Healing Chat Club - Page 19

Heyyy...this is such a nice place. I just discovered this CC and found it so amazing.👏

I am going through a lot of confusion and I thought of sharing it here.

I am in 11th standard and I have taken Science stream. I have so much to say, so much to ask but find no words....

I chose Science for 11th as I always liked Biology and wanted to study and do something in that field and didn't thought anything beyond that while making this decision.

Throughout the year I procrastinated a lot and never felt motivated to study much.

Now as this class is going to end soon I thought that I really need to join some coaching institute for the preparation of college entrance exam as I think I need proper guidance and institute for it. The other thought came in mind that as most people join those institutes from 11th onwards so joining in 12th will not be productive.

When I prepare for the final exams of this class I feel like I know nothing and totally unprepared for it. I always liked studies a lot but this year I feel like doing nothing not even studying. And then I feel like I will barely pass my exams for this year and that I wasted one year and did nothing.

And then comes another thought of changing my stream to something else ,something easier that Science.

I don't know if I want to study Science or Humanities. I don't know if I should change my stream to Humanities or I should join the coaching institute for the entrance exam of medical collages.

Its not that I don't like Humanities. I have always liked these two subjects a lot. But never thought of choosing Humanities as my career choice and now when I think about it I find myself clueless.

I don't know what I want to do.

All this is so confusing and I find myself thinking and thinking for hours and getting no answers and doing nothing.

Originally posted by: Raffaello

Yes I am broken within and trying to heal myself.Hopefully I will feel better.I dont want bitterness to overcome me

If you feel broken, that is fine. Just let the healing process begin. Let the light come within you. Find the reason of your main worry or problem and then create a circle of support. Environment makes a big difference. Just know healing may take weeks to years. As far study goes, keep an eye on removing process sugar and processed food. Start a journal as it may help your worries.

Originally posted by: Sparkling_starr

Heyyy...this is such a nice place. I just discovered this CC and found it so amazing.👏

I am going through a lot of confusion and I thought of sharing it here.

I am in 11th standard and I have taken Science stream. I have so much to say, so much to ask but find no words....

I chose Science for 11th as I always liked Biology and wanted to study and do something in that field and didn't thought anything beyond that while making this decision.

Throughout the year I procrastinated a lot and never felt motivated to study much.

Now as this class is going to end soon I thought that I really need to join some coaching institute for the preparation of college entrance exam as I think I need proper guidance and institute for it. The other thought came in mind that as most people join those institutes from 11th onwards so joining in 12th will not be productive.

When I prepare for the final exams of this class I feel like I know nothing and totally unprepared for it. I always liked studies a lot but this year I feel like doing nothing not even studying. And then I feel like I will barely pass my exams for this year and that I wasted one year and did nothing.

And then comes another thought of changing my stream to something else ,something easier that Science.

I don't know if I want to study Science or Humanities. I don't know if I should change my stream to Humanities or I should join the coaching institute for the entrance exam of medical collages.

Its not that I don't like Humanities. I have always liked these two subjects a lot. But never thought of choosing Humanities as my career choice and now when I think about it I find myself clueless.

I don't know what I want to do.

All this is so confusing and I find myself thinking and thinking for hours and getting no answers and doing nothing.

Hey SS! thank you so much joining and posting your feelings. It is completely normal to feel confused at 11th standard. It is also fine if you do not feel like studying. Maybe this is a sign to take a pause and ask yourself what are you future goals?

For example, I thought computer science would be my career but I hated it to the core so I changed to business but I did not liked the corporation world and now I have chosen psychology. I am asking myself what career in psychology interest me? I love Child Psychology and sports psychology. It really interest me how your brain react or behave after a trauma or physical injury. I have talking to people who have depression and I have noticed that everyone are take a shortcut and not everyone would like to work on their healing process and not everyone like to remove toxic people. So this tells me I do not like to invest time in becoming a therapist. Maybe Something else in psychology.

My main point is ask yourself what path will you choose if you get a degree in biology or humanities. Choose a degree that inspire you to learn more. Another passion I love is fashion designing, I simply love the new work and get tired seeing older patterns. Now ask yourself where do you see yourself in the next five years. If you like to go to medical school, then put your day and night into biology and the institute. Do no be let down if you need to take a break and then go back in. I took many years of break til I realized Psychology is for me. If you are planning to go to medical school, what area of doctor will be going in for? Make a plan today so you will have the focus.

I am also a mentor and coach, please feel free to ask any questions you have.

Hey Guy!

Let me know if anyone of you like to be WhatsApp Gupshup group? I can create one and we can share how our daily routine is going. It is more like a support group. I am only creating this for people who are going through a phase. please let me know.

I hope we can see how beautiful this life is. How beautiful this earth is.

Originally posted by: Bekind

Hey Guy!

Let me know if anyone of you like to be WhatsApp Gupshup group? I can create one and we can share how our daily routine is going. It is more like a support group. I am only creating this for people who are going through a phase. please let me know.

I hope we can see how beautiful this life is. How beautiful this earth is.

Originally posted by: priya185

you can add me

PM sent! thank you.

Originally posted by: Bekind

Hey SS! thank you so much joining and posting your feelings. It is completely normal to feel confused at 11th standard. It is also fine if you do not feel like studying. Maybe this is a sign to take a pause and ask yourself what are you future goals?

For example, I thought computer science would be my career but I hated it to the core so I changed to business but I did not liked the corporation world and now I have chosen psychology. I am asking myself what career in psychology interest me? I love Child Psychology and sports psychology. It really interest me how your brain react or behave after a trauma or physical injury. I have talking to people who have depression and I have noticed that everyone are take a shortcut and not everyone would like to work on their healing process and not everyone like to remove toxic people. So this tells me I do not like to invest time in becoming a therapist. Maybe Something else in psychology.

My main point is ask yourself what path will you choose if you get a degree in biology or humanities. Choose a degree that inspire you to learn more. Another passion I love is fashion designing, I simply love the new work and get tired seeing older patterns. Now ask yourself where do you see yourself in the next five years. If you like to go to medical school, then put your day and night into biology and the institute. Do no be let down if you need to take a break and then go back in. I took many years of break til I realized Psychology is for me. If you are planning to go to medical school, what area of doctor will be going in for? Make a plan today so you will have the focus.

I am also a mentor and coach, please feel free to ask any questions you have.

Thank you so much for such amazing advice and your words really helped me clear my mind.👍🏼

Originally posted by: Bekind

Hey Guy!

Let me know if anyone of you like to be WhatsApp Gupshup group? I can create one and we can share how our daily routine is going. It is more like a support group. I am only creating this for people who are going through a phase. please let me know.

I hope we can see how beautiful this life is. How beautiful this earth is.

This is such a nice idea. I will like to join too. You can add me.

Originally posted by: Sparkling_starr

Thank you so much for such amazing advice and your words really helped me clear my mind.👍🏼

I am so glad to hear that. That is my goal, to help people. This made my day, and I pray I could help more and more people. Your feedback has really motivated me. Thank you.👍🏼⭐️

Hi Everyone,

I can see how WhatsApp group will not be a great idea. I want to ensure everyone safety is secured. I will try to build another way to communicate. At the end of the day I like to ensure we are here for each other as a family.