hai Anirudh, Bon ko patni bolne se mana karta hai Anirudh aur rishte ko bachaane ka zimma de diya Bondita ko 🤢 this is so cheap!

Totally agree with each penned emotions.Now i really Don't bother what they convey.Each character is destroy brutally.So no mending is possible.

Lost all interest...finally.. 💔

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

RiMi and Munnu, I have chatted with you guys only for a few days but I have enjoyed it.

Aapka gussa ekdam jayaz hai! Till I saw the actual episode even I was upset. Dekhne ke baad I put down my points in the AT so phir nahi repeat karungi. But yes, if they forget Ani's behaviour at the party and let him get away with a slap on the wrist mujhe zyada hi gussa ayega.

But I still believe maker's haven't inherently butchered the characters so will wait and watch. I will keep posting my thoughts and I hope to have your opinions as well, even if you disagree! ❤️

Ashley ..

U tagged me in a post yesterday... but I couldnt reply coz AT is locked..But i have written my POV in this post😳👍🏼

Originally posted by: leanne_1983

Amazing post Rimi👏

You have said everything that is going on in my head and heart and put it down so well👍🏼

They glorify a girl like Bondita, who simply cried at the humiliation she faced from her husband publicly and later swears to mend her relationship and fight for the love which he is simply not ready to give? What difference is there between her and Mini ? Yes Bon was influenced by Kaka and society but what is the point of glorifying such scenes as they did in today's episode ?

This is one thing I didn't realise. Yes, if they show Bondita fighting for Anirudh against his own wishes and feelings then what is the difference between her and Mini? Looking at it that way it would mean that even Mini was not entirely wrong. She was unfortunately denied the love and happiness that she had dreamt about and invested her time and heart in for 10 years or more. So why is Bondita right and Mini wrong? Just because she is his wife? A relationship he refuses to acknowledge? If she fights for their relationship against his own wishes, then THAT would be the real meaning of Sampoorna's words of Bondita choking all his happiness.

Thank you so much leanne 🤗❤️

Yes. I understand that Kaka filled all that in her brain, but where is her own sense ? Can't she see that Ani is not willing to give her the position of a wife ? Why is it justified to show her trying to win Ani's love? How is it different from Mini ?😵

@Bold - that is so true... Idk how the makers miss out of such important points just for the sake of TRP! I just wanted to point out the issues and loopholes in the track... now I don't really care what they show because no matter what happens, unless this whole track was Bondita's nighmare, I am not watching the show like before 👎🏼

BB as a pathbeaking show died the moment ani met AE in most flimy way and butchered his character worst possible way episode after episode.

1 year for ani bon bond with RTM background was cruel joke by makers on us. Want to slap makers for what kachra they made of a beautiful show in just 2 weeks.

ARC has died nothing can redeem him now unless this whole track is a dream or ae is ghadaar and he is trapping her. Har din wo a new level neche girta hai with his new found flith

Bon is lead so she will her brain back and after leap will get a new hero( if the show survive).

Originally posted by: Toto123

Ashley ..

U tagged me in a post yesterday... but I couldnt reply coz AT is locked..But i have written my POV in this post😳👍🏼

Is that your response to RiMis post?

Your thoughts are same as mine . The day show started we should not considered aniditha are simply different from other leads but no maker brutally destroyed our beloved leads aniditha done with this show Good bye 🙏🙏🙏

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Is that your response to RiMis post?

Yes...i just unresed ..😆

Originally posted by: Toto123

Yes...i just unresed ..😆

Okay, I read that. I have put my views in the new AT as well. Since I have decided to wait and watch, I am going to keep posting, and I hope you guys keep replying, irrespective of whether you agree or disagree. I have my reasons for thinking why the characters haven't changed but this thread is not the place for it.

Yup buddy any character is not build til time even character ARC need time fr realisation is wat i felt if Bon have issue ARC tries to find answer fr her bt sometime even whoever in life needs someone to crt, ARC dont have such rt person to see him in his wavelength and crt him in rt moment, ths character is smeone who learns and realise frm his own mistake fr tat hurting Bon is complete stupidity one....but never says he himself Mahan,scarificed his life fr Bon nu, he only choosed ths path yo save Bon bt he himself cant be steady as its his life long decision so he too vl have up's and down's na in tat..

So i am waiting fr makers to mould ths track further...