Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 58

Originally posted by: Midnight_Sun1

Lalzu 🤗

Both are victims of situation. The situation is wrong here, not them. Even Anirudh wants the same thing. His dialogue 'Your focus should be on being a barrister, not ARC's wife' proves how much this man wants Bon to progress in life. He doesn't want her to spend her life being only a man's wife which the society of that era wants.

Yup he knows society is expecting a lot from her it means he wants bon to be his wife but out of her own emotional maturity and decision plus he does not adult bon perspective like maybe on getting emotional maturity she would not see husband in him or fall in love with anyone else or realsie what kind of things she was forced

Originally posted by: Midnight_Sun1

Hi sharafah 🤗

What I have written is completely from my understanding of the episode. You are saying from yours.I respect your view.

From where I am watching, he was shocked, not really sad. The mandir scene made it pretty clear. A krantikari won't really want to get shackled in a marriage.Even I would have been shocked if I were at Ani's place. There also he was thanking her as he could pay Bon's fees because of her. This is a matter of how you perceive the scene, I believe. My perspective gave me those points. 🤗

I understand Sweety😳.. I guess the promos has done the damage for me,, maybe the upcoming episodes would clear it all for me but I still cant agree with Ani for shouting at Bon infront of the crowd :(

Originally posted by: sharafah

You are right😊 He did not want to hurt Bondita... but this is my problem😔

1. He should not have done all the rasams with her as a couple because some were not done with any compulsion by anyone. Why he told Bon to take blesssings from Kaka by falling on his leg and he did together with her?

2. When Bon asked him about their marriage in bedwetting track he should have explained to her because she was not that emotionally attached to him then. Now everyone around her be it her family or Mini betrayed her,, now Ani talking like this infront of everyone is clearly unfair to her

3. Infront of this village people only both of them as a couple welcomed guests into the house and danced for Sampoorna's bahu bhaat

4. When he was alone with Bon he has addressed himself as her pati babu and told her that she is the bahu of the house.

5. Why let her form relations with people and let people call her bahu or boudi or maalkin?

6. Fb scenes when she said I want to take my first photo with my pati babu why did say ok with a big smile and accept it? Why in the coco phone blame her for being the reason for being forced to get engaged with Mini? Best the ringing of his heat when he knows Bon needs him or misses him? Then him saying to her " Apki pati babu ki Bondita"

7. Why put her in tight spot to choose between Kaka and him when they both have conflicting opinions,, she has to satisfy Kaka and him right? If she is just a responsibility why pressurized her that much?

8. When Bon's mum called him Anirudh babu just before HM track why was he affected,, why did he want her to call him jammai babu? Bon is just a responsibility right? Why write in the letter to her mum trust in important between friends.... and between husband and wife?

and the list goes on...

He does not want to hurt Bon and at the same time he does not want to understand how she feels! Since he could not complete what he wanted to write in the diary I cant say for sure but in my opinion I think he wanted to tell his feelings for AE in his diary? The only time I think Ani controlled his anger was during the menstruation track when he tried his best to talk to her..apart from that always lost his calm and the his actions are severe... I know he getting to know is infatuated with him he was shocked but he was at that age when he started liking Mini? so how can he not understand Bon? I know I have not seen the upcoming episodes to judge Ani or his actions but he is going to tell Bon their marriage was a fake and a lie,,, so after doing all the things I mentioned,, now who is at fault? After letting her built emotional bonds with people in the house and then later saying ? He is protecting her physically from any harm but emotionally he isn't.. I know makers want to show how child marriage can affect a child which is good but in that era child marraige was acceptable so there is no point in denying their marriage and to moreover there is no need of shouting this in front of a large crowd

I actually have only one answer to these questions. The answer is Kaka and his laddoos.

Ani has not called Bon his zimmedari between the HM track and the SR track. Usme he had already started accepting her as a wife, as someone very important to him. Zimmedari came up again when Kaka brought up the SR. At that time he was clear, that while he cared deeply for Bon, he was not willing to consummate the relationship for obvious reasons. He only started distancing himself from Bon after the SR, when kaka dosed him with those laddoos. Ani has realised that it was just luck that he could save Bon and if Thakur was not in the picture, Ani would have been in his place.

He realised after the SR track that Bon is being tied down by the marriage, emotionally and socially. Hence his obsession with her studies. Secondly, in today's epi he is clear that Bon should focus on becoming a barrister and not be reduced to ARCs wife.

I cannot blame him for thinking that way.

Originally posted by: sharafah

Nima!!😳🤗

I really hope so Nima.. I badly want to be wrong that he has feelings for her... I think the promos have just caused the damage that the upcoming episodes would have to clear it up for me :)

Do you still have a doubt on that love angle Shara? Be optimistic girl 🤗

Epi was good , bechari bon did what society including kaka inserted in her innocent mind and ani wasn't able to handle her changed behavior as he himself is pre occupied with society pressure and new emotion for AE aka manorama. BUT with time will come out of their respective bubble.

With truth bon will become stronger with initial hiccups and concentrate on her studies and ani will learn physical beauty and admiration can NOT always be love .

By the end of the track want ani himself clear that he only admired manorama and mistaken it as zindagi bhar ka prem , then ONLY ani bon can be back on track and feel the attachment that was shown for over 200 episodes.

Originally posted by: nims23

Sweety 🤗🤗❤️

The episode was like a breath of fresh air.. It felt like after the fog everything turned Chrystal clear .. everything is visible now ..

Ani doesn’t have any LOVE feelings for ninja.. as we discussed earlier Sweety, he just admires her braveness, fierceness and patriotism.. the same thing I mention in my reply to Rimi’s post.. so yes , ani has no crappy feelings towards ninja .. and it seems this is what makers planned from the beginning..!! Ani was never going to do any ADULTERATION.. Period.

Now coming to your second point .. yes.. ani is confused and dais not able tk understand how to handle a teen full of hormones !! There was a day when we were making jokes thinking how ani will handle Bon’s mood swings and her stubbornness.. now it’s here. She is being stubborn and she doesn’t even realize what is happening with her either .Ike you said, ani has never handled a teenage kid before let alone a girl teen!! It’s all nee to him also. We can not expect him to not to get frustrated and behave like everything is normal .. Bon might not have any crush or anything yet but still she is listening to others and behaving like she has crush on ani... what do we expect ani tk do in this situation? Even though tried tk talk to her normally .. he behaved normally .. but in the end he lost it .. do you see his fault? He is not able tk handle this teen and that’s a fact.. it doesn’t make him wrong .. or it doesn’t make Bon wrong .. she is also as confused as ani!!

I am just trying to h see stand what ani must have felt when he wasn’t able to make Bon understand the whole scenario!!!!

Nim 🤗

Yeah, we were saying this from the beginning that Ani has only admiration for AE.Nothing else.

Exactly!! He was clearly frustrated. Tbh, I saw a parent there. A parent with no experience of handling a kid & who got frustrated watching his kid indulging into something not right for her age. He was even confronting himself for not being able to explain all these to her. We think, Ani is an adult, so it is easy for him to explain. It is not. Age & experience both matter here. Even parents learn proper parenting with experience. He was continuously trying to control his frustration.At the end he couldn't.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

I actually have only one answer to these questions. The answer is Kaka and his laddoos.

Ani has not called Bon his zimmedari between the HM track and the SR track. Usme he had already started accepting her as a wife, as someone very important to him. Zimmedari came up again when Kaka brought up the SR. At that time he was clear, that while he cared deeply for Bon, he was not willing to consummate the relationship for obvious reasons. He only started distancing himself from Bon after the SR, when kaka dosed him with those laddoos. Ani has realised that it was just luck that he could save Bon and if Thakur was not in the picture, Ani would have been in his place.

He realised after the SR track that Bon is being tied down by the marriage, emotionally and socially. Hence his obsession with her studies. Secondly, in today's epi he is clear that Bon should focus on becoming a barrister and not be reduced to ARCs wife.

I cannot blame him for thinking that way.

I would like tk add one more thing here .. he never had this idea that once Bon will touch the puberty they will be expected to start a family as a husband wife:: otherwise I am sure he would have moved from the haveli a log back... he still doesn’t know lots of custom goes around .. he is learning about new customs each day!! He did what he do after hm track till sr track was totally genuine.. did he have any hidden motive in that or benefit in doing that? No right? What he did was out of his attachment for Bon ..right now tkk he is attached to her emotionally and that’s why he doesn’t want to see her binder by society’s beliefs and customs .. what is he asking? Bon’s study .. and that’s what he wants her tk fulfill .. for whom? It’s for herself to see her becoming an independent girl.. !!

it’s nice talking to you Ashley🤗

Originally posted by: Midnight_Sun1

Nim 🤗

Yeah, we were saying this from the beginning that Ani has only admiration for AE.Nothing else.

Exactly!! He was clearly frustrated. Tbh, I saw a parent there. A parent with no experience of handling a kid & who got frustrated watching his kid indulging into something not right for her age. He was even confronting himself for not being able to explain all these to her. We think, Ani is an adult, so it is easy for him to explain. It is not. Age & experience both matter here. Even parents learn proper parenting with experience. He was continuously trying to control his frustration.At the end he couldn't.

Yes Sweety .. ani was playing a role of a parent who was confused how to handle this teenage kid .. !! he tried his best to make her understand but she is a stubborn teen now.. and it won’t be easy to handle a stubborn kid I tell you! You are right ki being an adult doesn’t mean you can handle a teen m, you need an experience too .. which lacking in ani.. he is trying to do his best to handle the situation and he is failing.. now whom we can blame here ? Not to Bon not to ani

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

I actually have only one answer to these questions. The answer is Kaka and his laddoos.

Ani has not called Bon his zimmedari between the HM track and the SR track. Usme he had already started accepting her as a wife, as someone very important to him. Zimmedari came up again when Kaka brought up the SR. At that time he was clear, that while he cared deeply for Bon, he was not willing to consummate the relationship for obvious reasons. He only started distancing himself from Bon after the SR, when kaka dosed him with those laddoos. Ani has realised that it was just luck that he could save Bon and if Thakur was not in the picture, Ani would have been in his place.

He realised after the SR track that Bon is being tied down by the marriage, emotionally and socially. Hence his obsession with her studies. Secondly, in today's epi he is clear that Bon should focus on becoming a barrister and not be reduced to ARCs wife.

I cannot blame him for thinking that way.

Yes he was drunk and scared what he would have done if he was in Thakur place and bon would have never forigiven him for all this ,he would have hurt her because he wa snot in control and bon consent was not there

He also does not know what would bon feel about her marriage ,her stuffs on getting emotional maturity ,he knows an innocent yet unique Bondita he does not know an adult bon

Originally posted by: nims23

Yes Sweety .. ani was playing a role of a parent who was confused how to handle this teenage kid .. !! he tried his best to make her understand but she is a stubborn teen now.. and it won’t be easy to handle a stubborn kid I tell you! You are right ki being an adult doesn’t mean you can handle a teen m, you need an experience too .. which lacking in ani.. he is trying to do his best to handle the situation and he is failing.. now whom we can blame here ? Not to Bon not to ani

Yeah he does not know to handle a teenage wife who is not feeling crush for him but is made by society to believe it ,he feels bon has a crush she is a victim of malpractices and she needs worldwide knowledge to come out of it and after truth bon would strive and come from ashes like a Phoenix

Vaise agr makers bon ka crush kisi boy ke saath dikhaaye aur mazaa aata 😂😂😂😂 phir ani as a parent or Kaise handle karta