TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO HATE/DISLIKE SAI'S CHARACTER

sai's character and her traits are not going to change.

she will be like that in the whole show, from starting episode to the ending episode.

she is here to break the stereotype of how ITV bahus are portrayed .

yes, she has character flaws, she is not perfect, but she is 'not totally wrong' either.

no one is perfect, neither virat, nor pakhi, naahi main aur naahi aap. all of us are imperfect and there is nothing to be ashamed of it or wrong about it.

this show is for people who want to see something Hatke from other 'saas bahu shows' and are tired of seeing 'abla naari' type FLs in the shows.

i have seen many people comparing sai to other show's 18-year-old FLs and stating that they are more mature than sai, so why cant sai be?

The answer to this is not every 18 year old is same, not only in the shows but even in the real life. so u cant expect sai to have character traits of other shows ke bahus.

if u want to see FL being more mature, polite, take all the taunats from ML and family and not say a word back and want FL to respect ML as 'pati bagwaan ka roop he' then this not the show for u,😆

we all know the story as it is a remake, sai will always be like that. so no use of expecting all the qualities that u all want to see in an AADARSH BAHU and BIWI from sai. so please dont waste you energy and boil your blood. 🤣

my simple suggestion is to kindly watch those kinds of shows in which FL has all the qualities u are expecting, ayise shows aap ko har ek channel mein 3-4 miljaate hai.

i will make ur hunt for shows like that a bit easy. if u are expecting a similar storyline as GHKKPM like 18 year old FL and ACP officer in his late 20's then you can watch 'tujse hai raabta'.

as we cant discuss or compare other shows like this, main ithna bataongi that there FL will have all the qualities u are expecting, like sundar, susheel, ghar ka saara kham akele sambhaalna, ML ke saat politely behave karna, ML ke saare torture sehna and not going against him and still loving and respecting him always.❤️

good luck with the show hunt👍🏼

note: this is just a suggestion and advice based on show facts, am not bossing around so please dont come u statements saying 'tum hume bata nay sakti ki hume kya karna chahiye' 😆 this is just a friendly suggestion. 😛

I agree with this post. Tbh Emon was more stubborn than Sai. Here Sai is really mature and understanding and also she knows how to fight for her own rights! Anyone who has problem with her should not watch the show.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

sai's character and her traits are not going to change.

she will be like that in the whole show, from starting episode to the ending episode.

she is here to break the stereotype of how ITV bahus are portrayed .

yes, she has character flaws, she is not perfect, but she is 'not totally wrong' either.

no one is perfect, neither virat, nor pakhi, naahi main aur naahi aap. all of us are imperfect and there is nothing to be ashamed of it or wrong about it.

this show is for people who want to see something Hatke from other 'saas bahu shows' and are tired of seeing 'abla naari' type FLs in the shows.

i have seen many people comparing sai to other show's 18-year-old FLs and stating that they are more mature than sai, so why cant sai be?

The answer to this is not every 18 year old is same, not only in the shows but even in the real life. so u cant expect sai to have character traits of other shows ke bahus.

if u want to see FL being more mature, polite, take all the taunats from ML and family and not say a word back and want FL to respect ML as 'pati bagwaan ka roop he' then this not the show for u,😆

we all know the story as it is a remake, sai will always be like that. so no use of expecting all the qualities that u all want to see in an AADARSH BAHU and BIWI from sai. so please dont waste you energy and boil your blood. 🤣

my simple suggestion is to kindly watch those kinds of shows in which FL has all the qualities u are expecting, ayise shows aap ko har ek channel mein 3-4 miljaate hai.

i will make ur hunt for shows like that a bit easy. if u are expecting a similar storyline as GHKKPM like 18 year old FL and ACP officer in his late 20's then you can watch 'tujse hai raabta'.

as we cant discuss or compare other shows like this, main ithna bataongi that there FL will have all the qualities u are expecting, like sundar, susheel, ghar ka saara kham akele sambhaalna, ML ke saat politely behave karna, ML ke saare torture sehna and not going against him and still loving and respecting him always.❤️

good luck with the show hunt👍🏼

note: this is just a suggestion and advice based on show facts, am not bossing around so please dont come u statements saying 'tum hume bata nay sakti ki hume kya karna chahiye' 😆 this is just a friendly suggestion. 😛

A refreshing character. She has her flaws but one learn only from mistakes and she too will. It is just that she acts childish many times and is impulsive too. It all comes from the fact that her Aaba used to love her a lot and also trusted her and was proud of her. She could speak her heart to him, grow angry on him, take full liberty and throw tantrums too. So sometimes she doesn’t think much and behave with others too in the same way but it is all harmless. Also she is going to be shown as a strong person and not too emotional kind.

The way she wipes her tears shows she wouldn’t let anyone make her weak. The night she was confronting Virat, she was also in pain and hurt but she was acting strong and that’s her trait. His hurt gets visible because he doesn’t conceal his emotions. But Sai is characterised that way which is unique.

I kept wondering many times why she didn’t check on Virat’s hands after she threw water. He got burnt, she attends to the hurt by pouring water, replies isse jalan kam hothi hai and walks away 😂😂.

For people who want Sairat scenes, it would have been good to see her checking his hands, blowing it but that is not Sai. That is how a typical FL would act and they have always been showing them that way. Sai was hurt, she won’t melt that easily and didn’t want to give in to his chai apology (showing her anger in a cute way though) which looked really funny. It takes a lot of determination to not get carried away. She walked away with a bindass 😂😂 attitude. Virat kept looking at her amused. He knows she is an angry young woman and has liked that in her.

I see the way she answers to others sometimes is like she would answer her aaba. She takes liberty while talking to people and I see bachpana in her but it is being as misunderstood as arrogance always. She is arrogant at times not always. As Virat once said woh kaafi Ajeeb hai.

They want to make her look bold, loud, I don’t care attitude person. There are people like that in real too. But I have known them to be really good at heart.

There are certain things she needs to change in, she will. It is interesting how the makers decided to have contrast in FL, one who is full of tameez, patient, Susheel but is vile. The other FL is fierce, ruthless but always has good intentions and thinks good for others.

Originally posted by: Andy3456

I agree with this post. Tbh Emon was more stubborn than Sai. Here Sai is really mature and understanding and also she knows how to fight for her own rights! Anyone who has problem with her should not watch the show.

exactly,

most of the people are watching this show and are only here cuz of sai's character.

sai's character is something that is attracting all the audiences who needs a break from abla naari type saas-bahu dramas.

only very few people have issues with sai's character, i respect everyone's opinion and pov.

but when they blindly hate sai's character and everything related to her and not even ready to think from her perspective and understand things then, the better thing to do is to shift to other shows. cuz sai ka character tho badalne nay waali.

Originally posted by: laksh

A refreshing character. She has her flaws but one learn only from mistakes and she too will. It is just that she acts childish many times and is impulsive too. It all comes from the fact that her Aaba used to love her a lot and also trusted her and was proud of her. She could speak her heart to him, grow angry on him, take full liberty and throw tantrums too. So sometimes she doesn’t think much and behave with others too in the same way but it is all harmless. Also she is going to be shown as a strong person and not too emotional kind.

The way she wipes her tears shows she wouldn’t let anyone make her weak. The night she was confronting Virat, she was also in pain and hurt but she was acting strong and that’s her trait. His hurt gets visible because he doesn’t conceal his emotions. But Sai is characterised that way which is unique.

I kept wondering many times why she didn’t check on Virat’s hands after she threw water. He got burnt, she attends to the hurt by pouring water, replies isse jalan kam hothi hai and walks away 😂😂.

For people who want Sairat scenes, it would have been good to see her checking his hands, blowing it but that is not Sai. That is how a typical FL would act and they have always been showing them that way. Sai was hurt, she won’t melt that easily and didn’t want to give in to his chai apology (showing her anger in a cute way though) which looked really funny. It takes a lot of determination to not get carried away. She walked away with a bindass 😂😂 attitude. Virat kept looking at her amused. He knows she is an angry young woman and has liked that in her.

I see the way she answers to others sometimes is like she would answer her aaba. She takes liberty while talking to people and I see bachpana in her but it is being as misunderstood as arrogance always. She is arrogant at times not always. As Virat once said woh kaafi Ajeeb hai.

They want to make her look bold, loud, I don’t care attitude person. There are people like that in real too. But I have known them to be really good at heart.

There are certain things she needs to change in, she will. It is interesting how the makers decided to have contrast in FL, one who is full of tameez, patient, Susheel but is vile. The other FL is fierce, ruthless but always has good intentions and thinks good for others.

Same rule apply on virat vo aisa hi rahega , agar nhi acha lagta to chhod do serial dekhna it's a friendly advice as I m not bossing around as virat is a grey character not some god.

I don't know which serial u see jaha FL doormat hoti hai.

Vaise I don't see much daily soap coz mujhe tolerate nhi hota I mostly see historical or mytho serial.

Jo serial maine serial dekhti hoon usme FL na to doormat hoti hai na hi usse glorify karne ke liye ML ko barbaad kiya jaata hain.

Anupama is not doormat & trp no 1 show then .

Naamkaran Avni was not doormat neither a samaj sevika . ACP Neil Khurana was never destroyed coz Avni ko glorification ke need nhi thi

Ek astha aise bhi was way good serial where nastik gets married to house full of astiks , she proved her points which logical explanation.

Ips sandhya rathi was not complete doormat diya baati hum is considered trp topper show

Kanak from diya baati season 2 was not doormat character.

Jin character ka naam liye vo vahut strong point pe argue karte hain aur jeete hain .

Sai ko har baat argue karna hota coz CN argue karte hain & mostly she fights in her defence uske pass koi points hote hi nhi aur jo usko rokne ke koshish kare vo uska dushman hota hain specially virat.

Originally posted by: laksh

A refreshing character. She has her flaws but one learn only from mistakes and she too will. It is just that she acts childish many times and is impulsive too. It all comes from the fact that her Aaba used to love her a lot and also trusted her and was proud of her. She could speak her heart to him, grow angry on him, take full liberty and throw tantrums too. So sometimes she doesn’t think much and behave with others too in the same way but it is all harmless. Also she is going to be shown as a strong person and not too emotional kind.

yep i agree, we saw that she behaves the same way with her aaba also like u mentioned, which shows that, that is how she was brought up with laad pyaar. not all girls are brought up in the same way. so we cant expect sai to be like other bahus and we cant expect her to suddenly change behavior and behave very politely with elders and not talk back. and also she is not rude with everyone, she never taunted ashwini or shivani or devyani, that's cuz they are good people and behaves well with sai, unlike other chavans and pakhi didi.

The way she wipes her tears shows she wouldn’t let anyone make her weak. The night she was confronting Virat, she was also in pain and hurt but she was acting strong and that’s her trait. His hurt gets visible because he doesn’t conceal his emotions. But Sai is characterised that way which is unique.

she indeed is a strong woman. her dialogue 'meri jagah koyi aur ladki hoti tho apni kismat pe rothi' was heartfelt.

I kept wondering many times why she didn’t check on Virat’s hands after she threw water. He got burnt, she attends to the hurt by pouring water, replies isse jalan kam hothi hai and walks away 😂😂.

🤣

she was soo pissed with him after that convo. i think when he said 'tum hoti kaun ho mere aur pakhi ke bharemin kuch bhi poochne waali?' this question hurt her most.

For people who want Sairat scenes, it would have been good to see her checking his hands, blowing it but that is not Sai. That is how a typical FL would act and they have always been showing them that way. Sai was hurt, she won’t melt that easily and didn’t want to give in to his chai apology (showing her anger in a cute way though) which looked really funny. It takes a lot of determination to not get carried away. She walked away with a bindass 😂😂 attitude. Virat kept looking at her amused. He knows she is an angry young woman and has liked that in her.

i expected virat to act like he was in pain just to make her guilt and see her concern for him, but he didnt and she just walked away😆

he must be like 'meri tho koyi izzat hi nay hai' 🤣

I see the way she answers to others sometimes is like she would answer her aaba. She takes liberty while talking to people and I see bachpana in her but it is being as misunderstood as arrogance always. She is arrogant at times not always. As Virat once said woh kaafi Ajeeb hai.

They want to make her look bold, loud, I don’t care attitude person. There are people like that in real too. But I have known them to be really good at heart.

ayisi reality logon ko kaha bhaati hai? they like unrealistically mahaan and abla naari type FLs 😆

There are certain things she needs to change in, she will. It is interesting how the makers decided to have contrast in FL, one who is full of tameez, patient, Susheel but is vile. The other FL is fierce, ruthless but always has good intentions and thinks good for others.

yep, with time she will, i hope.

I love Sai! And yes She has her flaws and not always right, which is okay because that's where scope for character growth lies however when there is an open forum dedicated to a show people will use it to express their displeasure on characters and plot devices associated with the show which is why these platforms exist in the first place.

Just like how displeasure on Virat has been expressed (including myself) here it is well within the decorum of the forum to express displeasure on Sai too.

She is unique and one of a kind and relatable to a large extent no doubt about that but she makes some questionable decisions too.

Humara show thoda hatke hai FL attitude dikhati hai aur ML rota rehta hai isliye mere cvs se request hai ki ek scene hume de janha Sai apne Virat ko wall pin pe kare aur Virat sharmaye

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Same rule apply on virat vo aisa hi rahega , agar nhi acha lagta to chhod do serial dekhna it's a friendly advice as I m not bossing around as virat is a grey character not some god.

WE DONT HATE/DISLIKE HIS CHARACTER.

the thing here is most of us think from his angle too, we try to understand his pov too. we dont blindly judge him, when sai was rude to him we said sai was wrong. when virat was wrong we said viart was wrong, we didnt blindly support sai. every character has flaws and we accepted virat's too and watching the show. when certain things can be avoided like his ignorant behavior when he can see everything is unrealistic, it is not his character trait. he is not like that with everyone, he only ignored to notice pakhi's harkatein and failed to set limits, where as sai always behaved same way with everyone.

I don't know which serial u see jaha FL doormat hoti hai.

tujhse hai raabta, guddan tumse na ho payega, SNS2, pavitr rishta,sasuarl simar ka, apna time bhi aayga etc etc. i dint use the word doormat, but zyaada difference bhi nay hota the way they treat FLs in such shows and ayise shows aap ko har channel mein miljaayenge.

Vaise I don't see much daily soap coz mujhe tolerate nhi hota I mostly see historical or mytho serial.

Jo serial maine serial dekhti hoon usme FL na to doormat hoti hai na hi usse glorify karne ke liye ML ko barbaad kiya jaata hain.

that's good that you dont watch such shows..sehat keliye haani kaarak hai😆 but u find such shows in every channel.

Anupama is not doormat & trp no 1 show then .

she is definitely not, her in laws are not like chavans, thank god for that😆

Naamkaran Avni was not doormat neither a samaj sevika . ACP Neil Khurana was never destroyed coz Avni ko glorification ke need nhi thi

i mentioned Few shows above, am not saying all shows are like that 'most of the saas bahu shows are like that. here am talking about GHKKPM and sai, other shows mein kya dikhate hai kya nay isse i dont have any lena dena..😆

am saying that sai wont be like 'saas- bahu' shows ke bahu.

Ek astha aise bhi was way good serial where nastik gets married to house full of astiks , she proved her points which logical explanation.

this is what am saying u cant compare one shows FL with another. the ways and circumstances that all girls are brought up in are different warna dho logon mein farak hi kya rehjaayega? sab ek tarah honge phir😆

Ips sandhya rathi was not complete doormat diya baati hum is considered trp topper show

Kanak from diya baati season 2 was not doormat character.

Jin character ka naam liye vo vahut strong point pe argue karte hain aur jeete hain .

i answered to these lines above..

Sai ko har baat argue karna hota coz CN argue karte hain & mostly she fights in her defence uske pass koi points hote hi nhi aur jo usko rokne ke koshish kare vo uska dushman hota hain specially virat.

the answer to this is in my main post only, she cant have the qualities we all want. she is like that and she will be. thats why i made this post.👍🏼