IMMj Episodes Discussion Thread #CI - Page 7

Originally posted by: LostTraveller

Vansh is kinda behaving like an ostrich which puts his head under the soil when it sees danger.

Like if he ignores the problem it will go away 🤪

Aisa nahin hota Vansh beta.

And Riddhima is super super weird. How she is so positive and not feeling hurt at Vansh’s reactions is abnormal.

Poor writing from CVs for her part. But they are displaying Vansh’s frame of mind well.

I also want to ask a serious kind of question. When Vansh says he doesnt want a kid, but Riddhima is going ahead ignoring his request, we are supporting her as a baby is a good thing we feel.

But if the situation was reversed, and it was Riddhima who didnt want a child for some personal reason and Vansh was going ahead and making her stay pregnant, would we still support Vansh for the same reason that a baby is a happy event? Or would we demand that Riddhima be given the time she needs to wait until she feels ready for a child?

What do you all think? I am just putting it out here as this question has been bothering me. No judgement on what the answer should be, Just tell me your views on this.

Is it the mother whose decision is paramount always? Or should the couple decided together? Is it fair for any partner to hurry for a child if the other is still fearful for some past reason? Even if the father doesnt carry the kid, does his responsibility lessen and so this voice in this matter also lessens?......just a lot of questions.....

In the name of drama cv’s always compromise with V’s basic intelligence ,this time atleast we can say he’s traumatized from his past .

To the question you raised ,it’s a very valid point had the roles been reversed arguments would have been very different .Personally I feel it’s should be a mutual decision because both individuals are responsible for a third person .It’s a huge responsibility and both need each other’s support .

The argument of mother’s is considered paramount because it’s her body and her choice but the scenario differs in various situations .

For Riansh ,R has taken the liberty to think V has a problem because of the dangers around the child she’s still not aware of his trauma and hence she’s being pushy .

Originally posted by: LostTraveller

Would really like your opinions on this. Its been on my mind.

If riddhima was not pregnant,I would have supported her

If she was,I would have supported vansh but I won't judge riddhima for wanting abortion like I am not judging vansh now.It is the individual 's choice.

Abortions are never encouraged.They are done only if it is a-

1.Result of rape

2.Medical-Health issues

3.Economical-can't afford(not sure)

4.Failure of contraceptions

Wanting or not wanting a child is something a couple should discuss even before they get married.

Originally posted by: LostTraveller

Vansh is kinda behaving like an ostrich which puts his head under the soil when it sees danger.

Like if he ignores the problem it will go away 🤪

Aisa nahin hota Vansh beta.

And Riddhima is super super weird. How she is so positive and not feeling hurt at Vansh’s reactions is abnormal.

Poor writing from CVs for her part. But they are displaying Vansh’s frame of mind well.

I also want to ask a serious kind of question. When Vansh says he doesnt want a kid, but Riddhima is going ahead ignoring his request, we are supporting her as a baby is a good thing we feel.

But if the situation was reversed, and it was Riddhima who didnt want a child for some personal reason and Vansh was going ahead and making her stay pregnant, would we still support Vansh for the same reason that a baby is a happy event? Or would we demand that Riddhima be given the time she needs to wait until she feels ready for a child?

What do you all think? I am just putting it out here as this question has been bothering me. No judgement on what the answer should be, Just tell me your views on this.

Is it the mother whose decision is paramount always? Or should the couple decided together? Is it fair for any partner to hurry for a child if the other is still fearful for some past reason? Even if the father doesnt carry the kid, does his responsibility lessen and so this voice in this matter also lessens?......just a lot of questions.....

I've said this before being understanding doesn't mean emotionless. She should feel bad her hubby said directly he doesn't want a child. I'm not saying her to shout. Today he is not there in hospital, still she didn't feel anything. It's a basic emotion yrrr. Indeed a bad writing.

Originally posted by: LostTraveller

Vansh is kinda behaving like an ostrich which puts his head under the soil when it sees danger.

Like if he ignores the problem it will go away 🤪

Aisa nahin hota Vansh beta.

And Riddhima is super super weird. How she is so positive and not feeling hurt at Vansh’s reactions is abnormal.

Poor writing from CVs for her part. But they are displaying Vansh’s frame of mind well.

I also want to ask a serious kind of question. When Vansh says he doesnt want a kid, but Riddhima is going ahead ignoring his request, we are supporting her as a baby is a good thing we feel.

But if the situation was reversed, and it was Riddhima who didnt want a child for some personal reason and Vansh was going ahead and making her stay pregnant, would we still support Vansh for the same reason that a baby is a happy event? Or would we demand that Riddhima be given the time she needs to wait until she feels ready for a child?

What do you all think? I am just putting it out here as this question has been bothering me. No judgement on what the answer should be, Just tell me your views on this.

Is it the mother whose decision is paramount always? Or should the couple decided together? Is it fair for any partner to hurry for a child if the other is still fearful for some past reason? Even if the father doesnt carry the kid, does his responsibility lessen and so this voice in this matter also lessens?......just a lot of questions.....

@bold - This is what I have been complaining about since a long time. Very, very poor writing.

@red - That's a brilliant question.

Child bearing should be decided by both partners, but I personally feel that the mother should have a bigger say here.

Bcoz the mother has to bear the physical pains...n pregnancy can change a woman forever. Sometimes, a lot of woman have irreversible hairloss, changes to body after delivery, etc and other physical changes which can mean a lot to a female.

Problem I see here is, Riansh dont have any dialogue at all.

Granted Vansh has a valid reason. But he doesnt want to talk at all about it with his wife. He has already decided...Main yeh hone nahi dunga...

And jab woh ho gaya then his dialogue has changed to Main baap nahi banna chahta!

Riddhima is being understanding and has asked him...but he is not willing to open up.

I feel they need to have a scene...where they talk out, what are other alternatives, etc.If they are both stubborn in their own decisions, then Riddhima can tell him -

I want this baby...n I cannot kill it.

If you dont want this responsibility...I cannot force mine on you.

So, then let us start thinking about our future like we have never done before.

Sorry couldn't stop myself from coming up with this theory

PS : This theory is absolutely based on ITV No Logic Involved !!!😆

Many were discussing on TT that maybe 'Riddhu isn't pregnant at all'

I quite think maybe this can be possible as many suspect Kabir has tampered with her pregnancy kit

It can be his plan to make it seem that she is preggy

(even in Jodha Akbar there was a similar track where she was given medicines in food which made her seem preggy)

Kabir can easily bribe Drs etc. to execute his plan further on.

This opportunity is best for him to create a major rift between RIANSH.

Riddhu's pregnancy will aggravate Vansh's fear for not having a baby n force him to take some drastic step.

Red Glove person can be Kabir or Chacha as per my assumption

Kabir is planning these attacks (maybe not deadly as it seems pointed out earlier) but just creating more fear for RIANSH.

Kabir being present whenever the attack is executed makes it fishy or its just a mere coincidence.

If not Kabir then Chacha ... I strongly feel Chacha is involved in these attacks.

Aryan can't plan so much n Angre I really hope not

If Riddhu is really pregnant then Kabir wants Vansh's child

cos it will hurt Vansh more or maybe some inheritance clause in the will

🤔

PS: Forgot to add that Kabir may have overheard VanGre-Sia convo in the study n then observed Ridz symtoms so may have triggered him to implement this plan.

So lets see whether pregnancy is real or fake

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Right now I'm not watching. Still will try to give vishesh tippani. It's actually not man vs woman for me. It should be mutual decision. Here they're not communicating properly. Vansh is not sharing his issue to ridz & ridz being understanding wife is giving him time. First they need to talk clearly over this issue. Then actually we can pass judgment.

I've said this before being understanding doesn't mean emotionless. She should feel bad her hubby said directly he doesn't want a child. I'm not saying her to shout. Today he is not there in hospital, still she didn't feel anything. It's a basic emotion yrrr. Indeed a bad writing.

@bold - Exactly!

I would feel terrible if I were in her shoes!

Originally posted by: annapooranim98

If riddhima was not pregnant,I would have supported her

If she was,I would have supported vansh but I won't judge riddhima for wanting abortion like I am not judging vansh now.It is the individual 's choice.

Abortions are never encouraged.They are done only if it is a-

1.Result of rape

2.Medical-Health issues

3.Economical-can't afford(not sure)

4.Failure of contraceptions

Wanting or not wanting a child is something a couple should discuss even before they get married.

@bold - Exactly.

Finally jiss ka tha hame intezar vo khadi agaee

Ridhimah ne kabir ku slap mara.kabir ko bohot zaruri thi yea thapad ki... kya such mein ridhimah ne kabir ka face nahi dekha due to lights off..to vo phir bacch jayea ga...I hope riansh dono milkar kabir ki pitaee karey.. vansh kub ridhimah ka aapne fear kay barey mein batayea ga.. he should say know... varna ridhimah disheart hojaee gi.

Vo ab vansh kay behavior ku positive mein lay rahi hai... magar kab tak... ab Ap ki bhi entry horahi hai... Ap to youhi nahi aara hi hai kuch tou badh karegi.. issay pahelay bohot deir hojayee vansh should accept his snowball..

Kya fida jub chudiya chuk gayee kheth..

Originally posted by: amritat

@bold - Exactly!

I would feel terrible if I were in her shoes!

Originally posted by: HeytzMaaneet

Sorry couldn't stop myself from coming up with this theory

PS : This theory is absolutely based on No Logic Involved !!!😆

Many were discussing on TT that maybe 'Riddhu isn't pregnant at all'

I quite think maybe this can be possible as many suspect Kabir has tampered with her pregnancy kit

It can be his plan to make it seem that she is preggy

(even in Jodha Akbar there was a similar track where she was given medicines in food which made her seem preggy)

Kabir can easily bribe Drs etc. to execute his plan further on.

This opportunity is best for him to create a major rift between RIANSH.

Riddhu's pregnancy will aggravate Vansh's fear for not having a baby n force him to take some drastic step.

Red Glove person can be Kabir or Chacha as per my assumption

Kabir is planning these attacks (maybe not deadly as it seems pointed out earlier) but just creating more fear for RIANSH.

Kabir being present whenever the attack is executed makes it fishy or its just a mere coincidence.

If not Kabir then Chacha ... I strongly feel Chacha is involved in these attacks.

Aryan can't plan so much n Angre I really hope not

If Riddhu is really pregnant then Kabir wants Vansh's child

cos it will hurt Vansh more or maybe some inheritance clause in the will

🤔

So lets see whether pregnancy is real or fake

Heytal

I have doubt its fake bcz kabir ko jeh baat ki vansh doesnt wanna become father tb bta chli jb us din us lady ne vansh ko sarap diya

He didnt knew it earlier

And attacks i feel either its chachu alone

Or chachu and ap