Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 57

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Take a deep breath in.

Then exhale.

Take a deep breath in again...

And then exhale.

Write Aniruddh on a paper.

Now take a lighter.

Burn it. Make sure that nothing else around you catches fire.

Then go to the toilet and throw the ashes of his name in the commode and flush it off.

This way, he will eventually flush out of your heart too.

If this method does not work, then write Aniruddh on a paper.

Tear it into millions of pieces.

Go to a cliff...Beware that you do not encounter an animal or any other danger.

Throw all the torn pieces of Aniruddh's name wala paper from the cliff's hanger.

Now, open your mouth and SCREAM.

Keep screaming till all your frustration is out of your system.

This method should make you feel a lot lighter and much better.👍🏼

P.S. All these methods have been taught in various Bolly movies.

😳❤️

Also, this is all BAKWAS. Please dont mind. 😳🤗

Love you Sharafah, I wish I could help you with this stupid situation.

Awww you so sweet Aisha🤗🤗... Can't do that Aisha :( I really admire Ani for everything he has done for Bon but still upset with him until everything is cleared in the upcoming epi. so far the promos have 💔💔

@bold-reminds me of the scene in JAB WE MET 😆

Originally posted by: Midnight_Sun1

Hello everyone. 🤗

So Monday's epi cleared few things.

1. Ani has nothing but admiration for AE for her patriotism, bravery & fierceness. That letter was an appreciation letter only.

2. Ani & Bon; none of them are at fault. Bondita was being fed all wrong ideas till date by the neighbours. Also, her growing age stubbornness is a factor. And for Anirudh, it's all new. He has no experience of handling a teenager. And this is not age for doing that as well. When I being at this age can't handle a kid properly when given the charge of doing so, how can I expect a 22 years old doing that smoothly? It is way too tough when the kid becomes a stubborn one. Won't blaming Ani be a hypocricy from my side?

Hello sweetu❤️

Came to EDT reading the update...tada I saw this post 😳

Ofcourse it must be appreciation letter...this guy was impressed by the patriotism and Fierceness the girl has and she helped him at the right time.!

Ani's only concern is bon to concentrate on studies and not on him.! She was fully on him and he was helpless to explain her.! Both were not wrong in this.!

I felt bad for both of them 😭

Originally posted by: Midnight_Sun1

Hello everyone. 🤗

So Monday's epi cleared few things.

1. Ani has nothing but admiration for AE for her patriotism, bravery & fierceness. That letter was an appreciation letter only.

2. Ani & Bon; none of them are at fault. Bondita was being fed all wrong ideas till date by the neighbours. Also, her growing age stubbornness is a factor. And for Anirudh, it's all new. He has no experience of handling a teenager. And this is not age for doing that as well. When I being at this age can't handle a kid properly when given the charge of doing so, how can I expect a 22 years old doing that smoothly? It is way too tough when the kid becomes a stubborn one. Won't blaming Ani be a hypocricy from my side?

Sweety 🤗🤗❤️

The episode was like a breath of fresh air.. It felt like after the fog everything turned Chrystal clear .. everything is visible now ..

Ani doesn’t have any LOVE feelings for ninja.. as we discussed earlier Sweety, he just admires her braveness, fierceness and patriotism.. the same thing I mention in my reply to Rimi’s post.. so yes , ani has no crappy feelings towards ninja .. and it seems this is what makers planned from the beginning..!! Ani was never going to do any ADULTERATION.. Period.

Now coming to your second point .. yes.. ani is confused and dais not able tk understand how to handle a teen full of hormones !! There was a day when we were making jokes thinking how ani will handle Bon’s mood swings and her stubbornness.. now it’s here. She is being stubborn and she doesn’t even realize what is happening with her either .Ike you said, ani has never handled a teenage kid before let alone a girl teen!! It’s all nee to him also. We can not expect him to not to get frustrated and behave like everything is normal .. Bon might not have any crush or anything yet but still she is listening to others and behaving like she has crush on ani... what do we expect ani tk do in this situation? Even though tried tk talk to her normally .. he behaved normally .. but in the end he lost it .. do you see his fault? He is not able tk handle this teen and that’s a fact.. it doesn’t make him wrong .. or it doesn’t make Bon wrong .. she is also as confused as ani!!

I am just trying to h see stand what ani must have felt when he wasn’t able to make Bon understand the whole scenario!!!!

Originally posted by: sharafah

Hi Sweety🤗 I to want to believe Ani has nothing but admiraion for AE but he still has not completed what he wanted to write in the diary,, he was saying something about Bon being his responsibility and then he ran out of ink and why did his face become shocked and slightly sad when her parents said that they were looking groom for AE...he should have been happy for her

Hi sharafah 🤗

What I have written is completely from my understanding of the episode. You are saying from yours.I respect your view.

From where I am watching, he was shocked, not really sad. The mandir scene made it pretty clear. A krantikari won't really want to get shackled in a marriage.Even I would have been shocked if I were at Ani's place. There also he was thanking her as he could pay Bon's fees because of her. This is a matter of how you perceive the scene, I believe. My perspective gave me those points. 🤗

Originally posted by: sharafah

Hi Sweety🤗 I to want to believe Ani has nothing but admiraion for AE but he still has not completed what he wanted to write in the diary,, he was saying something about Bon being his responsibility and then he ran out of ink and why did his face become shocked and slightly sad when her parents said that they were looking groom for AE...he should have been happy for her

Shara🤗

It’s obvious na ki He was shocked because ninja is a krantikari and when she is doing kranrikari work how is that possible her to make a commitment to some boy?? I hope you understood 👍🏼 I didn’t see any other meaning of that scene

Originally posted by: sharafah

You are right😊 He did not want to hurt Bondita... but this is my problem😔

1. He should not have done all the rasams with her as a couple because some were not done with any compulsion by anyone. Why he told Bon to take blesssings from Kaka by falling on his leg and he did together with her?

2. When Bon asked him about their marriage in bedwetting track he should have explained to her because she was not that emotionally attached to him then. Now everyone around her be it her family or Mini betrayed her,, now Ani talking like this infront of everyone is clearly unfair to her

3. Infront of this village people only both of them as a couple welcomed guests into the house and danced for Sampoorna's bahu bhaat

4. When he was alone with Bon he has addressed himself as her pati babu and told her that she is the bahu of the house.

5. Why let her form relations with people and let people call her bahu or boudi or maalkin?

6. Fb scenes when she said I want to take my first photo with my pati babu why did say ok with a big smile and accept it? Why in the coco phone blame her for being the reason for being forced to get engaged with Mini? Best the ringing of his heat when he knows Bon needs him or misses him? Then him saying to her " Apki pati babu ki Bondita"

7. Why put her in tight spot to choose between Kaka and him when they both have conflicting opinions,, she has to satisfy Kaka and him right? If she is just a responsibility why pressurized her that much?

8. When Bon's mum called him Anirudh babu just before HM track why was he affected,, why did he want her to call him jammai babu? Bon is just a responsibility right? Why write in the letter to her mum trust in important between friends.... and between husband and wife?

and the list goes on...

He does not want to hurt Bon and at the same time he does not want to understand how she feels! Since he could not complete what he wanted to write in the diary I cant say for sure but in my opinion I think he wanted to tell his feelings for AE in his diary? The only time I think Ani controlled his anger was during the menstruation track when he tried his best to talk to her..apart from that always lost his calm and the his actions are severe... I know he getting to know is infatuated with him he was shocked but he was at that age when he started liking Mini? so how can he not understand Bon? I know I have not seen the upcoming episodes to judge Ani or his actions but he is going to tell Bon their marriage was a fake and a lie,,, so after doing all the things I mentioned,, now who is at fault? After letting her built emotional bonds with people in the house and then later saying ? He is protecting her physically from any harm but emotionally he isn't.. I know makers want to show how child marriage can affect a child which is good but in that era child marraige was acceptable so there is no point in denying their marriage and to moreover there is no need of shouting this in front of a large crowd

Exactly this is my point that unknowingly ani led her tho this and led kaka to shape her also see his scenes with azzadi,it was like kaka praising her to be cow,homely and she was rebellious , I wanted makers to make bon like this but they turned her into completely nibbi and Adarsh bahu and patni I always wanted bon to have a male friend ,she is fierce just like some characters I know from star plus (Naira,sai)

Bon is not feeling anything cursh over ani she is just emotionally attached to him after her mom as he never hurt her and supported her and took care of her ,bon selfless loyalty and care came from her heart and there is a huge difference between manorama and bon ,bon was like Manorama before marriage and during bedwetting track also ,after bw track she bear so much due to others impulsiveness and other problems that she started hiding her feelings ,she was pressured by society why did not ani understand it ??

Manorama is not victim of child marriage ,her parents are supportive and loves her and she is zamindar daughter

Bondita is victims of child marriage,fatherlesss daughter , betrayed by her mama Mami and sampoo reason for her misery ,despite that she kept shart and believed ani married her after her shart (I want letter confrontation by bon ) bon to question kaka and society for feeding her such things and tell ani I tried to see I have love for u or not

All these things are required and bon would be broken today she was crying and said I married u so I am ur wife and we have relation for seven births now her faith on marriage and love will go

Ani instead of runnig away from suhaagraat track could have stopped bon from being part of that stupid rasams by his chillam chilli and madness to kaka but he did not

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Hello sweetu❤️

Came to EDT reading the update...tada I saw this post 😳

Ofcourse it must be appreciation letter...this guy was impressed by the patriotism and Fierceness the girl has and she helped him at the right time.!

Ani's only concern is bon to concentrate on studies and not on him.! She was fully on him and he was helpless to explain her.! Both were not wrong in this.!

I felt bad for both of them 😭

She was on their marriage thingy which he did not want and now I want fierceness of bon back because she will know her life is saved by marriage and she was victim of sati Partha a

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Hello sweetu❤️

Came to EDT reading the update...tada I saw this post 😳

Ofcourse it must be appreciation letter...this guy was impressed by the patriotism and Fierceness the girl has and she helped him at the right time.!

Ani's only concern is bon to concentrate on studies and not on him.! She was fully on him and he was helpless to explain her.! Both were not wrong in this.!

I felt bad for both of them 😭

Lalzu 🤗

Both are victims of situation. The situation is wrong here, not them. Even Anirudh wants the same thing. His dialogue 'Your focus should be on being a barrister, not ARC's wife' proves how much this man wants Bon to progress in life. He doesn't want her to spend her life being only a man's wife which the society of that era wants.

Originally posted by: nims23

Shara🤗

It’s obvious na ki He was shocked because ninja is a krantikari and when she is doing kranrikari work how is that possible her to make a commitment to some boy?? I hope you understood 👍🏼 I didn’t see any other meaning of that scene

Nima!!😳🤗

I really hope so Nima.. I badly want to be wrong that he has feelings for her... I think the promos have just caused the damage that the upcoming episodes would have to clear it up for me :)

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Bon me kya reactions hinge I think we will see her confronting kaka ,society for making her believe

I want your opinion as from my pov bon tried to feel cursh and pati ka prem as those girls and society told her but she did not get but on seeing ani in pain she got which means she adores him and admires him for his support ,care and other things

So does bon really feel it or it. Is just preconceived notion in her mind but on knowing truth she was not in senses and she was victim of sati Partha we are gonna see her being broken ,then her outburst and I feel for her own sanity she needs to stay away from all relations and ani because she felt ani accepted her patra and shart and then she married him but it was all false ,her thoughts and opinion were mislead Ed, she would be unhappy as she was made to fulfill all those relations

Now I want her tarks to kaka for forcing such big thoughts in her when she was not in senses and right age to feel all this and to ani for letting her fulfill all expectations because unknowingly be it sampoorna track he became angry as why she was not fulfilling all relations only sr track gave him idea to bring her out of it

Bondita should speak her mind. She deserves to get clear answers for all her questions. I'm waiting to see her pose her questions. Coming to love, Bondita and Anirudh admire and appreciate each other. They are special to one another. They share a unique bond. Love doesn't always have to be a romantic feeling. Right now neither of them love each other in a romantic way.