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Posted: 4 years ago
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The makers of this show have not shown us any instances where bk, ninad, omi, sonali can redeem themselves thus far. They behave so badly that they all deserve to go be penalized. Several ofvtheir actions count as criminal offence! but if this show follows KD and general itv guidelines, they will eventually whitewash everyone. So i dont understand- why cant they balance the characters a little. That way audience will also get some respite from this high voltage drama and negativity all the time.

Out of the lot, only sonali- omi seem to have a little bit of "heart" left. That too only for their own beta/bahu but when the time comes to take a stand for them, they fail. Fail miserably. And they are shown as ungrateful scumbags and extremely opportunistic.

For me the most despicable character is Ninad Chavan.

Ninad so far has been showing behaving badly with everyone except bk, pp.

Ashwini his wife is treated like trash by him. He had no concern when his sister Shivani was being classed characterless and was more concerned about "log kya kahenge", he ill treats Devi also. Sai ke khilaaf aaj tak sirf kadve bol bole hai but now in precap he has raised a hand against a young woman in anger. And this man is supposed to be an ex ARMY officer?! This is the man virat idolizes as a role model?!

Afterall this how are they going to show us his "dil ki acchai" to eventually whitewash him ?!

He told virat in initial episodes some senti BS about how he took early retirement because he was not able to save his teammate and he was guilty and he was the one that kept giving advice about farz comes first etc etc. But he has completely forgotten that Sai's father- a policeman took a bullet for his son! How does an ex army officer who is supposedly still feeling guilty about his actions/carelessness on duty so easily forget the fact that someone took a bullet to save your sons life?!

He is coming across as someone that has no sense of right/wrong and a downright horrible person.

Same with BK.

We have seen nothing except her kadvahat. Even in her occasional "acchai" to pp for example theres always a selfish motive. In the initial episodes also her love for virat was more of an ego issue. She wants to be acknowledged as the "most important" person in everyone's life- the ghar ki badi who basically sets the rules. So her actions are never nisswarth. Not once!

Even when she shows concern about virat not eating, its more of "Ashwini is such a bad mother" , usne khaana nahi diya, main doongi. But she only thinks of virat as raja beta because of his ips position. But tomm if virat loses his job or gets suspended, she would not care. Just like she doesn't care about mohit, karishma, devi,sai. She only smiles or says a good word with an ulterior motive, never out of any genuine love.

She treats her own daughter SO badly. Even if she was "worried" about devi, why lock her in the room? Why not just make Devi sit next to her for the whole pooja? Who behaves so badly? No wonder Sai said CN is a JAIL!

So if none of these people are ever given a few scenes to show their "acchai" how are we supposed to eventually just accept that they are all "dil ke acche"?!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I stopped asking for logical questions in itv dramas. They all start with good storyline and cast and then after 100 episodes. I don’t know what happens, logic dies a early death.


coming to the Chavan family I doubt they really have any Dil in the first place. There are millions of dysfunctional families. But ithne khudgarz aur kameene loogh nahi dekhe hai mainne.

Virat character goes into denial mode when going gets tough in the family and high end drama happens. He sees them with a ‘dil ke ache’ glasses to make himself feel better.

Lot of people go into denial mode and it’s one of the survival tactics in stressful environment. Children do that. IMO probably Virat grew up that way. Because of Ashwini he must have had a somewhat decent childhood.


And that’s the reason he expects Sai to adjust and tells her that family will accept her one day. How much ever F-ed up his family is.

I can’t think of any other reason for idolising a father like ninaad when he treats his mother like that.

Shivani bua comments in one of the episode to Ashwini he took a stand for her and spoke against his father. So Sai ka asar might help viraat become a better person 😊


Redemption for BK and the stooges is highly unlikely. As you mentioned they will be white washed. And FL needs to be a mahan bahu who forgives every ill meted out to her even for a character like Sai. Its proved when Sai asks Usha Mausi to buy food for the whole c-gang!

I only discussed about Virat here because dil ke ache was his dialogue.

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That's what I was thinkkng too. It's not like they ill trat only Sai but they are bad to each other. Mohit is always mocked, Devi was turned into a mentally ill person. How can they be called good by heart. There is no real love between themselves. Even of they start liking Sai one day it will be the hypocrisy wala love.

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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That's what I was thinkkng too. It's not like they ill trat only Sai but they are bad to each other. Mohit is always mocked, Devi was turned into a mentally ill person. How can they be called good by heart. There is no real love between themselves. Even of they start liking Sai one day it will be the hypocrisy wala love.


And why is Virat (a police officer) okay with this kind of oppressive behaviour? Towards his younger brother, younger brother’s wife is taunted 24/7, his mother treated like literal trash and he has never done anything to change any of this.

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And why is Virat (a police officer) okay with this kind of oppressive behaviour? Towards his younger brother, younger brother’s wife is taunted 24/7, his mother treated like literal trash and he has never done anything to change any of this.


I guess he thinks they are family what can he do. What I see is that the elders are all bad but the kids of the house are good by heart. Kaise ho gaya I still wonder. 😆

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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion


I guess he thinks they are family what can he do. What I see is that the elders are all bad but the kids of the house are good by heart. Kaise ho gaya I still wonder. 😆

Ashwani Aai zindabaad

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Originally posted by: idkwhattoput


And why is Virat (a police officer) okay with this kind of oppressive behaviour? Towards his younger brother, younger brother’s wife is taunted 24/7, his mother treated like literal trash and he has never done anything to change any of this.


Ek question hain mera what does virat being ACP has to do with younger brother & his wife being thrashed . ACP virat never took oath that he will perform ACP duties 24*7 , sab vahi karega to dusre kya karenge . Ye chota bhai or unki wife uske liye stand kyu nhi lete ?

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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion


I guess he thinks they are family what can he do. What I see is that the elders are all bad but the kids of the house are good by heart. Kaise ho gaya I still wonder. 😆


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Ek question hain mera what does virat being ACP has to do with younger brother & his wife being thrashed . ACP virat never took oath that he will perform ACP duties 24*7 , sab vahi karega to dusre kya karenge . Ye chota bhai or unki wife uske liye stand kyu nhi lete ?


Because Virat is portrayed as a good, righteous person, by virtue of which he’s obligated to help others, specially his own family members (who he claims to love). Also this is a humanitarian issue, not that he HAS to help because he’s a police officer but he HAS to help because he’s human.

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Ashwani Aai zindabaad


The only good person from the elders. 😆

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