virat - aaba comparison - Page 2

I felt different not uncomfortable

But they have shown in proper proportion

Virat said sai doesn't like me but she trusts me a lot otherwise she wouldn't have come to me when she heard about results

It happens with most of girls that they trust their father to that level that if he is saying something they will blindly believes

But they want sai to develop that kind of trust in Virat

I loved they have shown this respect thing instead of constant falling catching and holding things

Attraction - respect - friends - love

I don't think there is any comparison between them.

Virat has said that he can't take her father's place in her life and I don't think Sai would want that either.

She has this void inside her since her Abba died and here Virat is trying to fill that with his care and affection and being someone who treats her how she was used to be treated by her father but not being her father.

He was so eager to know what she likes so that he could give the party her Abba would have given her, that was him not trying to take her abba's place that was him trying to make her feel that she has someone who is willing to go any extent for her.

Sai would never see Virat as her father figure, she can't do that. And vice versa. Virat can't see Sai as his child.

And in today's episode when she said that "you give blessings how Abba used to" she didn't mean litterally. I think what she meant was his words. He said that she will become the best doctor in the world. Last night when they were talking on the bed she had said that she would have believed what virat said if that was her father. Because Sai trust her father the most and here when Virat blessed her that she will become the best doctor he showed his trust on her. He is sure that his Sai is going to be the best doctor, like how her father would have said, even her father is sure that she will be the best doctor.

Thank you for replies guys

my personal preference is sai - ashwini to have a strong parent-child bond to fill that void in sai's life. I really liked how she tried to make sai understand she was throwing unnecessary tantrum today. I want virat/sai to do something like husband wife. May be take her shopping or even a honeymoon (i know its not possible) but still doing pati-patni stuff. No need of physical/romantic situations. But normal stuff that husband wives do.

Here is how I see it. It's generally said that girls wish for a man who is like their father, because of the love, care and protectiveness a father shows for their daughter, is sort of the treatment a woman dreams her future partner would also provide her with. In sai's case, she sees so many qualities of her father that she loved in virat. She at times feels the level of comfort and trust with virat that she would feel with her father. It is completely normal for a girl, especially one like sai who had no family except her father who pampered her, to seek those same qualities her father had in the next closest male figure in her life. Virat provides her the same protection, care, encouragement and support to fulfill her dreams that her father always has, and the fact that she has lost her father, it is a great relief for her that her now husband/ guardian fulfills those same emotional needs that her father did.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

I somehow don't feel uncomfortable about their relationship. If you have time, please read Janki's analysis of that dynamics.

Speaking from a purely psychological point (I am not from the field of psychology, I just remembered reading a lot on the subject to write one essay about how we are subconsciously affected by parenting when we choose our life partners. So anyone from the field, feel free to correct me). So yeah, based on what I read(and remember), women, especially those who have had a great childhood and are basically daddy's princesses, tend to look for the qualities their fathers had, in their husband. Which, I think is what Sai is unconsciously doing. She is looking for her father's attributes in Virat, which is in abundance, tbh. She is not looking for the father himself, but only an image which she can cling onto.

And Virat, who probably still feels guilty with what happened to KJ, is just going with the flow for the time being.

I really don't get the brotherly/father- daughter vibes from them....I mean tucking the hair, finger on your lips, eyeing the sinhgad fort, peeking between pillows, missing the other at night makes it impossible for me to get those vibes from them😆

You know in ITV this deal wali shaadi pretty common but it almost always start with misunderstanding and audiences know that when the misunderstandings are cleared and hate subsides, love will prevail. The formula is simple, hate, drunk romance, misunderstanding cleared, friendship (sometimes skipped), romance, love.

But their marriage is of different kind. There is no major misunderstanding and they don't hate each other, they are friendly yet not friends, Virat is attracted yet it has not been too romanticised. Sai is jealous but there are various reasons to that.

On the front, they are a deal wali couple, but like if you have to give a name to their relationship, it's kind of difficult. There is love, respect impeccable trust, jealousy, attraction, however they are not yet a romantic pairing. It's a slowburn clearly.

@bold same! On the contrary I am enjoying this slow and organic progress of their relationship. I don't want it to become all insta lovey😆

BG and all that can come in its own time for now I am just happy that we are getting scenes that are meaningful with leads that talk (it's a big deal in ITV world 😆) and not pointless slip and fall scenes which is inevitable of course given that we have already had two😆

Originally posted by: _Khaleesi_

Thank you for replies guys

my personal preference is sai - ashwini to have a strong parent-child bond to fill that void in sai's life. I really liked how she tried to make sai understand she was throwing unnecessary tantrum today. I want virat/sai to do something like husband wife. May be take her shopping or even a honeymoon (i know its not possible) but still doing pati-patni stuff. No need of physical/romantic situations. But normal stuff that husband wives do.

I think we'll get there soon if today's episode is anything to go by 😆