BB4 Tamil: Discussion- Week 13 - Thread 2| 3rd DT Warning ! Pg. 1 - Page 46

Originally posted by: krithika2012

Hypocrite Aari has always been intolerant of any one's criticism. Even last week som's criticism of coffee he couldnt take.

The amount of shouting and screaming he does, scares the other contestant away. Even if they come back with valid points, he screams and shuts down( he isnt the loudest, only the second loudest) others.

It took all these weeks for Rio to finally stand upto aari's bullying.

After Rio raised the point today is when I realized why Aari doesnt mingle with others. If he plays with others and mingles then he cant portray as if he is cornered.

At the end of the day, hypocrite aari wants to portray himself as saint.

He shuts off people's criticism by attacking them - today it was Rio, earlier it was Som.

Till date I just thought he was hypocrite but now realizing how he has worked in this season, he has hit rock bottom in terms of personality and ethics.

Rio-Som the good people,were bullying-mocking sanam-anitha,during one of arguments,som-rio-ramesh were disrespectful to sanam-anitha,watch their convos after each fight they had with sanam-anitha

Som made many insensitive jokes,one of which was keeping cauliflower cut in nisha's head

Why do you think their jokes are not telecasted?Even in unseen they dont have it

Have mocked aari continously

Aari has his own flaws,but he's still above the rest Male contestants in terms of personality and ethics

Has kept respect even while fighting

No insensitive jokes

He has backbited,but not mocked like other HM's

Some male contestants when provoked a little,have gone to extent of breaking glass,battery while aari still hasnt done anything so far

Yday was full of fight till last moment!

Its really irritating to see such fight after family visit

And from unseen most of the opinions they kept is cos of the feedback from families

Rio did loose his cool cos of aari's accusation of safe play

The first fight was funny,both bala and aari "nee andha thapu panuna,indha thapu panuna"was laugh worthy..

Bala interrupted aari during nomination,aari fought,ramya quiet

Aari interrupting bala during nomination,ramya says not to interfere,neutral?

Aari's question to rio was right,rio's nomination reason were like nominating for eviction not for WP,He accepted gabi's and this is 2nd time rio's continously nominating him after archana's eviction,in between when asked rio said aari didnt play with others in freeze task and he didnt see😆in unseen and seen 2-3 places aari was there with rio in freeze moment,apart from what aari said he played with shivani,ajeedh...from episodes he was with gabi(mirror venum),som(fast forward),rio(kitchen freeze)

Rest point about not taking criticism about aari is right,he had a point there and made some good points

Now jail time:That was one serious fightBala got hurt by somberi word,aari said in only 2-3 times but bala repeatedly shoutinh somberi and generalising it👎🏼This is where he lost and aari gained

Bala himself said he does least work last weekend,then why jump up and down for that word and saying "ulaipu",he discredited past winners,sanam's pagaent and talks about ulaipu when it comes to him

Kova vandha yepdinalum pesra bala,he needs to change that attitude!

Aari said sorry but bala forgot pola!

There's little continuation in unseen,bala-aari already had a tiff before going to jail,their jail fight was 3rd one

Bala asks ajeedh what he spoke in jail,as he couldnt remember few things and ajeedh said he did let words

HM's still not able to break aari's strategy and instead they are going to make him get some sympathy votes..

Why none go against bala is simple,he humiliates and disrespects them,and that to max,sanam faced it,archana-rio too and now aari,the difference here aari is cool and he even said vachiko(bala's standard dialogue)

Bala needs anger management!

Now aari,its only 20 days..he should just enjoy and leave the house now instead of being serious,should accept criticism

Originally posted by: rosel

Can you explain how?

Rio-Som the good people,were bullying-mocking sanam-anitha,during one of arguments,som-rio-ramesh were disrespectful to sanam-anitha,watch their convos after each fight they had with sanam-anitha

Som made many insensitive jokes,one of which was keeping cauliflower cut in nisha's head

Why do you think their jokes are not telecasted?Even in unseen they dont have it

Have mocked aari continously

Aari has his own flaws,but he's still above the rest Male contestants in terms of personality and ethics

Has kept respect even while fighting

No insensitive jokes

He has backbited,but not mocked like other HM's

Some male contestants when provoked a little,have gone to extent of breaking glass,battery while aari still hasnt done anything so far

Disagree that Aari is above other males in that house. Others flaws don’t need to be brought in to highlight Aari’s goodness. This is exactly what is Aari is doing in the show. He doesn’t tease as he is a serious person. Teasing is not the only way to belittle other ppl. He has one flaw that makes it difficult for other ppl around him - Setting very high standards for the rest and imposing his perspective and expects a certain behaviour from others. Anybody that is not to his standard are unfair, somberi, safe game players.

Coming to Som and Rio, they would have stopped if Nisha objected. They don’t joke like that with Ramya. Nisha should set boundaries. Also, Our media has conditioned bodyshaming as joke which should be stopped. Despite the teasing, the females in the house still seem to prefer Rio or Som than Aari. They are more easy to be around.

I am really confused about SM reaction - blaming Ramya in Aari-Bala issues.. They are saying Ramya always stops Aari but not Bala.. She didn't do that in yesterday's episode or today's promo.. During the nominations, it looked like she was about to stop Bala's interference when Aari was listing his reasons ...but Som told Bala to let Aari finish. And since it happened, during Bala's turn, she told Aari.. I don't see anything wrong here..

Even later in the episode, she tried to break the argument.. she didn't say anything against Aari. No one else in the house was doing anything to stop them either.. so why only Ramya is blamed??

Originally posted by: Shravya1

I am really confused about SM reaction - blaming Ramya in Aari-Bala issues.. They are saying Ramya always stops Aari but not Bala.. She didn't do that in yesterday's episode or today's promo.. During the nominations, it looked like she was about to stop Bala's interference when Aari was listing his reasons ...but Som told Bala to let Aari finish. And since it happened, during Bala's turn, she told Aari.. I don't see anything wrong here..

Even later in the episode, she tried to break the argument.. she didn't say anything against Aari. No one else in the house was doing anything to stop them either.. so why only Ramya is blamed??

Don’t you know, everyone else is wrong except Aari in SM. Thaliavan and our Bhagavan is best thing that human race has chanced upon 😉😉

Ari mental stamina is as good as physical stamina. Chumma solla kudathu, excellent play.

Katharal is as expected when it is known someone is ruling the roost. Satham Pathala, expecting more katharals 🥳. Very difficult to get into correct/wrong in this episode. All were correct and wrong, how they handled the situation is what I see.

Originally posted by: InduD

Disagree that Aari is above other males in that house. Others flaws don’t need to be brought in to highlight Aari’s goodness. This is exactly what is Aari is doing in the show. He doesn’t tease as he is a serious person. Teasing is not the only way to belittle other ppl. He has one flaw that makes it difficult for other ppl around him - Setting very high standards for the rest and imposing his perspective and expects a certain behaviour from others. Anybody that is not to his standard are unfair, somberi, safe game players.

Coming to Som and Rio, they would have stopped if Nisha objected. They don’t joke like that with Ramya. Nisha should set boundaries. Also, Our media has conditioned bodyshaming as joke which should be stopped. Despite the teasing, the females in the house still seem to prefer Rio or Som than Aari. They are more easy to be around.

Am not talking about som-rio teasing nisha,that's an entire different topic,am talking about how they treated sanam-anitha,whom they didnt get along with

Ramya gives it back if she doesnt like getting teased

Man should know boundaries as well interms of teasing,nisha at places was hurt despite that they continued to tease!

That's because they see aari as competitor,anitha-sanam-suchi didnt prefer som-rio?Why?

Its the same standard which he himself follows,he doesnt impose just expects it and judges them based on that,like others who have different parameters of judgement he has his own,nothing wrong

Originally posted by: Shravya1

I am really confused about SM reaction - blaming Ramya in Aari-Bala issues.. They are saying Ramya always stops Aari but not Bala.. She didn't do that in yesterday's episode or today's promo.. During the nominations, it looked like she was about to stop Bala's interference when Aari was listing his reasons ...but Som told Bala to let Aari finish. And since it happened, during Bala's turn, she told Aari.. I don't see anything wrong here..

Even later in the episode, she tried to break the argument.. she didn't say anything against Aari. No one else in the house was doing anything to stop them either.. so why only Ramya is blamed??

Yday she clearly stopped aari first itself when bala was talking,where was the energy when bala interfered aari?Idhae effort potu bala'va stop panirklam'la

Originally posted by: goldiesif

Ari mental stamina is as good as physical stamina. Chumma solla kudathu, excellent play.

Katharal is as expected when it is known someone is ruling the roost. Satham Pathala, expecting more katharals 🥳. Very difficult to get into correct/wrong in this episode. All were correct and wrong, how they handled the situation is what I see.

Originally posted by: rosel

Yday was full of fight till last moment!

Its really irritating to see such fight after family visit

And from unseen most of the opinions they kept is cos of the feedback from families

Rio did loose his cool cos of aari's accusation of safe play

The first fight was funny,both bala and aari "nee andha thapu panuna,indha thapu panuna"was laugh worthy..

Bala interrupted aari during nomination,aari fought,ramya quiet

Aari interrupting bala during nomination,ramya says not to interfere,neutral?

Aari's question to rio was right,rio's nomination reason were like nominating for eviction not for WP,He accepted gabi's and this is 2nd time rio's continously nominating him after archana's eviction,in between when asked rio said aari didnt play with others in freeze task and he didnt see😆in unseen and seen 2-3 places aari was there with rio in freeze moment,apart from what aari said he played with shivani,ajeedh...from episodes he was with gabi(mirror venum),som(fast forward),rio(kitchen freeze)

Rest point about not taking criticism about aari is right,he had a point there and made some good points

Now jail time:That was one serious fightBala got hurt by somberi word,aari said in only 2-3 times but bala repeatedly shoutinh somberi and generalising it👎🏼This is where he lost and aari gained

Bala himself said he does least work last weekend,then why jump up and down for that word and saying "ulaipu",he discredited past winners,sanam's pagaent and talks about ulaipu when it comes to him

Kova vandha yepdinalum pesra bala,he needs to change that attitude!

Aari said sorry but bala forgot pola!

There's little continuation in unseen,bala-aari already had a tiff before going to jail,their jail fight was 3rd one

Bala asks ajeedh what he spoke in jail,as he couldnt remember few things and ajeedh said he did let words

HM's still not able to break aari's strategy and instead they are going to make him get some sympathy votes..

Why none go against bala is simple,he humiliates and disrespects them,and that to max,sanam faced it,archana-rio too and now aari,the difference here aari is cool and he even said vachiko(bala's standard dialogue)

Bala needs anger management!

Now aari,its only 20 days..he should just enjoy and leave the house now instead of being serious,should accept criticism

This is all spot on, and what I wanted to say yesterday too but refrained.

If we believe Bala was hurt by that somberi word, then we must be fools. Since the beginning of the week he has been telling Aari to put volunteers in the cleaning team, he won’t do more than he normally does no matter how less people are in the house. He told Aajeedh to go inform the captain that he won’t do any work, until Aari himself came and spoke logically to him. Are we to believe the same guy who said adjustment, dubaboor, tharuthalai, bekku, muttaal, etc is now suddenly hurt by “somberi”? And that too a word Aari said once but then said he takes it back. But Bala still comes outside from jail and says again “enn kitta manippu kellu”. Ennennavo try panraan 👎🏼

When Anitha was nominating Bala 2 weeks back the exact same scenario as yesterday happened. Bala kept interrupting her nomination process, so she said this is my turn, no one can interrupt. Appo, while Bala was speaking and Anitha said something in between, Neutral Ramya never corrected her saying she only told not to interrupt. Oru vellai Aari panna mattum thaan athu thappo?

I saw some comments saying Aari was registering 3-4 times that because of him only Anitha got eliminated. I watched the episode and got confused 😕 He speaks about how Rio/Bala unfairly nominated Anitha as examples, and also cited how Rio said Anitha was wrong but is now repeating the same behaviour. Enakku athulla “Antitha enn kooda sandai potta naala thaan veliya ponaanga” ndu sonna maathiri engaiyum theriyala.

Since the beginning of time Rio has been using vague reasons for WP, and turns it more into an elimination nomination process. After the nomination process is over and someone asks to clarify only he will pin point with exact reasons he meant what made something boring for him. Aari knows that Rio is not able to place statements correctly athunaala avarum thuruvi thuruvi kekkuraar. I agree that he needn’t cross question Rio so much, but there is a stark difference in how he does it and how Bala does it. At least Aari said I “respect your opinion but I won’t accept it”. Athukku mella Rio shouldn’t force him to agree to that opinion. But Bala will break all hell loose while Aari is speaking itself.

Aari needn’t play this game so rigidly, and should accept criticism for its face value. Previously with Sanam and Anitha he didn’t question them too much when they made comments about him, maybe because they knew what points to exactly lead with. But with the other contestants, they are too camera conscious and try to be as diplomatic as possible. Athoda avarum vittudanum. He shouldn’t keep asking “so you are saying there aren’t others more boring than me”. Let that be discussed in the weekend episode if necessary, but he needn’t force people to answer that.