Mohabbat Tujhe Alvida#2 - Mansha, Sonya, Zahid (note pg5) - Page 32

Originally posted by: awida

Love is a strong feeling. It can happen between a single woman and a married man too. I know many ppl think it is a sin. But how can someone control his/her emotions. If all ppl are sensible you won't find ppl who die , go mad or fell ill because of love. 😒

How can she be sure that Shayan will follow her if her traveling abroad was a drama?!😕 Yes. If Shayan followed her because of his wife's pressure it would've been as per Shafaq's plan. But Shayan went on to confess his love for Shafaq. This wasn't planned. It just happened. And who am I to judge them?!🤓

I didn't watch the whole drama. Just saw few episodes, and read all the reviews and discussions here. I am sorry if I am misreading the whole situation.😳

Come on awida, even in Islam it is said that emotions can not be controlled but actions can be. If you get attracted to someone and cant marry that person, the solution Islam gives is to cut off that person from your life. Shafaq could have done that instead of barging into his married life like that. How can you have any sympathy for a homewrecker? She is no better than those women who have affairs with married men and ruin their marriages. She saw Ulfats weakness was money and she very cleverly used that against her to destroy her life. How is she innocent?

Shahan ka sudden love confession made no sense in the first place. She never expected that. But since she knew Ulfat had accepted the proposal, she was damn sure that Ulfat would not let her leave. Why did she not walk away when Ulfat was not agreeing for the proposal?

Anyone watching Zahid's new drama on ary, fariyad?

Originally posted by: The_Wanderer

Anyone watching Zahid's new drama on ary, fariyad?

Yes. And there is a thread for this drama in this forum too. 😊

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

Come on awida, even in Islam it is said that emotions can not be controlled but actions can be. If you get attracted to someone and cant marry that person, the solution Islam gives is to cut off that person from your life. Shafaq could have done that instead of barging into his married life like that. How can you have any sympathy for a homewrecker? She is no better than those women who have affairs with married men and ruin their marriages. She saw Ulfats weakness was money and she very cleverly used that against her to destroy her life. How is she innocent?

Shahan ka sudden love confession made no sense in the first place. She never expected that. But since she knew Ulfat had accepted the proposal, she was damn sure that Ulfat would not let her leave. Why did she not walk away when Ulfat was not agreeing for the proposal?

I don't think Shafaq is a religious person. Also Laila Majnu were also muslims, they fell in love, the guy even lost his mind when Laila got married to another man. Believe me such things happen in reality. Shafaq was desperate to get married to Shahan , she tried her luck with his wife and it worked. She didn't intend to get Ulfat out of Shahan's life. All she wanted was a small place in Shahan's heart and house. Islam allows 2nd marriage. If she gave Ulfat the money to get out of Shahan's life this will make her a home wrecker. But she didn't do so. It is Ulfat who digged her own grave by acting like a crazy after she became rich.

Originally posted by: awida

I don't think Shafaq is a religious person. Also Laila Majnu were also muslims, they fell in love, the guy even lost his mind when Laila got married to another man. Believe me such things happen in reality. Shafaq was desperate to get married to Shahan , she tried her luck with his wife and it worked. She didn't intend to get Ulfat out of Shahan's life. All she wanted was a small place in Shahan's heart and house. Islam allows 2nd marriage. If she gave Ulfat the money to get out of Shahan's life this will make her a home wrecker. But she didn't do so. It is Ulfat who digged her own grave by acting like a crazy after she became rich.

I know she is not religious but you always talk about the Islamic aspects when discussing tv shows, so I mentioned that. There are many famous romantic stories apart from Laila Majnu, that does not mean that act is acceptable.

I dont know why you keep seeing Shafaq as a victim here, she is no better than Ulfat. In fact I sympathize with Ulfat more since she is the first wife, it was Shafaq who was the homewrecker.

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

Ulfat took up the offer for greed only but whatever she is its infront of everyone she doesnt stab behind peoples backs like shafaq does

Yeah she is straight forward but not dhood ki dholi. She lost her place due to her ignorance and negligence.

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

why should he have his cake and eat it too? He doesnt deserve any wife😡

Yeh tino hi kisi ko deserve nhi karty

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

I know she is not religious but you always talk about the Islamic aspects when discussing tv shows, so I mentioned that.

I am trying to avoid it now. I've learned my lesson.🤣 Every time I talk about Islam I get misunderstood.😒

There are many famous romantic stories apart from Laila Majnu, that does not mean that act is acceptable.

I know. It is wrong to come between a wife and a husband, to use your money to get your way. I know Shafaq did wrong. I've just wanted to explain what did she do so ! We are normal ppl . But Shafaq was shown as a woman who was madly in love.. who was used to get what she desires. I don't say that love justifies what she did. I just want to say that some ppl can lose their minds ,don't differantee between right and wrong while they are in love. I try to avoid talking about my personal experience, but well. I have to admit it now. 😒 Do you remember Imaan from Khuda Aur Mohabbat? She died because she was torn between love and religion (duty) she felt guilty . That feeling eated her from inside. Yes. I too had a similar experience. It costed me 6 months of my life. I was depressed.😭 But alhamdulillah I've consoled a sheikh and with the help of religious guidence I passed that horrible period in my life.😃

I dont know why you keep seeing Shafaq as a victim here, she is no better than Ulfat. In fact I sympathize with Ulfat more since she is the first wife, it was Shafaq who was the homewrecker.

In my opinion both Shafaq and Ulfat are wrong. But Ulfat is in more fault because she sold her husband , the love of her life, 🤢while Shafaq was just blinded by love. And as they said every thing is fair in love and war.😉😳

Originally posted by: _NINA_

Yeh tino hi kisi ko deserve nhi karty

Originally posted by: awida

In my opinion both Shafaq and Ulfat are wrong. But Ulfat is in more fault because she sold her husband , the love of her life, 🤢while Shafaq was just blinded by love. And as they said every thing is fair in love and war.😉😳

You were that depressied? Why? Was it after you moved to another city?

I had sympathy for Shafaq before she married Shahan because she seemed like a lonely girl who just wanted love and she saw Shahan as a good husband by the way he treated Ulfat and she started craving for that love. Thats a natural feeling. Its only after marriage that she started showing her cunning side and trying to drift him apart from Ulfat.

Ulfat gave her own place to Shafaq but now she regrets it. Plus she was in his life before Shafaq came along so I think she deserves a second chance.