Anupama did right (precap) - Page 3

Originally posted by: xxMATSxx

This show and story is complex. I think what she does is the absolute right move for herself to move on and her family. Accepting reality so that anupama can move on to different things.

However, whether its her responsibility to do so is different. I dnt think she should be responsible for helping vanya be accepted as thats a lot of emotional trauma and baggage to carry.

That being said, i love the complexity of this story in that its not just about a women rejecting societal norms but societies acceptance of progressive realities.

People cheat. Its a fact of life. Marriages dont work out sometimes and thats okay. Its not okay to cheat at all. But, people do. (We also have to remember how anurajs marriage happened. Vanraj married a women he never loved initially. Which happens in life also. People do this and think itll be fine but then learn wow this person isnt making me happy. Albeit still no reason to cheat but this is usually the reason people do cheat its cause they are in an unhappy marriage and are afraid to break that tie.) Its important to instill multiple messages apart on both sides of female empowerment.

Kavya weather we like her or not, was used and promised things by her boyfriend. Her act may not have been liked, but reality is she fell in love and expected support from thr man she loved and is continuing to face penance for his lies. Its nice to see women building up women. And i think anupama trying to get kavya her right is bold and endearing. Its important to instill a message of moving forward and building women up to get their right in ANY circumstance rather than stil be in the regressive mindset of 'homewrecker'. Yes kavya is still pretty shitty and selfish to most of us. But.. is she entirely wrong? Does she not deserve the love that was promised to her by a man? And .. is it not okay to be selfish once in a while as a women? Its not the same. But the dichotomy is interesting. On one hand anupama is learning to ve selfish and we as an audience are lifting her up. Meanwhile kavya has always been selfish and we are frowning down upon her. How do we as a society draw these norms out? Its extremely interesting.

The other message we need to show is that many times in society when people move on, theres a LOT of families where parents, coparent and have their new significant others present in the lives of the family and children. So children will grow up with 4 parents sometimes .. affair or no affair however it ended up being.. and we need to NORMALIZE that this is a reality and can be a good option to learn living with civility lifes to short to hang on to all the negative baggage.

yes marriage dont work its normal thing but that doesn't give men golden chance to cheat on their wife there is law where u can divorce ur wife instead of destroying her life

ladke pyaar toh kar lete han apne parents ke samne acccept karne se dar thee kyun han

why they dont take stand from starting before destroying one girl life

tab shayad parents naraz ho for some days but atleast u didnt destroy one girl life and even the boy suffer his whole life

i hate when boy say parents force

toh they should take stand na

they are marrying bringing kids and later cheating on their wife

when they get catch saara blame ladki pe