Boy or girl? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Sharpener

How is deciding if the baby is gonna be a girl or a boy transphobic? 😕

Apparently, talking in cis terms itself is transphobic .

I am 100% LGBTQ supporter, but cis, straight peeps don't need to be erased for anyone who's not to be afforded the same rights. No child (or adult) HAS to be referred to as them/they unless and until that person decides to follow a non-gendered approach.

And yeah, speculating on gender of a baby has been going on since time immemorial. It's one of the joys of domestic life which (I'm not talking about wanting to know gender to decide on abortion) harms no one.

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

Apparently, talking in cis terms itself is transphobic .

I am 100% LGBTQ supporter, but cis, straight peeps don't need to be erased for anyone who's not to be afforded the same rights. No child (or adult) HAS to be referred to as them/they unless and until that person decides to follow a non-gendered approach.

And yeah, speculating on gender of a baby has been going on since time immemorial. It's one of the joys of domestic life which (I'm not talking about wanting to know gender to decide on abortion) harms no one.

You shared my thoughts, though in a much more articulate way ans way more respectfully lol!

Originally posted by: Sharpener

How is deciding if the baby is gonna be a girl or a boy transphobic? 😕

Betty was trolling I guess. Taking potshots at the trans activists, maybe?

Yeah I also think she'll have another boy, but I want it to be a girl tbh

How could we possibly know if its going to be a boy or girl, and why would we even care?