Tere Bina Jeeya Jaaye Naa - Page 19

This thread has run at lighting speed today and why not, we all have been waiting so patiently to see this restless Aditya. When I saw today's episode, all I could remember was their first conversation in the hut where Aditya said that everything happens as per destiny and Imlie's answer was that destiny shows the road but we also have to follow it through with our actions.

Their connection was forged by destiny, they were brought together through marriage, they gave it a name of majboori but both failed to realize how these two small things, sindoor and magalsutra can create a bind that you cannot deny even if you want to. It starts with a small thread of haq and responsibility, and then eventually it becomes an unbreakable bond due to the additions of understanding, trust, care and love. Both of them had started with majboori moved to responsibility and duty but as Imlie had said that though destiny shows the way, you also need actions to move forward. She with her selfless actions, without any demands, just based on her beliefs, kept moving forwards in this relationship, and brought understanding and trust to it, be it by saving him, supporting him or simply by giving encouragement. Aditya, too matched her step by step, be it by defending her, elevating her status by accepting her in his room or plain encouraging her to move forward with her dreams. Where once, where she was scared to go in front of the him and he hated the sight of her in his house, now they have come to a point where one is thinking that how will she live her life without him and other is feeling suffocated (ghuton) in the house where she is not there. So, yes destiny got them together but it is their actions that is binding them together.

"Sach aur jhoot, sahi aur galat, pyaar aur zimmedari ke chaurahe pe kade hain"

His solution for this was for her to go away. He thought that once she is out of his life, he can live his life peacefully as he envisioned it. But he is not realizing that just because you hide the truth does not mean its gone away. He is not on this crossroad because Imlie came in his life. He is on his crossroad because he choose to speak the lie, he chose to do a mistake by marrying Malini without resolving his relationship with Imlie and hence he is getting pulled in the two directions of love and responsibility . He is failing to understand, that his lack of peace and happiness had nothing to do with Imlie being in his house but due to his own actions. As long as he keeps running away from facing the truth of the mistake that he has done and take steps to correct it, he is always going to be at Crossroads. Imlie is not the name of complication but its his own past actions. Once he realizes what is right, what is truth that he needs to follow, his pyaar and make it right, all complications will go away.

Lastly, I still do not think both have reached love yet, Yes they have both became important to each other, need each other and hold a special place for the other in their heart but still not love. More than care,yes but still less than love.

(Updated on pg2 too)

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Amen. I was actually thinking they might show a scene of Malini holding the chain and thinking/talking about Imlie with Adi after Imlie's left.....lol but aisa bhi kuch nahin hua.

All Chaturvedis are useless....ek se badhkar ek useless log.....but it really is hilarious that the chain that Malini demanded Imlie keep was left behind by Imlie and Malini had basically no reaction.....all she did was make 100 calls to Papa in that time😆

@bold - word. She is so scared to question her husband’s reaction to anything Imlie related. What does she think she’s going to get as an answer at the moment?

And all this is recent. Until the shopping mall episode, she was actually the one holding the mirror to Aditya’s changing equation with Imlie. Did she realize the actual depth of Aditya’s connection to Imlie after the spat in her mom’s house? And now wants to not see/ hear whatever it is that she does not want to see/hear? Or is she just plain shallow?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Work came before EVERYTHING for Adi.....if Imlie comes even before work, does that mean Imlie comes before everything for him now? 😛😆

Jokes apart, it is just remarkable to watch this journey of Adi. He's fundamentally a good/righteous man who spent his whole life focused on chasing stories about truth/justice....uske aage peechhe kuch nahin dikhaa....not even the Malini he claims was the love of his life......and now here comes Imlie....she has become someone who is beyond all the things he's deemed were important in his life - work, family, Malini, his honor, reputation.....all the things he clung to as the ones defining him. Imlie has now flipped the definition of everything for him, forced him to confront what really matters in his life.....she is the key to all the locks he had put on himself while trying to lose himself in work. 😆

The joke here used to be Adi's real love and first wife is his work😆.....today he is finally confronted by the fact that work was his lifelong distraction from trying to have any real meaningful connections/relationships....Imlie has snuck past all those barriers he built around himself and isko pata bhi nahin chalaa when Imlie became more important than work😆.

Word... I do feel that he has defined a box for him, almost like a checklist that he thinks is right and he kept ticking it off as he went on with his life. Hence, the only thing that gave him true happiness or satisfaction was work. But everything connected with Imlie, starting from the bike ride till date, forced him to break his barrier and open this locks that he has put on himself. and face the unknown which gave him a different kind of satisfaction and happiness.. As she is one who was the initiator, she become his partner and he started trusting her to be on his side to face his unknown journey which gave him a different kind of happiness and satisfaction. With every barrier that she broke, she kept making a place for herself in both still do not know or realize what a special place she holds in his life.

Originally posted by: pamk06

His solution for this was for her to go away. He thought that once she is out of his life, he can live his life peacefully as he envisioned it. But he is not realizing that just because you hide the truth does not mean its gone away. He is not on this crossroad because Imlie came in his life. He is on his crossroad because he choose to speak the lie, he chose to do a mistake by marrying Malini without resolving his relationship with Imlie and hence he is getting pulled in the two directions of love and responsibility . He is failing to understand, that his lack of peace and happiness had nothing to do with Imlie being in his house but due to his own actions. As long as he keeps running away from facing the truth of the mistake that he is has done and take steps to correct it, he is always going to be at Crossroads. Imlie is not the name of complication but his own past actions. One he realizes what is his truth, his pyaar and make it right, all complications will go away.

Lastly, I still do not think both have reached love yet, Yes they have both became important to each other, need each other and hold a special place for the other in their heart but still not love. More than care,yes but still less than love.

@bold: I agree that ultimately his lack of peace is due to his refusal to face the truth, but part of that truth also is that he can't live without Imlie anymore....so Imlie's absence in the house is still part of the reason he isn't at peace. We as the audience already saw his reactions in the past when faced with the prospect of Imlie dying/leaving his life.....now for the first time, Adi is facing the absence of Imlie without a life/death question....so yes, a lot of this is also wound in with the fact that his life feels incomplete without Imlie....that is why he isn't at peace.

Re: love....I think Imlie has more or less fallen in love with him but she is too naive to understand it yet and codes everything in the duty/belief of him being her husband......Adi is yet to fall in love but his emotions are getting more intense.

If the last weird precap is anything to go by, what we think is the most bizarre will happen - everyone found the snakebite funny but that will happen in all probability. The hug is symbolic of Aditya acceptance of Imlie holding a spot of significance in his life; maybe that of a friend. No actual hug will happen I think. Dream? Possible. But how many times will they show someone dreaming.

Will they be happy seeing each other? Of course. They are at peace when the other is around and that will come across. Dono bejaan banke ghoom rahen hain abhi.

I still want to keep my money on Aditya apologizing and bringing her back for her college. Imlie will not have a choice because what can she do once the jamaibabu lands in PD? She cannot refuse to go back with the man the entire village (except NN) adores and views as her husband.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

@bold - word. She is so scared to question her husband’s reaction to anything Imlie related. What does she think she’s going to get as an answer at the moment?

And all this is recent. Until the shopping mall episode, she was actually the one holding the mirror to Aditya’s changing equation with Imlie. Did she realize the actual depth of Aditya’s connection to Imlie after the spat in her mom’s house? And now wants to not see/ hear whatever it is that she does not want to see/hear? Or is she just plain shallow?

Yeah I was thinking about the same earlier today as well.....until the shopping mall episode, pretty much every other scene had Malini pointing out how Imlie is managing to make Adi do things he never did before and Adi used to get defensive😆....she was even among the first people to point out that Adi is scolding Imlie even in fikar.

Then everything seems to have flipped around the time of the award incident which was the first time she openly got upset over a "change" in Adi....lol....uske baad little little things kept happening for Malini's insecurity to increase.....now she keeps saying she has total trust in Adi but things like this show how she has started to back off from candidly sharing her views on the changes in Adi due to Imlie.

I think she is in the I don't want to see/hear things that I can't bear zone.....so she will try her best to pretend she can't see the obvious in front of her.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly.....all these NDEs are intended to bring out their emotions for each other which they will otherwise try to run away from - especially Adi. And honestly, inki puri journey hi is built around facing life and death crisis together.....the moment that changed everything was the first time Adi was staring death in the face and Imlie saved him.....then next time, Imlie was dying and he saved her....now she's saved him again.....inka rishta ab yeh hai ki inki jaan ek dusre ki amanat ban gayi hai😆......it's all symbolic of destiny showing ki inki jaan ek dusre mein basti hai and they can't live without each other.

This is also being done to establish that the question of the acceptance of the marriage is on one side but in dono ka rishta us sab se upar uthtaa jaa raha hai.....like GM said in one of those IVs too....the bond that gets established when two people go through such situations together is bigger than anything.

What is NDE?

Originally posted by: MuteButton

If the last weird precap is anything to go by, what we think is the most bizarre will happen - everyone found the snakebite funny but that will happen in all probability. The hug is symbolic of Aditya acceptance of Imlie holding a spot of significance in his life; maybe that of a friend. No actual hug will happen I think. Dream? Possible. But how many times will they show someone dreaming.

Will they be happy seeing each other? Of course. They are at peace when the other is around and that will come across. Dono bejaan banke ghoom rahen hain abhi.

I still want to keep my money on Aditya apologizing and bringing her back for her college. Imlie will not have a choice because what can she do once the jamaibabu lands in PD? She cannot refuse to go back with the man the entire village (except NN) adores and views as her husband.

I think that Aditya will reach PD, the snake bite is real, the SRK hug might be a dream or impulsive action of Aditya's side...where he is seeing NN is making a fuss and he does it just to show that marriage is real.

Originally posted by: pamk06

What is NDE?

NDE = Near Death Experience😆..... a term IB/Shivika fans are very familiar with😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah I was thinking about the same earlier today as well.....until the shopping mall episode, pretty much every other scene had Malini pointing out how Imlie is managing to make Adi do things he never did before and Adi used to get defensive😆....she was even among the first people to point out that Adi is scolding Imlie even in fikar.

Then everything seems to have flipped around the time of the award incident which was the first time she openly got upset over a "change" in Adi....lol....uske baad little little things kept happening for Malini's insecurity to increase.....now she keeps saying she has total trust in Adi but things like this show how she has started to back off from candidly sharing her views on the changes in Adi due to Imlie.

I think she is in the I don't want to see/hear things that I can't bear zone.....so she will try her best to pretend she can't see the obvious in front of her.

I think that's what they are going for. I do agree that things kept piling up to increase her insecurity and she was Ok till she saw Imlie in the restaurant with Aditya but since then she has shut herself up and is just telling that I trust him. The thing is even though Aditya gave an explanation, it must have pricked her or should have pricked her that he never involved Malini in his work but he involved Imlie without a second thought. Also, he never gave Malini the time because of work but is giving that time to Imlie even though its related to work which is so important to him that he always kept his love behind it. I think hence as she is scared of the answer, she is not even putting foot in that zone and thus putting a trust blanket over her head.

I think Aditya will be the one who will have to spell it out to her, that was basically the conclusion of that trust convo.

On a completely separate note, how does it make sense to not call Imlie's mother but its ok for everyone (12 people ) to just land in PD? What kind of a suggestion is this and she is a professor. I can understand couple of them going but pura parivar? 😆