Graceful uncoupling

Today the main crux of the episode was DIVORCE... How divorces are handled in real life, How it should be actually handled.

Today I loved the conversation between Baa and Dolly. Leela Shah said we should let go in a relationship, that in the ancient times, the word divorce was like an atom bomb. In my cast my aunt filed a first divorce case ever, and she was so alone. 8 People tried to change her mind. But she didn't as the fault was of her ex husband. He was involved in EMA. Now she is divorced and happy with other person. It was such a big issue then, Ladies always compromised. Husband will not compromise

Dolly was perfectly right, she is a daughter in law, so Leela is opposing her, but what if Sanjay was involved in an EMA. Leela would have asked Dolly to be backat their house. Anupama is staying in her Sasuraal. Forget Dolly, what if Leela's husband was in an EMA, can Leela forgive him? No.

In the family court, I must say that if it was other than Anupama and Vanraj, they would have fighted like hell, or would have stayed silent like strangers. But they didn't fight nor did they remain silent. They talked normally. That's what is needed when we cut off relations from people. We can lose every relation but the bond of humanity should always stay.

What Vanraj did was cheating, but he claimed it is a mistake. Even if he misunderstood this as a mistake, but he didn't blame Anupama this time. Thank you Vanraj Shah for atleast considering that it was your fault. Because your ego, wont allow to do that also.

The moment Anupama was signing on the divorce papers, I felt good and emotional for Anupama. As she is free from the ties. Vanraj understood what he lost, he realised it. For now this enough.

PLEASE TO THOSE WHO GET SEPERATED, DONT GET ANGRY ON THAT PERSON FOREVER. If the person makes you angry, then the person still has control over your life. GIVE FREEDOM.

I bet if Anupama needs Vanraj's help Vanraj will help her and Anupama will also help Vanraj.

EVERY BOND CAN END, BUT THE BOND OF HUMANITY CANT

Honestly it's not easy to let go of abuse is involved .. physical and mental

People take years of counseling and support .. sometimes even physiotherapy to recover from broken bones

It all depends case to case

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Honestly it's not easy to let go of abuse is involved .. physical and mental

People take years of counseling and support .. sometimes even physiotherapy to recover from broken bones

It all depends case to case

Yeah you are right. Abuse can be the exception

The way Anupama said give me Mukti. I will not wish I'll for you stay blessed and happy in your new life it was not easy for her. She needs to come to terms on her own....that from Leela was unexpected.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

The way Anupama said give me Mukti. I will not wish I'll for you stay blessed and happy in your new life it was not easy for her. She needs to come to terms on her own....that from Leela was unexpected.

Leela is still thinking about her Beta. But Leela saw together for 25 years so it might be difficult for to let go the bond. But considering Vanraj's cheating, Leela should leave the decision to Anupama and support her