Is love really this hard? *UPDATE IN RED*

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ok, I want everyone to forget about Armaan and Riddhima while reading this. Because we know that A/R are a part of a show and they have to stretch this thing out to 500000000 shows and so we're gonna have to sit through this hell and watch it...so we know that they will end up together despite all of the hurdles they oops, I mean Armaan has to face. So forget about them.

I want to know something. How many of y'all would do all of this for love? dont get me wrong, I know that "Pyaar mein sau uljane hai" but how many of y'all would be able to stay sane in these situations? I want to know what you think personally. How would you react to this?

Ok back to Armaan and Riddhima and the destructives oops, I mean creatives. My question: Is this really love? The constant hurdles. The insanity. The misunderstandings. The immaturity. How is this love? A/R hurt each other like its no ones business! Its more Riddhima than Armaan...but my point is that they hurt one another. For what? Do these two not know that life is short and if you have found love, you should cherish it? Cherish your love, you idiots! Day by day Im getting more and more frustrated w/ this show. And I realize that its just a show (for those of y'all who enjoy pointing that out), but we need to realize that a mockery is being made out of love.

I'm not exactly sure where the "destructives" are trying to take this. They are pushing these two further and further apart and then Bam! Miraculously, they'll get back together. And they expect us to believe this? After a month and a half of doing this to us, they expect us to still watch this train wreck?

If I was in this situation I wouldve given up by now. There is only so much that you can do. After a while, you just get tired of proving yourself over and over and over.

As many of yall know, I always sided w/ Riddhima before. I always thought that she was a little confused and that Armaan should give her time. But now, Im in shock that he hasnt killed her!

But what is killing me the most is that they have completely ruined Riddhima's character. And they have ruined love. Watching DMG is basically the same thing as making fun of love and frankly, its getting a bit too much for me to handle...I'll be the first to tell you that. Usually, I dont get involved in Indian tv shows because I think that they are a little over the top but I thought that DMG was different. Im sad to see that they have decided to become another run of the mill Indian television show.

Oh yeah and Im sorry that all of my thoughts are all over the place. I just finished watching today's episode and well, Im upset and angry. So I kinda let everything come out.

Your thoughts and comments are appreciated.

Guys! This was a rhetorical question! I wasnt asking if love is this hard...LOL! There are so many comments here actually answering the question! You guys are so funny!

Edited by brownbutt - 17 years ago

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Unfortunately...Love is harder than this...Trust me...What armaan and riddhima are going thru actually happens in real life..Two people love each other a lot..but circumstances just add up and they cant be together..

I have known friends who have been in similar situations..

Love aint easy at all...if nothing its more complicated...

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Posted: 17 years ago
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AWESOME POST!!!!! 👏 👏

I have to think and write..not frustrate and write.... will be back in a few...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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sweety, I dont know if it is hard or not, bt I certainly feel that it is really strange.. it does nt come soo easily, bt yet it is the most beautiful emotion any1 can go through
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Posted: 17 years ago
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😆 sorrrrrri i don't know anything abt love as i don't have such experience
i heard its really hard 👏 nice post
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: cha_iqbal

Unfortunately...Love is harder than this...Trust me...What armaan and riddhima are going thru actually happens in real life..Two people love each other a lot..but circumstances just add up and they cant be together..

I have known friends who have been in similar situations..

Love aint easy at all...if nothing its more complicated...

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100 percent with u on this.. all good ppl think alike!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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i wouldnt say tht love is not as hard as they r portraing in the show...but i would say tht all love birds go through some hard times in real life....if they both pass through tht hurdle and thier love survies then its a true love otherwise in todays world looking at ppl's moral going downhill day by day...love only lasts during happy times....i m not saying there is no true love in this world...i m saying tht ppl's point of view at feeling love and being in love is changed....for example, me and my bf are both in difeerent schools in different states..my friends were telling me to dump him as long distance relationship doesnt work most of the time and we both r young and could find somebody else....BUT apart all our problems we r still together and going strong...we do have our moments where aour ego clashes (same as A-R) but in real life u gotta figure out a way to settle ur ego for someone u love....we both dont see each other often sometimes months passes by and we just talk on the phone or chat but as someone has said tht love is hard and it hurts sometimes....specially in DMG it hurts most of the time... 😆 😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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guys, I too have friends who have been in similar situations.. like 2 of my friends hav been dating each other since high school, bt they r married 2 diff ppl right now jst coz they expected 2 much from each other..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Trust me!!!!
Love comes with a lotttttttttt of pain
and hurts even more than this mate!

But when u eventually get it,u forget every hurdle and every problem u've faced

Its makes your world go round
Love is worth all the hassle yaar!
Love is just beautiful!

Real life experience.we're talking here

and the good news is ,I've been with who I love for 10 long yrs

Isn't that amazing,so AR will make it 1000 episodes soon

Edited by hinanaziri - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I just realized that I have posted a similar topic now that I have read this one.
Anyways, I dont think this is love. I know a person who really liked this person who didnt even know that she existed and he had a gf. But this girl, unlike others in similar situations, never abused his gf to amuse herslef and she always used to say that if he is happy then she is happy.
And for me that is what love should be like. Not what they show us!
Edited by AngelTeen - 17 years ago

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