Rubina’s choices & Captaincy - Page 2

Well summarized & well said! Beat that! 👏

I can see that this topic is very pro-Rubina so I understand that whatever argument I may present will be not valid.

But there is a point I strongly disagree on. She is not nice or cordial with everyone. Time and again she has shown why people think shes got superiority complex. She doesn't listen. Before I get bashed, I genuinely have no favourites. I'm going to take her very latest feud with Rahul. Like she has opinions about everyone he also had one and to be fair it wasn't highly offensive, in a way its a compliment if he feels she shows authority. But she took it SO negatively and made it into an issue that was so silly. Just because Rahul Vaidya said shes authoritative, she wanted to prove she wasn't. Why? I still don't get why she was SO obsessed with proving him wrong. And to follow from my she doesnt listen point, another one - she maybe well spoken but telling people to "oh shutup"; downright rude and shows her "superiority complex". Now her fans will not agree but I honestly don't care, when she tells people they're demonizing or they're rude then its fine. She's a good player but its things like these that are off-putting.

Even the caller thing with Jasmin. If she cant trust her and theyre not friends anymore, why the concern and constant "I'm there for you" when Aly left? I agree with alot of what she has to say but when it comes to hee stupid fights with Jasmin or even Rahul I find she over tries. And she's so rude to Abhinav too, I get that they're husband and wife and its a vibe but you're on national TV, if he is potrayed as henpecked or scared of her, shes fully helping this image and misconception.

Extrmly Well Written 👍🏼

Jai ho Rubina mata ki. Jai ho.

Originally posted by: stunninstar

First of all - I know this forum has all Rahul/Eijaz/Jasmin fans who despise Rubina

Initially I was never rooting for Rubina.. I never liked her shows, never followed her on Social Media or didnt even know her husband. But with time I have shifted my liking from Jasmin to Rubina..

1/ Rubina takes a strong stand & doesnt let go of things

2/ Rubina has self respect and she is not ready to bow down before anyone - eijaz / Rahul / Jasmin or anyone

Though Jasmin & Rahul keep blaming about Rubina of being arrogant and rude and reeking of superiority complex ,

1/ All the contestants who got evicted only had good things to speak about her.. Kavita too didnt say bad about Rubina much (she had issue with Abhinav)

2/ she speaks to all nicely - be it New ones - Vikas, Rakhi, Rahul, Mannu, Kash.. Even with Arshi she doesnt go fight .. she just gives it back when Arshi irritates her.. with old ones - she is cordial and soft with Ali, Nikki and even with Eijaz she doesnt go fight.. Rahul and Jasmin always think bad about her.. so if you have a negative vibes sharing with a person you wouldn’t talk to that person..

3/ Rubi being authoritative over Abhinav.. I being a wife know that Husband-wife relation is one whr if there is understanding you can be authoritative.. but that doesnt mean you r disobeying your husband..

If you believe in a misogynistic thinking that if wife says something and husband obeys he is a hen pecked husband I pity your future wife..

I find Abhinav and Rubina to be sharing a equal relationship where both work independently and doesnt really interfere in their works or relations..

Lastly why Rubina went to Jasmin to save Abhinav if she dint trust her.. Rubina went for Abhinav coz she knows that Jasmin is true in her friendship with Abhinav and can be trusted for..

She never ever went to anyone to save her.. and if she had to be Captain she wouldnt be supported by people .. and she knew she doesnt have the physical strength as much to fight these guys in the game.. so better go with the flow and support the person whom you think would win and can eventually help her with her plan!!

Originally posted by: _Fantasy_

I can see that this topic is very pro-Rubina so I understand that whatever argument I may present will be not valid.

But there is a point I strongly disagree on. She is not nice or cordial with everyone. Time and again she has shown why people think shes got superiority complex. She doesn't listen. Before I get bashed, I genuinely have no favourites. I'm going to take her very latest feud with Rahul. Like she has opinions about everyone he also had one and to be fair it wasn't highly offensive, in a way its a compliment if he feels she shows authority. But she took it SO negatively and made it into an issue that was so silly. Just because Rahul Vaidya said shes authoritative, she wanted to prove she wasn't. Why? I still don't get why she was SO obsessed with proving him wrong. And to follow from my she doesnt listen point, another one - she maybe well spoken but telling people to "oh shutup"; downright rude and shows her "superiority complex". Now her fans will not agree but I honestly don't care, when she tells people they're demonizing or they're rude then its fine. She's a good player but its things like these that are off-putting.

Even the caller thing with Jasmin. If she cant trust her and theyre not friends anymore, why the concern and constant "I'm there for you" when Aly left? I agree with alot of what she has to say but when it comes to hee stupid fights with Jasmin or even Rahul I find she over tries. And she's so rude to Abhinav too, I get that they're husband and wife and its a vibe but you're on national TV, if he is potrayed as henpecked or scared of her, shes fully helping this image and misconception.

I can explain it one by one

1/ Post is pro rubina- Yes, I wanted to give my opinion on why I have started supporting her.. Though I have been following Aly, Jasmin & Eijaz in their shows and never ever saw Rubina.. So that would be pro rubina.. and that doesnt mean your points would be invalid!

2/ She is not cordial with everyone - Very correct.. She is not! I totally agree.. But thats how people are.. you cant be good to all.. but if u r watching the same show as I am - I do see her being cordial with Rakhi, Aly, Vikas etc.. She had her piece of tiff with Rahul , Jasmin , Eijaz , Arshi .. so she wouldnt wanna waste her time convincing or warming up to people whom she knows wouldnt support her otherwise rtoo.. thats not superiority complex.. Its called “self respect”

3/ telling people to “shut up” is superiority complex.. wow! I think its better than abusing or talking bad about people!

4/ She was trying to correct it with Rahul .. the same points I mentioned above..

5/ Being caring to Jasmin - You can be caring about people whom uou aint friends with.. I personally have such experiences .. I have a relation where I do not like that person at all.. But i am concerned for that person.. thats becoz you once truly loved that person and you cant think bad about her/him!!

6/ I really dont agree about this “hen pecked” word.. does she make abhinav follow her .. NO.. She has her strong opinions and she is very vocal .. but she doesnt stop him.. had it been a real hen pecked case Abhinav wouldnt be seeing jasmin eye to eye!!

I rest my case!