Ek ladki ki tumhe kya sunau daastaan... - Page 5

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

Unconditional love is not unconditional tolerance. Sai, as an intelligent young woman, knows that.

This is a very interesting statement and I am going to hold my hands from making this long. But I believe there is nothing like "Unconditional love" where two people have expressed their love for one another. The only aspect where "unconditional" works is -- we'll be together in good times and bad, in sickness and health till death do us apart. Uske alawa, love itself brings unsaid expectations that both have to fulfil and one not fulfilling it leads to disillusionment in the relationship. But unconditional love can exist if there is no "relationship" and so no expectations.

Also, unconditional love remains unchanged despite the other person's actions in such cases -- so is Virat's love for Vahini "unconditional"? Bolo bolo 😉

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I also felt bad for Virat-- I always do 😆 But I also feel frustrated with him more than with Sai. 😆

I think Sai was extremely curt in the way she snubbed him but she did not want to insult him -- one must realise that she doesn't speak to him the way she does because she wants to insult him or hurt him. It is a defence mechanism. She chooses the harshest words because she wants to drive him away -- it is not easy for a 19 year old (forget the age of a woman falling in love anyway) to resist the charm of this caring husband, who is visibly trying to woo her. You think she cannot see? She has more perception of such things than Virat. But she cannot go with the flow again -- especially after Ladakh incident, where she had lowered her guard and fell on her face. One bitten, twice shy.

She wants to put him off so that he maintains his own distance -- it will hurt her either way, even if she allows him to come closer and then feels another bee-sting from someone about their relationship. But by passing rude comments, she's trying to bring that distance between them because he is not answering the questions she is asking -- the answers will help her decide if she should go with the flow and stop caring about what others say about them. It is only when he verbalises it, will she be able to ignore those snide remarks that affect her.

I don't think she will leave tomorrow... Won't they want to stretch the drama of leaving to at least 2-3 episodes?

By tomorrow I meant their tomorrow and not ours 😆

When I think from Virat's perspective I feel bad.. when I feel from Sai's perspective I feel bad.. What do I do.. I am so badly stuck with the show.. I started watching January only and still I am not able to quit.. kya karun abhi 😢

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Virat asking sai how does it matter if I like someone , uska reason hain , just d episode before when virat asked her I know u don't like my talking to pakhi uspe sai said I don't care . U see virat did asked coz he observed it then said ,as sai refused he thought koi farak nhi parta hain . Virat ne directly bhi pucha hai ye tab hua tab sai showed pakhi her limit & virat did said to pakhi that sai is not wrong .

Aap sahi keh rahe hain virat object nhi karta pakhi coming to his room but then he can't throw her out of d room or closed d door on her face . Didi ko koi farak nhi parta coz if virat closed d door didi will start knocking d door.

Last time when didi came & taunted sairat he very clearly asked pakhi kuch kaam tha & his behaviour only made pakhi leave d room.

If sai is seeing virat letting pakhi in his room then why she is unseeing how virat treats pakhi . Biggest question rise which lover will upset his love to support his zimmedari.

Aap pendulum kehna chahte keh sakte hain par virat ussi ko support karta jo uske according sahi hota hai, be it sai , be it pakhi or Cgang.

Sai can read everyone but She is not ready believe that people do change according to time . Sai is sticking to only one word but ignoring d truth standing in front of it which other people r seeing . Sai manage to read b/w d lines for c gang can point out but when it's comes to virat she is not ready.

That why virat said mera sach ye hain ki u don't value me coz sai made him believe it.

Pakhi will be staying in d house no matter what , if virat want then also he can't avoid her .

Yes I had faced rejection but I said I had something to hold on , d guy not pushed me that hard that actually break me , where for virat I don't see .

Fine sai fear rejection but her rude behaviour only make virat fear rejection . Virat ko nhi pata hain ki sai kaise baat kare , apni baat kaise pahuchaye sai tak .

If u see during naag river conversation first virat asked tum chalogi saath when sai started starring him , he further added zimmedari thing, maybe he thought she dint liked it.

We can agree to disagree

Thnk u . Gn.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Virat asking sai how does it matter if I like someone , uska reason hain , just d episode before when virat asked her I know I don't like my talking to pakhi uspe sai said I don't care . U see virat did asked coz he observed it then said ,as sai refused to be thought koi farak nhi parta hain . Virat ne directly bhi pucha hai ye tab hua tab sai showed pakhi her limit & virat did said to pakhi that sai is not wrong .

Aap sahi keh rahe hain virat object nhi karta pakhi coming to his room but then he can't throw her out of d room or closed d door on her face . Didi ko koi farak nhi parta coz if virat closed d door didi will start knocking d door.

Last time when didi came & taunted sairat he very clearly asked pakhi kuch kaam tha ?

If sai is seeing virat letting pakhi in his room then why she is unseeing how virat treats pakhi . Biggest question rise which lover will upset his love to support his zimmedari.

Aap pendulum kehna chahte keh sakte hain par virat ussi ko support karta jo uske according sahi hota hai, be it sai , be it pakhi or Cgang.

Sai can read everyone but she can very well see virat behaviour but she is not ready to accept it . She is not ready believe that people do change according to time . Sai is sticking to only one word but ignoring d truth standing in front of it which other people r seeing . Sai manage to read b/w d lines for c gang can point out but when it's comes to virat she is not ready.

That why virat said mera sach ye hain ki u don't value me coz sai made him believe it.

Pakhi will be staying in d house no matter what , if virat want then also he can't avoid her .

Yes I had faced rejection but I said I had something to hold on , d guy not pushed me that hard that actually break me , where for virat I don't see .

Thnk u . Gn.

Baat ye hai na Deepika, ki we can keep arguing about who came first -- chicken or egg? No one has found an answer to that. But in a relationship between two people third persons can only sit and judge and suggest, what the two persons go through is totally between them. And relationship mein chicken and egg wala question ho toh relationship hi nahi hona chahiye. Many a times, the one who is more understanding has to take the first step -- the pehel of breaking the ice, breaking a barrier. The temperaments of two partners can be totally different from each other. One can be confrontational, other emotional. The fact is that both Virat and Sai show their love with their actions -- they don't want to acknowledge it for each other. They can both see the "actions" and even live in that happy moment. Now one of them has to face the fear of rejection -- from my perspective, Sai did it first. She has asked specific questions about their 'deal' during the marriage and she wants those answers. If Virat cannot answer those questions but continue to expect her to forget the 'deal' that has been mentioned so many times, then it will only go in circles. If for every time he has reminded her "hamari baat ho chuki hai" about his vaada to Pakhi, there is a statement from Sai about "fark nahi padta" toh this will never end. There will be a day when Virat will take the first step, because the one who has placed the barrier has to clear it -- the one who needs to enter in has already asked, "Why did you place the barriers?" Now he needs to answer.

Good night. See you later.

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Dekha kya? 😆 Hum toh doobenge sanam, tumko bhi saath le doobnge 🤣 let's change this: hum toh kinaare ayenge, tumko bhi saath le aayenge. We will decide to mass boycott if it seems sloppy. Let's give them a last chance. It's evident that they are "Ghum hain kisi ke copy pasting mein". Isiliye bolte hain, copy karna buri baat hai.. aisa hi haal hota hai. We might have to surrender to the BIG BIG BIG Harini blooper and accept the separation.

Next week will be make or break in terms of whether we'll tune in or out

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/topic/5213224#156074469

Dekha na!! Giphs bhi banaye