Anupama did right (precap) - Page 2

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

This is the Anupama, I always wanted to see... And I am glad she is doing this as a favour to them... I do want Kavya, out of all people, to realize that Vanraj is a loser who cannot even fight for her! And that Anupama isn't the real evil one to be insecure of.... We have already seen a scene of Kavya and Kinjal and what a terrible boss Vee was.. It's high time for her to see what a spineless boyfriend Vanraj is...

I am not sure how Kavya is going to take all this... I definitely don't want her to become more negative... She has already been shown as terrible woman in a couple of instances... But I hate that Vanraj is still being shown as someone who is acceptable person whereas he is the real devil... He cannot be redeemed any further.

kavya surely gonna turn more negative as u see anupama start ignoring vanraj and that thing is attracting vanraj toward anupama

iam sure after suicide vanraj may stay in that house tha pissed kavya more

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Okay. Saying that ' kavya is his happiness now. Soon she will become his wife. And then you all need to accept her. Why not accept it now ?'.

This is fine.

But what was the need to say ' you all give her the same love which you gave me'

Don't you think this was too much of anu and her mahaanta ???

She could have said that, if kavya had atleast did one thing good or nice for her but what all kavya did was only betrayal and insult.

Shah family can be asked to accept kavya but it is the choice of shah family members to either give her love or not. Anu could have stopped there. By the way she is speaking it is more like sreemoyee 2.0 🙄🙄😅

sorry correction may be you heard it wrong she said to accept her she didnt said any thing about love

as u said

second she didnt force any one uss se sirf ek baar kaha

jiske baad mein accept karna hi han abhi karlo whats wrong in that

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

see anupama didnt force any one to accept kavya she just say once

i would say wo force tabhi lagta agar anupama keep forcing them no she didnt

uss se ek baar bola

and where u know vanraj love kavya koi accept kare na kare one day they get married tab toh baa kuch nahi kar payege na she have to accept it tab toh ab kyun nahin

Ek bar bhi bolne ki Kya zarurat thi ki jaise muje pyar diya waise Kavya ko bhi dena !!!😡Itna kyun laad karna sautan ko!!🤢

Kavya ko ghar mai aane dena enough tha to prove that anupama is freeing herself from everything but yeh sautan ko pyar dena wala dialogue too much laga😕

Ek bar bhi kyo boli yeh ?

Why are we still on about Vanraj realises what he has lost... or to make him love Anupamaa.. That man lost all that when he did what he did and kept on being disrespectful and toxic. At this point I don't want to see anything from Vanraj to Anupamaa.... It just irks me

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Ek bar bhi bolne ki Kya zarurat thi ki jaise muje pyar diya waise Kavya ko bhi dena !!!😡Itna kyun laad karna sautan ko!!🤢

Kavya ko ghar mai aane dena enough tha to prove that anupama is freeing herself from everything but yeh sautan ko pyar dena wala dialogue too much laga😕

Ek bar bhi kyo boli yeh ?

i would say read my this post

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/anupamaa/5210682/we-heard-it-wrong-precap

Originally posted by: Lennie

Why are we still on about Vanraj realises what he has lost... or to make him love Anupamaa.. That man lost all that when he did what he did and kept on being disrespectful and toxic. At this point I don't want to see anything from Vanraj to Anupamaa.... It just irks me

because i want vanraj to realize what he lost then no point of anupama moving on i want him to regret

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

because i want vanraj to realize what he lost then no point of anupama moving on i want him to regret

I just don't want to ever see them together again... as in getting back together.

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Okay. Saying that ' kavya is his happiness now. Soon she will become his wife. And then you all need to accept her. Why not accept it now ?'.

This is fine.

But what was the need to say ' you all give her the same love which you gave me'

Don't you think this was too much of anu and her mahaanta ???

She could have said that, if kavya had atleast did one thing good or nice for her but what all kavya did was only betrayal and insult.

Shah family can be asked to accept kavya but it is the choice of shah family members to either give her love or not. Anu could have stopped there. By the way she is speaking it is more like sreemoyee 2.0 🙄🙄😅

Exactly my point. I have no issues with Anupama trying to move on and accept reality. She was very clear about that even when Baa wanted to send stuff to Kavya's house Anupama pointed out that Kavya might not like it but I have a problem with she doing all this and being a happy volunteer in all this.

Shah family could have done this puja at Kavya house they could do it in a mandir. They could celebrate anywhere they want with their son. But now when they have just gotten separated and when things are still raw why is she suddenly being portrayed as a superhuman who can do anything for anyone.

Anupama and Vanraj are still parents and they will have to have the cordial relationship with one another but itni jaldi aur itna normal I am sorry but I cannot digest.

Originally posted by: Lennie

I just don't want to ever see them together again... as in getting back together.

Idk whats makers gonna show but i want to see regretting choosing kavya

This show and story is complex. I think what she does is the absolute right move for herself to move on and her family. Accepting reality so that anupama can move on to different things.

However, whether its her responsibility to do so is different. I dnt think she should be responsible for helping vanya be accepted as thats a lot of emotional trauma and baggage to carry.

That being said, i love the complexity of this story in that its not just about a women rejecting societal norms but societies acceptance of progressive realities.

People cheat. Its a fact of life. Marriages dont work out sometimes and thats okay. Its not okay to cheat at all. But, people do. (We also have to remember how anurajs marriage happened. Vanraj married a women he never loved initially. Which happens in life also. People do this and think itll be fine but then learn wow this person isnt making me happy. Albeit still no reason to cheat but this is usually the reason people do cheat its cause they are in an unhappy marriage and are afraid to break that tie.) Its important to instill multiple messages apart on both sides of female empowerment.

Kavya weather we like her or not, was used and promised things by her boyfriend. Her act may not have been liked, but reality is she fell in love and expected support from thr man she loved and is continuing to face penance for his lies. Its nice to see women building up women. And i think anupama trying to get kavya her right is bold and endearing. Its important to instill a message of moving forward and building women up to get their right in ANY circumstance rather than stil be in the regressive mindset of 'homewrecker'. Yes kavya is still pretty shitty and selfish to most of us. But.. is she entirely wrong? Does she not deserve the love that was promised to her by a man? And .. is it not okay to be selfish once in a while as a women? Its not the same. But the dichotomy is interesting. On one hand anupama is learning to ve selfish and we as an audience are lifting her up. Meanwhile kavya has always been selfish and we are frowning down upon her. How do we as a society draw these norms out? Its extremely interesting.

The other message we need to show is that many times in society when people move on, theres a LOT of families where parents, coparent and have their new significant others present in the lives of the family and children. So children will grow up with 4 parents sometimes .. affair or no affair however it ended up being.. and we need to NORMALIZE that this is a reality and can be a good option to learn living with civility lifes to short to hang on to all the negative baggage.