Suprabhat Bhagininno! 🌄🌻🌻
Seene men jalan, ankhon men tufaan sa kyon hai.. Is Chakram niwas mein har shakhs pareshaan sa kyon hai?
Delusional Didi ki honeymoon flight DD 1.47 crash landing ho gayi so Didi Ka Rona, aankhon ki jalan aur totally frenzied ho jaana samajh me aata hai. I feel Didi's pain but why are Omkar and Ninad getting so overwrought about Sai accompanying her Pati??
Ninad toh has definitely never experienced Prakruti ki Godh mein baithne Ka Anand but 55 ki umar me laal shirt pehenke Valentine day hug dene wala Omkar is furious that his young nephew wants his newly married wife to accompany him to a nature's trip? 🙊🙄😒😤 Ghar Ka anushashan hai ki devar honeymoon sirf vahini ke Saath jaa sakta hai?? 😖😖
And, Sonali's "bartan maanjo" instruction was the most shocking -- they really don't have any domestic help in the house? Abhi toh mujhe Swargiya Nagesh Chavan ki imaandari par shakh ho Raha hai (mala maaf kara Kakasaheb, I know you are a departed soul, lekin aapki dharampatni itni Chindi Chor hai ki itna alishaan Ghar aur rutba Kabhi Dekha hi Nahi aisa Lagta hai)... Because money can't bring along class. They seem to be a family that became overnight saavkaars and can't bring themselves to 'conduct' in situations gracefully because of the lack of class. As they say, "Jisne kabhi itne paise dekhe Nahi..."
But full points to Chavan Saheb for asking the right questions to his aadarniya Baba for his lowly Soch and also the paramaadarniya Kaku, who just a few minutes ago was pushing the honeymoon package with Vahini after doing her kaala teeka 🙄😐 but despite his refusal to the offer, the senile woman couldn't help rant about her unchahee bahu accompanying her husband on the trip.
It's such a real feeling when someone's giving you malarkey and then you ask them the right questions to which the only response ever can be 'beizzati'! Aaj toh please bata hi dete ki extoxic tea mein beizzati hormones ke kitne Spoon dalte Hain?😂😂😂 The Makad Sena always has their beizzati hormones playing up and leaving them in heat, literally. Ab nazaarein dekhne and 'vaadiyon' mein ghoomne ka suggestion dene wali Kaku was so offended when the chaheeta beta reminded them of Samrat's official work but the thought of his wife accompanying him for even the official trip turned indigestible.
Virat's questions went unanswered but who will give the answers now--
1. Sai is my wife. If she accompanies me on a trip, how is it anyone's beizzati? 🤔 (Didi only offered reiteration that 'beizzati hai'. But itni mature samajhdaar Bhabhi bata Sakti Hain kaise??)
2. If Vahini is supposed to be taken for sight seeing because she has no wajood without her missing husband and 'Prakrurti ki Godh mein Anand Lena' is necessary, so why can't Sai have the same anand with her wajood matlab husband? (Waise I can let this regressive thought pass only because she didn't use the word aurat Ka wajood without Husband).
3. Why is there no thought spared for the girl who lost her father and has since only been thrown from one whirlwind to another. What even makes anyone feel that she's happy?
Virat, since yesterday's Mohit issue, has been asking the right questions and giving away so much from his mental notes about what he has seen and observed -- and so also raising expectations to eventually crash land 😒. He didn't miss the taunts that began before Sai could even take a second breath in that zillat arena... Right from ' bartan maanjo aur nashta banao' to 'maukaparast', there wasn't even one hair's breadth space between the volleys. Even Karishma had to open her 'chonch' 🙊 But just to add: Mohit was among the three people who smiled when Sai walked in... And of course, Virat's 'frozen, enchanted' moments with Sai must be really a trigger for beizzati hormones 😛 upar se aaj toh bol bhi Diya, "Sai aaj bohat acchi lag rahi hai"... 😅
Okay now, coming back to reality -- why was Virat so sheepishly telling Vahini that Sai is accompanying them? Why was he so nervous when the BA MA Pass unche gawar were already name calling Sai before she arrived and he almost appeared as if he wanted to just pack Sai in a suitcase if possible and straightaway open the package in Ladakh so that Didi wouldn't throw a fit
😂 Ladakh jaake fit throw karna would make no sense as she could be thrown off any cliff into Prakruti ki Godh 😂😂 But what was that nervousness for? So, Virat knew very well that this would be the outcome but he didn't expect Mallika-e-Maturity to be so pea-brained to hysterically tear her print copy of an e-ticket as if they would be invalidated from taking the flight 😅 Didi ko pata Nahi hai navra baiko have their own print out but because the beizzati hormones will kill the entire clan and they will have to return anyway, they will not proceed to enjoy Prakruti ke nazaare alone matlab together in the correct number: two😅😅 because Didi ne ailaan Kar diya hai ki koi nahi Jayega so that's the order of the day!
Was Virat's idea to keep the suspense till 9:15 am for a 12 pm flight a great one? Sonali was worried they were already going to miss the flight if they didn't reach by 10am. It definitely comes from his highly acquired skill for conflict avoidance. There are many ways of doing it :: ignoring like it doesn't exist, stonewalling and disconnection, giving in to accommodate the other, comprising in some parts, standing ground to firmly have your way or collaborating to find a solution to suit all sides involved.
It is the collaboration that takes maximum courage and is the best way to deal with it. But that's also the only style that is impossible to use in Chakram niwas and so, we have never seen Virat use collaboration to end a conflict. He usually only ignores, gives in or stands his ground when he is pushed to uphold his basic principles.
The problem with this kind of approach that doesn't involve collaboration is that it can work in professional set ups but where family dynamics and romantic relationship is involved, it can set damaging patterns that make it very tricky to get out of. At some point, there will be a dead-end and the only way to move forward is to face the fear of conflict and express emotions as it should be.
Although Virat is standing by, I felt bad for Sai. Why should she be blamed for this? She was right in saying that it was Virat who was at fault for not revealing that he had asked her to come along even when she had refused. Her outburst at the treatment being given out to her would be completely justified because she kept voicing this exact fear to Virat when she realised that he was not speaking about her accompanying them. What an open irony it turned out to be -- those blaming Sai for not being okay with Virat going alone with Venom-wali Vahini ended up being offended at Virat's wife accompanying him and Vahini on the trip 🙊 How does one explain what it means to be a mauka-parasth wife to find ways to get a holiday with her own husband?!! 🤯🤕 But Vahini's mauka parasthi to trap devar in 'shikwe mitake batana kitna tadpi hoon' is susheelta 😂😂.
And Susheel Vahini asking the devar's wife: Even if your husband forced you to accompany him to ruin my honeymoon dreams with him, why didn't you refuse and remind him that he must go honeymooning with his missing cousin's wife?
I hope she even tells her, "Maine Kaha tha Na tum Dil lagake padh na jab Virat Nahi Hoga!"😂😅
Patralekha is among those people who put forth their demands by indirect tactics. They will not take responsibility for their own choices (-- she didn't trust, she chose Samrat and she chose this life); instead, they turn around and blame someone else for making them do it. Or they will agree to do things that they don’t really want to do, and not do it but hold it against the one who asked them to do it. She wants to be blissfully unaware in her bubble that her imaginary husband has seen through most of her facade. The only acknowledgment he needs to make is of this exact delusion that she's living in and this moment is the perfect one. I hope he doesn't miss this opportunity and seal the leakage of the fire that's fast running into his well-earned barood that stands beside him to be launched at people when justly needed. And people like the Chakram gang that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person, who has betrayed them the most and brought much beizzati to their existence even.
People with a style of denial and blaming are definitely on the list of unsafe people to avoid - Virat, make notes and build that life you've been told you can't.
I hope that the continuation of the scene is as entertaining and assuring as the opening was. Waise itna BP increase Karne wala scene has to be viewed reminding self that the jokers are high on the extoxic tea. There is a limit to how much contempt one can have for someone? I guess this show down is much needed to wake up Virat in a few ways to see the reality of his family. He's already aware about it but this showdown should change the way he has been approaching the situation -- there should be no need to switch sides, give in or compromise from hereon when the scales of justice are evidently tilted on one side.
And oh, Ashwini's sixer was ultimate: Virat, Apne Baba se behes mat Karo, wo toh shaam tak Bolte rahenge aur flight miss ho jayegi. Sorry Haan.. " 😂😂😂😂
And oh yes, how can I miss - policewala knows Mansi bua is locked in her room. So thanks for telling us that she's in the house? But Shivani? Woh bhi Mansi ko company de rahi Hai kya? Must be so they can save on the electricity bill of one room. Waise bhi their monthly budget went overboard as Ninad said -- ab November ko February mein merge karoge toh 4 mahine ka kharcha ek mahine mein Karna hi Hoga na 🙄 baat karte Hain... 😐😐
Waise, who will do bharpai of the tickets that Susheel Shahannav Kuli Maratha bahu just threw in the air in piedes? No one will give gyaan on wasting kamane wale bete ki rozgaari like that? May be not. Because after they finish exciting the person, beizzati hormones break into besharmi hormones and remain pressed on the faces which monotonous expression that should be aptly named as "meri beizzati huyi hai" face. You can interpret any other emotion as you like, except happiness because Anand toh sirf Prakruti ki Godh mein baithne se milta hai 😝
So the drama will end and Ashwini's suggestion to navra baiko to go out is coming up.. will they? I think they should. The poor dewdrop was so happy. Why can't Virat actually decide to take her on a break she needs as much as him and he knows it. But of course they won't 😔
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So, it is interesting... Very interesting that Virat has no idea about Devyani's story. He has been told she was found unconscious in the hostel -- so that must be the story everyone knows? So did she deliver the baby without anyone's knowledge or did Bhavani keep her confined till the baby was born? It definitely looks like the story has a very dark side to it.
Virat wants to know but he doesn't think he can ask Devi. Now that Sai has heard his interest in the issue, she will involve him in the mission hopefully. But obviously there is Bhavani with her snake, ready to let it slide and hiss about the "Galti" that the nemesis will soon make. The stage is set for the imminent separation -- it's already goose bumpy. I can so hear Sai saying, "Waise bhi hamari shaadi toh Shaadi hai hi Nahi so agar Devi tai ke liye mujhe ye keemat chukani pade toh main woh bhi karungi..." 🥺🥺🥺
The turbulence is soon approaching this flight that has just taken off into the sky of understanding. But then, can a flight attain the altitudes it must to smoothly fly into the vast blue ethers unless it cuts through the turbulent cloud flows. It will shudder and shake but it will continue to soar until it blends into the azure horizon✈️💕
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Blaming others is a trait that helps people feel good when they are actually feeling bad about themselves. Are you on the receiving end of such blame? Today, abandon the idea that you will forever be the victim
Pick up your cuppa of ☕☕☕ or 🍵🍵🍵 and choose to be a victor!
Because many hugs 🤗🤗🤗 and hearts❤️❤️❤️ are awaiting you at the corner where the road bends.
And kyunki the Prakruti ki Godh mein dialogue is just stuck in my head today, it reminded me of the song I must play:
"Bol meri takadir mein kya hai
Mere humasafar ab to bata
Jiwan ke do pahalu hai
Hariyali aur rasta
Kaha hain mere pyar ki manjil
Tu batala tuz ko hain pata
Jiwan ke do pahalu hai
Hariyali aur rasta..."
Mann Kare toh sun lena... Aur Kuch kehna hai toh keh dena ☺️😊
Manapurvak aabhar!
Aale,
❤️J
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