Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 87

Originally posted by: Malika1993.06

Hiii Nima 🤗

Yeah Even I'm waiting when Ani finds out about Bondita

I'm eagerly waiting for tomorrow's episode to come but my bad luck that voot is not available in my country 😒

Yeah.. ani needs to know this asap.. till then poor Bon would be suffer alone😒😒

VOOT is not available in my country too.. it seems we are dependent on written updates 😆

Originally posted by: nims23

Yeah.. ani needs to know this asap.. till then poor Bon would be suffer alone😒😒

VOOT is not available in my country too.. it seems we are dependent on written updates 😆

😆🤗

Originally posted by: Rudhitafan

Shaheen🤗

I was not at all in mood to come to the forum these days that too when it's one of the most important tracks😳

Will pm you🤗

Thank you so much for sharing this post 👍🏼

I think I read some comments in insta where many have doubts regarding why such a function now and why bon hasn't applied sindoor etc. ...

So I thought if sharing somethings that I know 😳

I think you might also know shaheen but still thought of sharing such things for my other behenas who don't know this😃

I think the upcoming function is bon's first period celebration....

In some parts of India and some regions of kerala , family celebrates girls' first periods.....here it was believed to be equivalent to girls first marriage......hence after 4th day of periods, girl will be bathed in haldi water , milk etc....and she will be given lots of sweets , gifts, jewelleries, etc. ...

It's like celebrating and announcing to the whole world that our girl has finally become a woman......during the period days girls are prevented from applying Prasad or chandan from temples...... (tika)

So if the sindoor is from temples , girls are prevented from applying it on the first 4 days of their periods.....

Now coming to my personal opinion, here in our places even we girls avoid applying Prasad from temple during these days....but for me it was like quite natural because I apply these Prasad very rarely on any normal day soooo🤣🤣...it was like okay like my usual routine for me🤣🤣....I have wondered about these celebrations on first periods ....I have heard such things happened to both my grand moms😆....they told me that they were asked to sit in a separate room away from all other rooms.....they were given foods in separate plates.....that too special food.....they would not go to schools on those days etc 😭😭. ..but both my grand moms were fortunately lucky that they had lovely moms and they were taken care of by them and never allowed to sleep on floor etc....as per the customs during those days....but still i can't tolerate how they were denied to school during those five days😡...I can't accept it.....my mom's mom was very brilliant in studies.... (and she was the first woman employer and a teacher by profession from our family.....)but she was very upset because she wasn't allowed to go to school during those days....since the male members took the decision.....she skipped lot of portions due to this....her father was away from her during all those years due to his profession as a journalist but later he fought with the family and made sure all his 5 daughters including her can attend the school during those days too.....

Thank God now not such things aren't there atleast in our family....but the sad truth is even in this 21st century , there still exists such mentality😭...we are really lucky we have no restictions at all.....I'm lucky I have a father who buys everything for me during these days even before my mother knows....I have a grandfather who gets teary eyed seeing my pain❤️......a grandma who used to feed me food with their hands and above all a lovely mom who taught me that these are the five days that reminds us what we are capable of that no other men can ever get. ....it's not about tolerating our pains. ...it's about how we are capable of achieving all things even during those days.....

I personally don't have interest in celebrating the 1stperiods as a grand function and all since I feel parents should take care of her well and more than that educate her well regarding it more than investing time in fuction. ...it's just my personal opinion that's all😉...but I really enjoyed getting lot of gifts from my parents and grand parents...🤣🤣

So that's all for the day.....don't know where I started ....sorry for the long rant....🤣

Will pm you 🤗....

Krish ❤️❤️🤗

Sooooooooo happppyyyyyy to seeeeeeee you here ❤️😳 damn ❤️❤️

+100000000000 ❤️

In South part especially in our side those practice still exist... though the so called rituals aren't fully followed but still partially it do exist.!

Like you said we don't keep that prasad because we are said so and some myths are still followed.!

My heart goes for those women's who went through so much in those era's in the name of rituals

Lol 🤣 but that phase is also good partially as we are pampered aswell 🤪🤣 sweets, new dress and lots of fancy items and jewellery 🤪

Originally posted by: Rudhitafan

Where are all my behenas😭

When I finally come here nobody is here?🥺

I'm here ❤️🤗

Just gave a visit and saw your post 🤪 got totally excited ❤️

Welcome back my behena ❤️

Originally posted by: Rudhitafan

Hi mayura😊

I think it's fuction that is conducted after the first periods.....it's like a celebration.....girl will be bathed in haldi water etc. ...she will be given gifts, sweets etc... 😃

Hi ..

Is this ritual conducted in West Bengal as well? As far I know it’s celebrate in southern part of India and maybe north east side .. just curious

Originally posted by: nims23

Hi Mayura🤗

Which BTS you girls talking about?

Nimi ❤️🤗

It's a BTS of ani and bon in pooja dress ❤️

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Nimi ❤️🤗

It's a BTS of ani and bon in pooja dress ❤️

Bon is not wearing a simple saree she is still adorned with things , I guess ani knows about her and is taking care of her fighting for her

Originally posted by: Rudhitafan

Hi mayura😊

I think it's fuction that is conducted after the first periods.....it's like a celebration.....girl will be bathed in haldi water etc. ...she will be given gifts, sweets etc... 😃

Thank you krishna🤗

I had no idea about thus ritual

Thanks for sharing this beautiful piece of information👍🏼

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Nimi ❤️🤗

It's a BTS of ani and bon in pooja dress ❤️

Lalzu🤗❤️ missed you dear 🤗

I haven’t seen those pics.. now I wonder what celebration it could be? Maybe Mayura’s prediction is right🤔

Originally posted by: nims23

Hi Mayura🤗

Which BTS you girls talking about?

https://www.instagram.com/p/CKwWsYrB2TU/?igshid=1pdb2kudhiqar

This one