Originally posted by: AreYaar
This. So much. Moments like these really make it hit home just how young and at risk she is of falling into problematic situations. She's full of bluster and confidence beyond her age in some ways because of the kind of life she's lived.....but otherwise she's still a kid with no stability in her life. Education was going to be her ticket to an independent life....and that got snatched away from her when she was forced into marriage. Now she can't go back to the village and can't really survive in the city without support currently because so many pitfalls await her. This is what makes her situation so heartbreaking.
Saw the episode where her mom and dadda comes to meet herš That scene really got to me:( Especially the part when they both leave and she slides down and breaks down.
After this Its got increasingly impossible for her now, as you said now she canāt go back to the village too.
Matlab I get on one level why the show will play up her bechaargi for TRPs but that aside, the story has genuinely established both Imlie and Adi's helplessness in a convincing manner. It doesn't feel forced. Both of them are stuck in a bad situation with no clear answers without hurting their loved ones badly.
So much agree to this they have managed to convincingly establish the helplessness of both of them. They slowly built it up from not a big deal to an increasingly messy and impossible situation.
And this is all seperate from however Adi-Imlie's feelings for each other will even develop....usse pehle hi bahut complicated situation hai. Once love and those kind of emotions enter the equation, this will become even more complex for both of them.
I am wondering the same, how is this going to be played out.It just feels so complex at present. They have really pleasantly surprised at so many points till now.
It's easy to say that Adi should just accept the marriage seeing Imlie's situation where she's got no other choices left....it would be the kind sacrificial thing to do to fix the life of a girl with a promising future. But the fact remains that it won't be fair to Adi either to expect him to go along with something simply because it was thrust upon him. It's easier said than done for a guy who has nothing in common with this girl whom he mainly thinks of as a jhalli kid to now accept her as his wife. His vision of a wife has been Malini for a long time....age-wise, city-background wise, she matches his sensibilities as he sees them. And then on top of that, he believes himself to be totally in love with her.....so with all that in mind, how can he bring himself to accept Imlie simply because her situation is so bad? This is why he keeps trying to find workable alternatives which would still help her get an education and a job without her being attached to him. But destiny has other plans.
So much agree with this. Both of them has continuously tried finding a solution to it but every time they meet a dead end. Adi actually told the truth to Malini, but she was not able to handle it. He tried sending her back to Pagdandiya but that did not work out, Imlie told him she is his wife and will get her haq but again the situation completely turned and finally when he again tried saying during marriage Imlie stopped him. It really is destiny at play!
Forum mein people keep saying, why doesn't Adi just tell the truth to everyone and get it over with? lol but point is, he did try.....it didn't work out too well and since then both him and Imlie hesitate to tell anyone....now the lie will get really big before it gets revealed....and ultimately the damage will be far greater with time. It's not like the moment Adi reveals the truth, he will make a clear choice b/w Malini and Imlie and that will be it.....lol the truth being revealed will bring a whole new set of reactions from everyone attached to them. For the purpose of the story, the lie has to be dragged out for Adi-Imlie to get time to bond and fully fall for each other I guess. Uske baad hi reveal karenge kuch to start a new set of drama.....lol
Lol its not easy anymore to just tell the truth and get it over with. Too many people are now entangled and its not a simple choice anymore.
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