Suitcase mein Bhar lo "zimmedari", Chavan Saheb! - Page 4

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Badi der kar di aaj mehebaan aate aate.. we were missing you🤩😇

Hope all was well at your end!

Abhi thodi der mein apni pratikriya deti🤪

I'm fuming at virat today though!😡😂

All well all well. Had early work today 😆 next time I will inform you all Baba, Aaishappat 🤣

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Janki, hope you are doing well🤗

I haven't been replying to your posts because of my exams, but also due to the fact that Im so done with this show that I feel that I won't do justice to your brilliant analysis❤️

Do you remember your post when Virat wandered into Pakhi's room and I said that I will not throw chappals at him because it was not his intention, but that I would throw the chappal when she, taking cue from his actions, will barge into their room. Well, today is the day, she did not knock and barged in, in the room of a married man.

Here you go Virat: 🩴👞👟🥾🥿👠👡🩰👢

Missing your posts in general ❤️🤗🤗 I know we have signed up for something that can really be putting off at some point. That's the reason why I looked up the other versions before deciding to break my decade long hiatus from daily soaps. I still think the story has potential and to me, the visible grey in a character that has to be loveable is very intriguing. It can't be a writing flaw. It is by design. I am watching it to see if they will eventually show the growth in Virat or not. And of course, Sai is still LOVE ❤️

Let's see how many more weeks does it seem to keep me hooked. All the best for your exams if not done yet. Love you 💞❤️

Originally posted by: Nandini6

Amazing analysis Janki🤗

Was waiting for your post ...where were you? Hope everything is fine

Yes dear all well. Got busy with work 😃😂

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Hello, hope all well with you. Yes, we missed you and your analysis. 🤗

Oh yes dear, all well 🤗🤗

I felt Virat is basically a person who avoids confrontation except with his wife. In a way, it's only with her that he can express himself. But today, there are fewer excuses.

I feel they need more confrontations with each other to arrive at the exact feeling they are feeling. Both of them. No one else in between. It's always good to confront the better half. Also, a relationship should have the room for uncomfortable conversations. It is very essential to be able to grow. 😊

- his expression ..he knew he had her, when Sai's expression softened. She didn't even need to say it. Both are taking Ashwini's advice too seriously.

Oh yes, he didn't even wait for 'Ladki ko Haan bolna hoga toh wo Haan hi bolegi'. Seedha claimed space in her suitcase 😂😂😂

- his expression when Sai tried to speak. Almost like he's walking on egg shells around his Vahini and he was afraid Sai would crack the shells into pieces

- moment PP started flapping her mouth, he kept looking at Sai nervously. He knew PP was crossing her limits. He knew Sai would get provoked.

I understood him in the last scene. In fact, understood him in the entire episode although his response in the terrace conversation was disappointing to me as a viewer who wants him to rebuke this vile woman. But I understand his stand on the issue as of now. He is beginning to get irked and when he loses it, it could be the end of a lot of things for Pakhi ji. I think he's using restrain because of the family. He doesn't want his marriage to be blamed for Vahini's departure from the house and also he has this inexplicable moral responsibility of ensuring that his brother's wife is not made to feel like she's unwanted and can leave. They are egg shells, all around really. And venom-wali did exactly what he feared but Sai has stuck the hammer on his head and heart with 'mere Kuch Nahi lagte' 😄 bexhara! 🙊 Totally deserves the jalebi indigestion though.

- his expression when PP spoke so rudely about Samrat. The short time that he was there, I remember Samrat as a very sweet character..he is a loved person in the family. How could Virat not react? Or why was he slow to react?? This was unforgivable. He is able to manipulate Sai sadly, to go along him, am not saying it's right, but this is his brother. Even for his loved brother, he doesn't open his mouth. Even an objection, in a mild tone..but I was looking for something.

The thing is that it is unfair to fault him for that scene. Sai really did not allow him to react. I am sure Vahini's outburst was so surprising that he would take more than his usual few minutes to speak and it is fine if not everyone can give knee jerk reactions. But it was a big revelation that -- Vahini's mask was totally off. She doesn't even have the respect for his emotions for his brother, forget thinking of him as her husband. The question is: She doesn't know Samrat she says, na Shaadi as pehle na baad. She doesn't even want to know him. Toh Maharani sabse Susheel bahu hai kis bete ki? Why is she living in a house of an 'anjaan man' who means nothing to her and doing all the jaap of parivaar ka niyam and parvaah?

I think Virat got the point because he's already pointed out her doglapan on the issue during the Shivani Bua incident. He has already demoted her after his visit to her maika when she said these things subtly and today it was an open 'I am your imaginary wife, damnit'. He needed time to react but ab 'Virat sir mere Kuch Nahi Lagte ' is direct heart me close range bullet. 😔 Pata Nahi Banda kal ke scene mein cupboard as migraine wali balm na Nikal le for his heart 😂😂😂

- on the other hand, if we look at PP and the need to keep her in a good mood, the moment he refused the sightseeing, look at the PP's hysterical reaction, her rage when Virat told her, mujhe Sai ko samjhana hai, main samjhata hoon. Clearly telling her, 'mildly' to not go further.

I didn't find his main Sai ko samjha doonga mild. He was annoyed. I think he was adding something more to that response but it never came ... Because even PP was taken aback by his contorted face when he said that to her.

Today, I understood Sai completely. Her hurt came through, I hope to God, Virat redeems himself by achche se manaoing her.

I completely understood Sai's hurt. First she has to stay on without wanting to hear the nonsense from PP knowing what she's capable of spewing. That's why I think Virat needs to stop controlling her. He shouldn't have used the Vahini ki insult route to stop Sai. I believe when you know that two people don't like each other and one can provoke the other, why force the person to stay and be subjected to the provocation? Anyhow, I still think because she had their back to them she assumed he wasn't going to respond as usual and so she just reacted... but today he was actually beginning to speak and Sai has distracted him with her last jibe. I hope he can let it pass and make amends.

Me too, was not impressed with Pulkit's advice. Which part of the audience are they trying to pacify ? Clearly, people love Sai the way she is.

No idea. It's fine that they want a neutral guy to also tell Sai that the husband can't not have feelings for her but to tell her that she's a bachchi and so she needs to become a woman for the husband was a bit too much. The husband needs to be the man to her first.

So my parents are with me, I'm meeting them after a year, thanks to Covid. First I thank God I am able to spend time with them.

Lovely!!!!! Enjoy every moment. Much love and regards to them. It fills my heart with joy whenever I hear about family reunions. Just made me miss mine 💖💖💖💖💖

Now my mom has started watching Ghum with me.

Her comments today...

- terrace scene...why is she so weird, is she always like that.,😆

- Virat...why is he just keeping quiet! 🤔

- Sai - very good.what else does he expect her to do? 👍🏼

Your mom got it all right 👍🏼😆

To sign some paper he needs to take his zimmedari with him. Who is trying to give bahana now? 😆

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

Ok after rewatching epi closely that last part it felt like virat just wanna send bhabhi away from the room asap because he sensed it that his baiko was turning into tornado mode so stop her he know he need to send pakhi out he was just hmming whatever pakhi says without attention when he realised about the suitcase thing before he replied his toofan mail strike back and he did understood that pakhi was deliberately trying to do all this to make sai more angry his facial expressions were evident , bhabhi , when he denied his bhabhi about sightseeing her reaction was so violent and virat immediately registered it but sai ka woh tip just made her say like at that time situation aysa tha , but last line by sai telling virat meant nothing for her was needed for Virat to buckle himself up to be more stern and draw a line he got it jho bhi build up huva sab behgayi in that moment his expression kind of looked pained for me and pakhi was like she was smiling in victory she is really a devil but iam glad now usko grey seh black banarahi hai hopefully now they won't justify pakhi anymore

Onething I liked is virat first asked sai to keep her stuff in his bag then immediately said nahi meri stuff tumhari bag mein dalo , patanahi kyom but I really liked it and also when she asked him whether he will take her with him if he got a transfer kitna readily reply kiya janab ofcourse I will take u along

Onething is clear susheel bahu ki facade bahoot jalad uttaarnneh wala hai CN will see what kind of person she is

Virat is no interested in his 2 day yoga love any longer. Infact I feel he has even forgotten all about it and one day he will regret meeting this cheap woman. The way he was listening to her nonsense half heartedly was very evident. When Pakhi was blabbering about sightseeing he looked shocked and it was good he turned down her offer. And, Pakhi's reaction must have made him realise that her main aim is to roam with her brother in law instead of searching for her husband. Paapi's victory smile will soon take over in an angry screech when she will see Sai accompanying them.

I too liked how Virat asked Sai to pack his clothes in her bag. That was cute.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Virat is no interested in his 2 day yoga love any longer. Infact I feel he has even forgotten all about it and one day he will regret meeting this cheap woman. The way he was listening to her nonsense half heartedly was very evident. When Pakhi was blabbering about sightseeing he looked shocked and it was good he turned down her offer. And, Pakhi's reaction must have made him realise that her main aim is to roam with her brother in law instead of searching for her husband. Paapi's victory smile will soon take over in an angry screech when she will see Sai accompanying them.

I too liked how Virat asked Sai to pack his clothes in her bag. That was cute.

I loved the way he corrected it telling nahi nahi meri stuff tumhari bag mein rakho

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

true virat got shocked seeing the mentality of pakhi , even sai was angry listening to it like who will talk like that yaar , pakhi she was doing all that drama to rileup sai and portray her in a bad light , but uski yeah chal flop huva hai because Virat now started to see what kind of woman pakhi is and he is really trying hard to maintain his calmness while dealing with pakhi because he know she will pull a stunt again agar kuch aysa waisa boldiya toh and automatically blame sairat especially sai peh akkeh girega which he don't want , but iam sure he will become a volcano soon

I loved the way he corrected it telling nahi nahi meri stuff tumhari bag mein rakho

But, sadly none of Chakram Niwasis can see her drama. Those who can see are unable to do anything. I hope one day someone gives her a tight slap across her cheeks. I hope it will be Virat who does the honors.

Originally posted by: yyyy

We are pretty much on the same page Janaki. I have noticed a pattern, when everyone is ok with Virat, I am disappointed and when everyone is blasting him I kind of understand his dilemma. I was disappointed with yesterday’s episode that I didn't post much. I was expecting him to do something more than want he did for the family but I feel we are expecting too much in a short time. Both need time to accept and realize their feelings.

I think we are all expecting a typical hero in him based on his introduction given to us and the lovey dovey understanding guy that he has been until Amey happened. But he comes across as a real human to me now. He is flawed, sometimes intentionally self-centered and definitely an escapist when it comes to picking some confrontations. But he won't compromise on his values. I think it's also beautiful that they are falling in love in a very real way. It's always filled with fights like these, insecurities, disappointments and even lack of trust at times. How can it come across as rosy. I viewed his actions after detaching my expectations from him and I could see where it was coming from. I couldn't really berate him for it but yes, I would have wanted him to rebuke PP during he terrace conversation but he was firm and detached, so fine.

One thing I might disagree with is, Virat got Sai easily. If they have reached a stage where Sai agrees so easily then it's because of Virat's efforts. While I am disappointed with few incidents like the alta incident and his outburst during Amey’s track, I cannot forget that he has been extremely patient with her during GC days, he has stood by her during the toughest times of her life and has showered her with care and attention which was not part of their deal. By making her result day special, taking her out for an outing, gifting her with something that makes her feel special, not eating when she is hungry, dropping her at college even if he is late to work and supporting her studies. These gestures have caused Sai to soften towards him. While Sai has a heart of gold, it's also true that her impulsive nature and her tongue in cheek explanation is not easy to deal with.

I know your stand on that one 😆 I still feel he has an ocean of patience for her. He definitely does. His own insecurity about the relationship doesn't take away any of his core emotions that he feels for her. But leaving every other external factor aside which they both face for each other, between the two of them it is Virat who has made their relationship complicated due to his assumptions that he could have controlled his heart. I see the Amey case as a turning point where he suddenly realised he would eventually face competition and he couldn't stand the thought of her actually having to look for 'pyaar, zarooratein and feelings' beyond him and then Aniket came along. But until that point, he did assume his "deal" wouldn't matter. He had never meant to let her go even when he offered that 'chali jaana' candy, we all know it. And since he is the one who has expectations without communicating anything directly, it is he who should work on getting her. Who else does she have, anyway? Didn't you see how she agreed to join him despite knowing that she would face a barrage of taunts eventually, beginning with Vahini. But she has trusted him once more to stand up.

There might be some reason why they are not showing Virat openly oppose Pakhi. I think they are planning to show a huge confrontation between Virat and Pakhi where we might see him erupt like a volcano burning their vaada.

I also agree. The Virat-Pakhi 1,47 hours wala yoga love face off will be one of the high points in the show. I don't think it can happen so suddenly. He will continue to be polite and courteous until she really triggers the eruptible magma inside his volcano.. I think it will also happen only after Sai actually leaves during the separation track, when Vahini's obsession and hopes will be at their peak and she will assume she can literally share his room just vacated by the 'wife'. So, I don't really mind this build up. It's actually a smart way of leading to that point. I don't think Virat is not registering the behaviour, but he does not want Samrat to face her question eventually, "So, in your absence your 'wife' was not even allowed to stay in your house?" And he knows her blackmail is very potent. She always has one suitcase packed to leave 😆 Pata nahi kaunsa suitcase leke jaane wali thi Ladakh.

Like I have been saying, Sai serves Jalebis just like her husband. She said he doesn't mean anything to her when the truth is something else. We might say it's her way of protecting her heart but by doing so she has invited problems for herself. It's registered in his head and it might add to his insecurities. There was one scene where he said Dont look for a yes in no. He might stop pursuing her the moment she says No even if she doesn't mean it.

I don't think he will stop pursuing her because he knows that she was provoked by PP. I also don't think she has invited problems for her. Yes, it hurt him but then he is the one who has to remove the bricks -- and he needs to acknowledge it first. Which is why I think his assumption that "it would be fine" to tell her to "umeed mat rakhna" but eventually have umeed makes it look like he has got her easy. He knows she has no one else to fall back on and he wants acknowledgment for it (which is fine) but he needs to clarify that she can give him that acknowledgment. The person who has placed the first barrier has to remove the barrier first , regardless of how many other barriers the recipient has placed after the first one.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

To sign some paper he needs to take his zimmedari with him. Who is trying to give bahana now? 😆

Now i also feel he was going reply to that girl's Q: "Ye kaun hai?" in the hospital with "Ye meri zimmedari hai" 🤣🤣 Sai would have banged the tiffin on his head ! 🤣No wonder he was so surprised when she introduced herself as "biwi"