Shahid Kapoor didn't want to date a working woman - Page 9

Originally posted by: Fallen-Embers

Yaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnnn. Seriously, yawn.

Sure, since you got no answer now. 🤣 Yawning is the only answer I guess. I literally took pains to explain the social and historical context to illustrate the difference between the two, but I guess that did not hit the mark. 😆

Again, a man staying at home and a woman doing so are NOT the same. Because of the history associated with it. You choose to ignore social context, that's on you. You choose to turn a blind eye to history, that's on you.

Now go to sleep since you got no more points to make. I guess. 😆

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

Sure, since you got no answer now. 🤣 Yawning is the only answer I guess.

Again, a man staying at home and a woman doing so are NOT the same. Because of the history associated with it. You choose to ignore social context, that's on you.

Now go to sleep since you got no more points to make. I guess. 😆

Your arguments put me to sleep. Bigotry puts me to sleep. What else can I say. 😆

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

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actually you know what all this woman are not being good enough is just YOUR IDEA it is YOU is demeaning the wonderful contribution all the women all over the world makes to the society either by being working women or a homemaker

it is you who will not accept a man who decides to be homemaker because you LOOK DOWN ON THEM i have no problem with marrying a man who decides to dedicate his life to his kids its ok i have job i can earn and he can be the homemaker

education is important but an educated man or woman can be anything they want

in this entire thing YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE who is looking down on a person for having a choice

YOU AND ONLY YOU

in this situation not doing anything is more profitable financially. Star wives in most cases get into interior designing and similar areas of work ... huge investment and lot of pumping money to keep them going . Very few of them are successful ventures. The number of times they rebrand it ...

Mira is still in her 20’s she can still do something. Also , rich people/ wealthy ones invest a lot of time in money management and estate management. Mira and her sisters will inherit all of their parents wealth . It’s more important for them to preserve and manage it than flushing all the money down the drain to project they are doing something creative.

for all we know she could be a successful Day trader 😁

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

I don't know you personally, but I doubt you would actually be fine with marrying a jobless guy in real life. If you are, then good for you. But is that a general idea all across society? NO. How many parents will be OK with their daughters marrying jobless men? ZERO.

We're talking about SOCIETY here. Society does not permit a man to stay jobless, because men are supposed to rule. High time we applied the same standards to women if we want them to rule side by side.

You can contribute to your home by working too. Gone are the days when we needed to stay all day at home to contribute to it.

dont worry there are people who are not bigoted as you are and others

a day will come where every individual and there choices will be respected their contribution will be valued

Originally posted by: Fallen-Embers

Your arguments put me to sleep. Bigotry puts me to sleep. What else can I say. 😆

Do you even know what 'bigotry' means?

Also, you don't seem to comprehend very well. You asked why men giving up jobs is applauded but women are not. I gave you the answer.

Women giving up jobs is something that has been forced upon them for centuries. So them doing it is not something to be lauded. But men giving up jobs and playing second fiddle is something revolutionary, something that DEFIES patriarchy. Something that goes AGAINST society. So it deserves praise.

If you don't comprehend such a simple thing then you're really not fit for a debate on this topic. Ciao.

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

Do you even know what 'bigotry' means?

Also, you don't seem to comprehend very well. You asked why men giving up jobs is applauded but women are not. I gave you the answer.

Women giving up jobs is something that has been forced upon them for centuries. So them doing it is not something to be lauded. But men giving up jobs and playing second fiddle is something revolutionary, something that DEFIES patriarchy. Something that goes AGAINST society.

If you don't comprehend such a simple thing then you're really not fit to debate with. Ciao.

Yes, it means you. Ciao. 😘

Working women with kids (at least in a corporate setting) are almost always at their wits end trying to balance work life with kids and household chores on a daily basis. Anything else on their plate threatens to topple the balance in their lives that's almost always hanging by a thread. Even during covid right now, people are stuck at home but guess who's doing double the work, loaded up on caffeine and functioning with their last brain cell? Working women with kids.

Men still don't pull as much weight as women in the house when it comes to taking care of kids, household chores, etc. and I don't think that'll change anytime soon. I know a lot of working women play house AND work at the same time and given the choice to not work and given their husbands make plenty to cover all the costs with enough discretionary income to have fun as well, I'm confident that majority of the working women would happily take that option ... ONLY because trying to walk that line of balance is SOOO so difficult that it comes down to either work or family after a point just to maintain their sanity. Women around you might make it look easy and effortless but it's not.

Career women are also often fighting the clock cuz their careers almost always comes at a cost... and that's usually relationship/marriage. They're well into their late 30's or 40 when they have their first child in some cases and yet, their maternal leave isn't generous enough for them to take care of their babies during the most crucial times of their lives.

But I guess these are just additional points to throw out there cuz I don't really have a strong opinion for or against housewives. As far as Mira is concerned, she is lucky .... a lot of people compromise their passions because they *have* to work in a field that makes enough money to meet financial needs. If there's anything I would wanna "advise" to women like her, she should probably pursue something she's passionate about so that she can grow as a person. It does make me uncomfortable thinking of someone whose only hobbies include shopping, having fun and not doing anything to stimulate the mind or for personal growth.

There's also that possibility of your marriage going south and then what? What is the woman supposed to do? Live off alimony? Just to be prudent and to always have a plan B, having a career to uphold your identity and interests is essential too.

Originally posted by: Fallen-Embers

Yaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnnn. Seriously, yawn.

Insert Yawn gif 😂

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Insert Yawn gif 😂

Maroon, stop trolling in a troll thread. 😆

Originally posted by: pali001

for all we know she could be a successful Day trader 😁

Now this.... is a bold statement. Day traders on this forum aren't gonna dig this comparison.😆