Kavya should be at the Puja!!! - Page 2

Well anupama never interfere between vanraj and his family . If baa want to show motherly love to vanraj anupama has never problem with it

Anupama already told kinjal that main maa aur bete ke beech nahin bol sakti.when baa want to celebrate vanraj birthday

Anupama always give space to vanraj to celebrate with his family or family want to celebrate with vanraj

Whether it is new year party , or pakhi birthday or taking care of vanraj after accident anupama always give space

It is kavya who Dont want to give space vanraj to celebrate his own birthday with family

And kavya vya coming to shah house at pooja first kavya should know that it is anupama house aur kisi ke doosre ghar mein apni man mani karna batamiji kehlati hai

Just like kavya could not tolertate pakhi man maa ni in her own house to kavya ko bhi soch lena chahiye ki jahaan woh pooja mein baithni jaa rahi hai woh doosre ka ghar hai. Aur doosre ke ghar mein man mani nahin chal sakti

Yeh anupama ka ghar hai . House is her name to anupama ko. So as owner of house As legal poora right hai ki. Woh kavya ko pooja baithne ki permission deti ya nahin

In fact kavya shah ke ghar ke andar aayegi ya nahin aayegi iska decision lene ka right poora anupama ko hai because she is owner of house

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Well anupama never interfere between vanraj and his family . If baa want to show motherly love to vanraj anupama has never problem with it

Anupama already told kinjal that main maa aur bete ke beech nahin bol sakti.when baa want to celebrate vanraj birthday

Anupama always give space to vanraj to celebrate with his family or family want to celebrate with vanraj

Whether it is new year party , or pakhi birthday or taking care of vanraj after accident anupama always give space

It is kavya who Dont want to give space vanraj to celebrate his own birthday with family

And kavya vya coming to shah house at pooja first kavya should know that it is anupama house aur kisi ke doosre ghar mein apni man mani karna batamiji kehlati hai

Just like kavya could not tolertate pakhi man maa ni in her own house to kavya ko bhi soch lena chahiye ki jahaan woh pooja mein baithni jaa rahi hai woh doosre ka ghar hai. Aur doosre ke ghar mein man mani nahin chal sakti

Yeh anupama ka ghar hai . House is her name to anupama ko. So as owner of house As legal poora right hai ki. Woh kavya ko pooja baithne ki permission deti ya nahin

In fact kavya shah ke ghar ke andar aayegi ya nahin aayegi iska decision lene ka right poora anupama ko hai because she is owner of house

Legally on paper house milna is not enough. I think agar vanraj ke khud ke paiso se kamaya hua house anupama alimony mai mila hota to baat he alag hoti. Seems like current house belongs only bapuji and their forefathers. Vanraj ne kabhi apne kamai ke paiso se ghar liya he nai hai.

Even if bapuji given it to anupama legally, fact will always remain same that it is bapuji and their ancestors property.

Since it is ancestral property, I don’t think Leela will ever allow anupama to take decision about who can come to house and who can not come to house because everybody knows bapuji ne legally anupama ko zarur diya but it’s ancestral property and anupama herself respect that fact that it is ancestral property.

Only bapuji has that power to stop kavya to coming inside their house nobody else.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Yes, I never understood this blaming of a whole affair on woman and calling her a home wrecker? Or Anupama insensitive for not accepting Vanraj back. Seriously, it's Vanraj who has done all the terrible things in this matter.

I hope Kinjal attends the conference and Kavya does all that work Kinju is expected.

@ bold - Agree 100%. Here also it was Vanraj's responsibility to protect his marriage.

Originally posted by: s93fan

Nice observations!

Rakhi is completely gone off the picture. Kavya's insecurities are understandable. And her doing all this possessive acts and reaching Shahs home following Vanraj is also ok.. but I am not understanding why they have shown sudden hatred of hers towards Pakhi and turned her completely negative so soon?!

She is supposed to turn negative due to her own insecurities itself but there is something called character development. Rather than taking it as sharing, she should have taken Pakhi's entrance as something like - I have beat anupama and now her daughter is with me - types, especially after divorce proceedings have started. That is much more suitable to an insecure fearful woman.

Her character is becomes negative too fast too soon!

ITV doesn't handle gray characters well. The downward slide from OK to pure black is often quick and illogical. Kavya is totally insecure and fearful. She saw Pakhi as trouble since the beginning and it became worse when Vanraj sided with Pakhi. She fears everything on Vanraj's family end - not just Anupama.

Originally posted by: Keerthi.02

True, why can't Anupama travel to some nearby place for a day.. It would make everybody comfortable and if v and k are together let kavya attend the puja.

Precap is surprising, Anupama is all decked up.

I expected her to dress up but not like this. 😆

May be Baa forced her to dress up?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Well anupama never interfere between vanraj and his family . If baa want to show motherly love to vanraj anupama has never problem with it

Anupama already told kinjal that main maa aur bete ke beech nahin bol sakti.when baa want to celebrate vanraj birthday

Anupama always give space to vanraj to celebrate with his family or family want to celebrate with vanraj

Whether it is new year party , or pakhi birthday or taking care of vanraj after accident anupama always give space

It is kavya who Dont want to give space vanraj to celebrate his own birthday with family

And kavya vya coming to shah house at pooja first kavya should know that it is anupama house aur kisi ke doosre ghar mein apni man mani karna batamiji kehlati hai

Just like kavya could not tolertate pakhi man maa ni in her own house to kavya ko bhi soch lena chahiye ki jahaan woh pooja mein baithni jaa rahi hai woh doosre ka ghar hai. Aur doosre ke ghar mein man mani nahin chal sakti

Yeh anupama ka ghar hai . House is her name to anupama ko. So as owner of house As legal poora right hai ki. Woh kavya ko pooja baithne ki permission deti ya nahin

In fact kavya shah ke ghar ke andar aayegi ya nahin aayegi iska decision lene ka right poora anupama ko hai because she is owner of house

I don't know about the house ownership. As long as Vanraj's parent live in that house, they have as much say as Anupama who can come in or not. They can call and meet their son as much as they like. If they accept him, that means they have accepted him with his baggage aka Kavya and must face her.

Anupama, on the other hand, has a choice. she can choose to step aside and not deal with Kavya.

I disagree that Anupama gives space --- if she did, she wouldn't be cooking and prepping for all celebrations. She wouldn't be participating in them. Kids' birthday I can understand but why is she a part of Vanraj's birthday?

Originally posted by: Irshita

I don't know about the house ownership. As long as Vanraj's parent live in that house, they have as much say as Anupama who can come in or not. They can call and meet their son as much as they like. If they accept him, that means they have accepted him with his baggage aka Kavya and must face her.

Anupama, on the other hand, has a choice. she can choose to step aside and not deal with Kavya.

I disagree that Anupama gives space --- if she did, she wouldn't be cooking and prepping for all celebrations. She wouldn't be participating in them. Kids' birthday I can understand but why is she a part of Vanraj's birthday?

Agree with all the points here.

It's a joint family and it is also baa's home - if she wants to do a Puja, she is allowed to. Anupama did not have to participate. Today's episode shows nobody forced her 🤯

Chalo Anupama is attached to the family and baa and chose to help with the cooking or prep. Somewhat understandable. But puja mein full on ready hokar aagayi and she still wore a huge mangalasutra !!! It's like a train wreck at this point and we can't look away.