Bon, a stranger to ARC 🤪🤪🤪☹☹☹😭😭😭😭 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Arcturus_S

I know the way everything got revealed is wrong. But that is just ARC's basic nature. He is an impulsive person . He does everything at the heat of the moment without thinking about the consequences. If he is not an impulsive person , he wouldn't have married Bon either. That also he did impulsively 😊. His not having any feelings for Bon is also natural. A person with his principles cannot look at a child with such feelings. Earlier i was disappointed with him for harboring feeling in his mind for AE and keeping Bon in dark regarding the truth of their marriage. That was really an injustice to Bon. She deserved honesty in their relation. Now no more secrets, no more false expectations and heart break. Now the track can go to any directions. It is kind of open for opportunities. Ani-Bon can have a very close and strong platonic bond,Ani becoming her mentor only ,literally above all the tangles of rituals and societal bonds. He can have other love interests AE,Mini or whoever he wants. Bon will get her own love story when the time comes.

Or it can take another track like Ani realizing Bon is not just a responsibility but she is his necessity to live,like oxygen. He simply cannot be away from her. I don't want AE to turn negative. I want him to choose Bon for her own sake, not because the other one is bad. I wanted this to happen in Mini track also. Making her bad made things easier for him. It was like anyway Mini is bad so I'll do with Bon. I don't want that to happen again. I want everyone to accept his relation with AE(including Kaka and Sumati). Bon can continue her studies and he will realise that Bon will get the life he always wanted for her without him being in her life also. He will be going to be with the woman who has all the qualities he expects in a partner and he knows Bon is going to be ok unlike the HM track where she was in danger. Still he won't be happy and will realize the real depth of his relation with Bon. If they are going to show Ani-Bon together again I want something like this to happen. I don't want to see his greatness again by sacrificing his love of life

Lets wait for makers reply but Bon is not only his responsibility sure wth that but how ARC gonna realise ths s big twist😉😉😉😉

Originally posted by: Katy4566

look his impulsiveness is fine but i am not asking his feelings for bon, we all want the true bond he had with her everytime , he should have respected her indivoiduality agar use bon ki respect and feeling hoti toh he could have explained bon about genuiness of relation and would have fought society and kaka , during periods track what was pati patni jaap, his restlessness what was that

Well interpreting his actions are really difficult. This character is highly unstable, like he is suffering from split personality disorder 😆. I don't think he is indifferent to Bon. He genuinely cares for her. Most of the times he forgets that she is a kid. He expects grown up level maturity from her.

I really don't know what was all that pati-patni jaap, restlessness,dil ki khandi and RTM version. He might have forgotten everything after getting 'zindagi bhar ka prem pahali nazar mein 🤢.🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Arcturus_S

Well interpreting his actions are really difficult. This character is highly unstable, like he is suffering from split personality disorder 😆. I don't think he is indifferent to Bon. He genuinely cares for her. Most of the times he forgets that she is a kid. He expects grown up level maturity from her.

I really don't know what was all that pati-patni jaap, restlessness,dil ki khandi and RTM version. He might have forgotten everything after getting 'zindagi bhar ka prem pahali nazar mein 🤢.🤣🤣

I think his earlier pati-patni usage was his way to stop the society or his family to interfere in his decisions for Bondita, to let her study or her periods etc. When kaka and others started the jaap of being husband and wife in true sense, that is when he switched to responsibility word. Now, he can't use the word without connecting with physical relationship between man-woman. That is why he sternly objects it.

I guess till date it's clear in his head that he is taking care of Bon, and he should guide her to reach her full potential. His choice of words might have confused the users.

I think the word ghin aati hai is not for Bondita. It is for child marriage and how it ruins life's of little girls and they in their naivety celebrate it as the biggest achievement of their lives and society thinks the same too.

Agreed, he should have explained it to her personally instead of bursting out in front of others but that's ARC flaw. We have to put up with it till makers put some maturity into his character.

I don't care whether Ani-Bon will be romantically involved ever, but I want Ani to realize he loves Bon, she became an indispensable part of his life. I wanted Bon to know the truth so that she can truly understand the gravity of situation and put all her focus into studying and making herself independent.

Originally posted by: pratyay

I think his earlier pati-patni usage was his way to stop the society or his family to interfere in his decisions for Bondita, to let her study or her periods etc. When kaka and others started the jaap of being husband and wife in true sense, that is when he switched to responsibility word. Now, he can't use the word without connecting with physical relationship between man-woman. That is why he sternly objects it.

I guess till date it's clear in his head that he is taking care of Bon, and he should guide her to reach her full potential. His choice of words might have confused the users.

I think the word ghin aati hai is not for Bondita. It is for child marriage and how it ruins life's of little girls and they in their naivety celebrate it as the biggest achievement of their lives and society thinks the same too.

Agreed, he should have explained it to her personally instead of bursting out in front of others but that's ARC flaw. We have to put up with it till makers put some maturity into his character.

I don't care whether Ani-Bon will be romantically involved ever, but I want Ani to realize he loves Bon, she became an indispensable part of his life. I wanted Bon to know the truth so that she can truly understand the gravity of situation and put all her focus into studying and making herself independent.

Look after hm he used pati patni many time alone also , like teaching bon ,promising bon as ur guru and pati I will never hit you, teaching her after hm first time , in dhongi Maa track ,in periods track ,it felt his emotional connect

Now instead of making society understand about not to expect all these things and tell she is a gilli mitti,her age and consent matters, he is just disrespecting bon in that way

Originally posted by: pratyay

I think his earlier pati-patni usage was his way to stop the society or his family to interfere in his decisions for Bondita, to let her study or her periods etc. When kaka and others started the jaap of being husband and wife in true sense, that is when he switched to responsibility word. Now, he can't use the word without connecting with physical relationship between man-woman. That is why he sternly objects it.

I guess till date it's clear in his head that he is taking care of Bon, and he should guide her to reach her full potential. His choice of words might have confused the users.

I think the word ghin aati hai is not for Bondita. It is for child marriage and how it ruins life's of little girls and they in their naivety celebrate it as the biggest achievement of their lives and society thinks the same too.

Agreed, he should have explained it to her personally instead of bursting out in front of others but that's ARC flaw. We have to put up with it till makers put some maturity into his character.

I don't care whether Ani-Bon will be romantically involved ever, but I want Ani to realize he loves Bon, she became an indispensable part of his life. I wanted Bon to know the truth so that she can truly understand the gravity of situation and put all her focus into studying and making herself independent.

Agree to fact even knowingly or unknowingly he termed her as his patni and him as his pati too so its only thing ARC have clarify himself that happens if Bon maintains distant from ARC hope makers vl show same in intresting way not vth much melodrama

Originally posted by: rajiraji14

Agree to fact even knowingly or unknowingly he termed her as his patni and him as his pati too so its only thing ARC have clarify himself that happens if Bon maintains distant from ARC hope makers vl show same in intresting way not vth much melodrama

Yeah bon will distant herself from everything even the restrictions kaka imposed on him and will not be focusing on relations ,poor girl would be feeling her life is a burden ,now what rights she can show on her family when she is not ani wife ,not bahu though this marriage was unwanted but ani and kaka let bon be emotionally invested ,ani ko ab yaad aaya ki parivarik Jeevan hota hai , I want bon to ask ki uske periods ke baad why people are imposing themselves on her ,agar ani ko societal expectations sr problem hai then explain ur kaka and society ,bon ki failt nahi

It is like bon is a kid but no one else expects her to be no one considers her kind heart and people expects grown up maturity from her ,I guess ani after telling truth will see what impact it left on bon mind ,she would be thinking she was betrayed by her family like this ,she was about to be killed and ani did favour on her because he has not accepted her as his partner ,vaise voh bubble aur misconceptions sr bahar aayegi but how will she cooe with all relations,kis hak se ani ki help legi, kis right sr kaka aur ghar pe hak jamaayegi,padhau bhi kis hak de karegi

I want ani to see then he will realise the girl standing in front of him is not just a kid or responsibility but a girl who loves selflessly and unconditionally,has a golden heart, went through lots of emotional pain and on growing up will realise gravity ,

I really want bon to confront everyone and ani ki ab yaad aa raha hai use sach batana

she it was in senses on that marriage day ,do u think what would have happened I want ur opinion

Originally posted by: Katy4566

Yeah bon will distant herself from everything even the restrictions kaka imposed on him and will not be focusing on relations ,poor girl would be feeling her life is a burden ,now what rights she can show on her family when she is not ani wife ,not bahu though this marriage was unwanted but ani and kaka let bon be emotionally invested ,ani ko ab yaad aaya ki parivarik Jeevan hota hai , I want bon to ask ki uske periods ke baad why people are imposing themselves on her ,agar ani ko societal expectations sr problem hai then explain ur kaka and society ,bon ki failt nahi

It is like bon is a kid but no one else expects her to be no one considers her kind heart and people expects grown up maturity from her ,I guess ani after telling truth will see what impact it left on bon mind ,she would be thinking she was betrayed by her family like this ,she was about to be killed and ani did favour on her because he has not accepted her as his partner ,vaise voh bubble aur misconceptions sr bahar aayegi but how will she cooe with all relations,kis hak se ani ki help legi, kis right sr kaka aur ghar pe hak jamaayegi,padhau bhi kis hak de karegi

I want ani to see then he will realise the girl standing in front of him is not just a kid or responsibility but a girl who loves selflessly and unconditionally,has a golden heart, went through lots of emotional pain and on growing up will realise gravity ,

I really want bon to confront everyone and ani ki ab yaad aa raha hai use sach batana

she it was in senses on that marriage day ,do u think what would have happened I want ur opinion

Lovely words buddy, yup if she is in sense bfre ARC, she raises the voice, who r u y u wanna marry me at ths age till now u didnt gt married, if our marr happened wat should i call u pati or dadhaji becoz u r that old like this hearing all these that bridegroom self stop the marr .... no need even fr ARC's support ..... even i feel if ARC is tat broad minded thn he should completely stop sati,y only one sati of Bon he cme across and only one kid Bon is entirely affected like bathing,going to school,bed wetting,menstrual issue, good touch or bad touch bt the possibility is only he could educate Bon in name of patni, y he can save her as beghan or father figure bt society never accepts that and even society never accepts ths concept too in relationship of hubby wife but behaving as mentor mentee ..... so its only Bon not in consiousness,but ARC with full consiousness decided to marry, who knows all customs of society so now if he have break that he should free all from that not only Bon and taking in ths way only Bon is such kind of kid who keeps on questioning and wanna freedom and independentness then his frst crush is Bon not AE,becoz her thoughts is more relatable to ARC.... so my single point is if ARC wanna make Bon understand the point of their marr thn frst he have to be sure ... but ths precap more of like conveying his point to society dont see me and Bon to b in physical relationship but he never thinks wat he generated in Bonditha these many days and now that he gonna break in her..... my point even now Bon is not in rt age to decide so impatience due to society nusiance gonna create trouble only fr Bon once agn she gonna b sad, bt makers always show ARC with much impulsiveness why tat so.... wen Bon grows up then y not ARC.... really a well written thought process needed for even today's society like good touch and bad touch lovely scene and child abuse all well potrayed bt ths part of ARC really disappointing,wenever someone force he bursting over Bon, it comes under wat type of responsibility, like wen Mini says she lost eyes he shouts at Bon and sent her out of haveli without thinking wat Bon vl go through,then one eye opener is needed for him... same now kaka and society forcing him to be in pati patni relationship agn burst out over Bon conveying truth.... if he wanna really reveal the truth then how he conveyed other explanation for Bon the same way he can convey ths truth too..... and ARC knows well one day he gonna say Bon u r only my responsibility then he can treat from begining in same way wen Bon cooks and do pooja on insistence of kaka why that ARC didnt stop her, wen BON keeps sindhoor in name of ARC y didnt ARC stop.... ths much broad minded ARC y didnt see eventhough kid or teen Bon will have her own feelings and dreams, how can ARC conclude only education and carrier can fulfill Bon's entire life..... ths point i consider most as back drop of character ARC,makers should crt ths bfre viewers strt to gt irritated wth ARC.... always ARC gt concern only if Bon cries or get into great strughle like hera mandi till that only other's words falls in his ears or he vl roam only wth his own stubborn.... so ths wanna be stopped by makers i wanna ARC to consider Bon's feeling too bfre he state something.... and more over AE y ths character included now is she gonna bring ths change in ARC....