How do you feel about Sai's tantrums today? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Bana

Exactly!! She used to be a princess but not a brat. The CVs hv been showing her up as more immature, childish & unpredictable in the last few epis, maybe to contrast with Pakhi or to show Virat’s indulgent affection. They are overdoing it - any more of this... and when Virat makes a romantic overture it will look eww coz we will get used to seeing Sai as a kid & Virat as her guardian.

My opinions are very different.

I don't know i felt she has always been like this since the beginning. That's why I was pleasantly surprised when she was so composed while Virat just lost it.

Once she understands she is in the wrong she tones it down...just like how she was silent when the family was taunting her. Today as well, she was impulsive saying she will leave the house but when Ashwini admonished her, she went to the room again.

That's why I said somewhere that they'll make baby steps, they'll both grow, for this show is about SaiRat's journey as much as it is about Sai's.

I don't ever think I'll feel eww about them, their "connection" feels too real for that to happen.

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

My opinions are very different.

I don't know i felt she has always been like this since the beginning. That's why I was pleasantly surprised when she was so composed while Virat just lost it.

Once she understands she is in the wrong she tones it down...just like how she was silent when the family was taunting her. Today as well, she was impulsive saying she will leave the house but when Ashwini admonished her, she went to the room again.

That's why I said somewhere that they'll make baby steps, they'll both grow, for this show is about SaiRat's journey as much as it is about Sai's.

I don't ever think I'll feel eww about them, their "connection" feels too real for that to happen.

Above everything else, they balance out each other just so well and perfectly.❤️

Just like Ying & Yang!!!☯️

Originally posted by: Bana

Exactly!! She used to be a princess but not a brat. The CVs hv been showing her up as more immature, childish & unpredictable in the last few epis, maybe to contrast with Pakhi or to show Virat’s indulgent affection. They are overdoing it - any more of this... and when Virat makes a romantic overture it will look eww coz we will get used to seeing Sai as a kid & Virat as her guardian.

I can understand this perspective. My belief of how they're going here is the two become friends first, shedding this very kid/guardian dynamic they have, and after a while of that we'll see real romance. Right now, to Virat Sai is his guru's kid. To Sai, Virat is her Abba's student. They're not at the same place mentally, which is why this deal wali shaadi doesn't infringe on the all important vaada. I hope that becoming mature though doesn't mean having to shed love for budiyon ka baal or balloons. As Virat said, maturity doesn't mean having to let go of the things we like right? (I hope....)

Also very much appreciate your POV, gets me to think about things in different perspectives. I watch shows as I used to read scripts in theater class - by analyzing characters, so I have a tendency to see things too clearly from a character's POV without seeing the broader picture.

Originally posted by: Aashna05

@bold - Yes. Sai is someone who loses her cool over small things/matters but if something big happens, she handles it all very well & I guess somewhere, Virat is opposite of her in this case.

Above everything else, they balance out each other just so well and perfectly.❤️

Just like Ying & Yang!!!☯️

You said it beautifully👏

Yes sai over reacted . Specially when everyone was trying to convince her but then she is THE SAI😆 its her character trait to be like that over reactive and impulsive and yes that looks between pakhi and virat may have contributed to her tantrums also.

But today virat won my heart. For the first time he pampered her understanding her state of mind instead of scolding her for being immature.

I just loved loved loved virat today❤️

Even i don't understand this obsession to show Sai erupting at everything.🤔..I feel the more the language is used of her being childish, immature the more extreme her reactions in those departments to verify it

She's 18 not 8.

I really liked the Sai they showed the day after the wedding in green sari where she told them how she feels straight to their faces... but there was a grace to it.

They need to bring her back.💆😑

Yeah she definitely went a bit overboard today ignoring all the other concerned ones for her but again its her character flaw...she is a flawed person...her over-impulsiveness and jumping to conclusions is one of her biggest flaws....but here makers are gradually trying to show her process of toning it down(on Pakhi's arrival drama)....its a gradual progress and would take time to develop...she is someone who was unexpectedly thrown into a joint family from a nuclear one(with only her father in that) and that does take time for a person like Sai to blend into that...she is now emotionally dependant on Virat and was soo happy the previous night when Virat informed her about his leave for her results...even though he told her while he left today, she,just like usual, jumped to conclusion that he left for work and the reason she thought for that was Pakhi and thats what drove her crazy... I agree she was wrong in throwing tantrums to who were genuinely concerned and cared for her like Ashwini and Shivani...but Ashwini, being the lovely mother that she is, understood her😳and forgave her just like a mother does to her child😳

Originally posted by: -JollyJabeen-JB

I agree with you!! I thought Sai was being a bit extra too.. like fine, be mad @ Viraat but Shivani bua and Aswini aunty made her food and were requesting her to eat so nicely, it was a bit of an insult IMO. It was also disrespecting food in a way as well? Which sucked a bit but alas.. this scene was also funny because Viraat told Sai he’ll be back soon and he wasn’t even wearing his uniform when he left. Kuch bhi.. Sai jumps to conclusions way too fast😆

meri shaadi hokkar 9 saal hogayaey,neither my mother asks what i want to eat nor my saas🤔 lekin iskaey liyae mein neet exam nahi likh sakthi😆

Sai ne jo bhi kiya, sahi, galat, over acting, tantrums.. etc etc.... glad for one thing she didn't behave "machoor" like Pakhi didi 😆....
ek mature bandhi hi bardaasht se baahar hai ,... dho dho ka kya karna

I felt bad for Shivani bua who cooked for Sai and they had no clue why Sai is angry....

As Aswini pointed out Sai went overboard today

Pakhi's taunts had no effects on Virat 😆, He is too happy and proud today 😂