Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 4. - Page 14

Originally posted by: livelytanu

Loved Sai in today's episode. Uff. Aisi honi chahiye FL.

Loved Emon in Bengali version and loving Sai in Hindi version.

IDC if anyone says Sai should tone down her voice and all. Sai is like that. And she will not change. Love her with her flaws.

I wish I had such guts 😆 to talk to elders in that tone is 😏😏😏

I loved the episode today.

It is fun to watch a female lead who doesn't try to please all the time.

And she will get into trouble too I guess.

Her retort at Ninad though well deserved could have been more respectful. If only for Virat's sake, his father is important to him, however he is.

Plus, it's a free pass for the family to berate her.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

I wish I had such guts 😆 to talk to elders in that tone is 😏😏😏

I dont have the guts either. That's why I appreciate her honesty and integrity. Calling a spade a spade is all that she did, not for her own selfishness or rough attitude but bec of the attitude of her elders.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I dont have the guts either. That's why I appreciate her honesty and integrity. Calling a spade a spade is all that she did, not for her own selfishness or rough attitude but bec of the attitude of her elders.

I do talk back.. But not like her I would be dead by now if I did 😆

Originally posted by: yyyy

I still stand by what I said in the beginning.Sai should watch her tone.No one is asking Sai not to speak or take a stand for what she thinks is right . I personally believe the way we present our thoughts makes a huge difference. Right think said in the wrong way can go ignored .

When you say something in the firm tone it has more effect on others than saying the same thing with rudeness. Rudeness can provoke other person and can deviate the discussion and that’s what happened today . The fact that Ninad didn’t support his sister got overshadowed by Sai’s rudeness . The whole discussion turned into something else .

I don’t believe in stopping to other people level to prove a point hence I expect Sai to watch her tone .Ninad is her FIL and elder to her so keeping that in mind Sai could have phrased better . Atleast for her husband she could have toned down .

I agree. What is Sai’s objective - to make Ninad listen & do the right thing or to put down Ninad? I believe it is the former. She has a better chance of doing that by being firm/assertive while maintaining basic politeness. When we present a sensible idea in a rude or belittling way we cause the other person to become defensive immediately even before they process the idea, so the idea is lost on them.

Secondly this is an Indian family. Whether conservative or modern, respect for elders & respect for the relation (parent, aunt, bhabhi etc) regardless of whether the elder is a good or bad person, is a core value. Even with a bad saas, the bahu may disobey her but not call her names or tell her “shutup”.

That’s a line that Sai sometimes crosses. Right from the beginning, when she spoke to the ACP, her father’s boss, a police officer, unbelievably rudely. If u believed your father’s boss was not being fair to him, would u go up to him & speak to him like that?

Originally posted by: prs_725

or if anything, i think Virat will see that Sai CAN flirt, like she's not a kid. She understands the relation and flirting etc he will see a diff side of Sai, which i think im excited for.

I don’t like this idea of using flirting to trap a man. As a very young girl who has moreover been eve-teased, stalked & sexually harrassed, it is strange that she shd be using the “femme fatale” tactic to trap Amay.

Originally posted by: Jiss555

for me todays high light was sai shutting ninaad up.how ninaad was taunting sai during that chilli masala grinding fiasco. sai gave him back as he truly deserves. You are right he is such a 🤬

Exactly Sai gave respect to her old sasurji Ninad but in return she was treated like a beggar or an animal why she needs to takk sweetly to him why as a man he does not know how to treat a woman.Go Sai go you need to teach all Chavan a lesson hope the sulky monotonous woman turn is coming up, along with Sonali and TMK.

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yep i too agree age shouldnt be the factor to give respect.i still remember ninaads pug like smiling face upon seeing an 18 year old girl in pain.

so i am 100 percent with sai.give respect and earn it or else be ready to be insulted by our pataka sai❤️

So by simple mathematics I had established that Ash should be 46-47.

Now if Shivani is younger than her say 45 or even if she is older than her say 50

Then Amey as per Kaku bf half her age

Amey will be younger than ACP Virat Chavan.

What if Sai says it in front of Virat when Amey comes home while she is fake dliarting with Amey.

BTW, why is Mr. Zimmedaar Chavan angry and jealous if HIS ZIMMEDARI is flirting with Amey.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

I do talk back.. But not like her I would be dead by now if I did 😆

That's my point exactly. I talk back sometimes but obviously not like sai. Bec our elders r probably much better than kaku. So whether I like it or not I filter out my responses plus , keep quiet a lot of times to avoid confrontations. What to do with people like kaku ? Is this lady any good with ppl who respect her ? Like ashwini ? But even if ashwini was like sai she wud be a loser bec unless the husband is in support of his wife (which sai has in form of virat ) , she holds no power over anyone or anything in her sasural.

They taunt her over her financial status, her education , her parents , literally everything . I understand virat s position also. He asked sai to consider it a challenge , to win his family's heart. Fine. Ashwini was also right . Sai cud be more polite (like she was on her first day of college ) but virat must explain a thing to his family also. May be , try to know what exactly do they expect from sai.