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Posted: 5 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: LoveAnny

Is there any parameter to judge which incident is more horrific? It may differ from person to person! For eg, if someone hasn't faced molestation/rape but going through divorce, how can we judge the level of emotional trauma? Just because they haven't faced such incidents, it doesn't mean they are less traumatized by divorce!

wohi toh. dusron ke miseries pe celebrate karne wale yahan preach kar rahe hai kisko sympathy dena hai, kisko nahi. hadd hai.


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Posted: 5 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: PyaasiChudail69

WAIT WHAT? ARE YOU SERIOUS???

WTF! You don’t have to go through something to make you feel the horrifications of the crime MY GOD!

Maybe take a break from stanning and focus on human side.

No rape/molestation/depression/suicide attempts trauma do not and never will be as equal as divorce. Not in any world except maybe in Rubina’s stan world.

So you mean a person who was raped and molested will have more or same trauma as divorce?

A person who is depressed will have more or same trauma as divorce?

A person who had multiple suicide attempts will have same or more freaking trauma as same divorce?

I can't even argue any further..🤔

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Posted: 5 years ago
#33

Who is comparing molestation with divorce?


Different people are going through different problems, just because people are having a merry time mocking divorce doesn't mean the person going through it will enjoy it as much as you are



There's no comparison with rape or molestation, they are crimes worthy of capital punishment


There's no victim in a mutual divorce

Divorce is a legal process, there's nothing shameful or humiliating about trying to work on your marriage or leaving it if you can't live with each other


If one understands it then how come there are comments like divorce is humiliation, divorce is selling herself for money, their relationship was fake, she sold her relationship for immunity?


Something didn’t work ir they worked through it

First make a huge deal out of it saying she fell from chane ka jhad then say it is not important


If it's not important to fir itna tamasha kyo kiya





Edited by Aegon - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Aegon

Who is comparing molestation with divorce?


Different people are going through different problems, just because people are having a merry time mocking divorce doesn't mean the person going through it will enjoy it as much as you are



There's no comparison with rape or molestation, they are crimes


Divorce is a legal process, there's nothing shameful or humiliating about trying to work on your marriage or leaving it if you can't live with each other


If one understands it then how come there are comments like divorce is humiliation, divorce is selling herself for money, their relationship was fake?



nah, humare sympathy bank locker mein deposit karke rakhna hain. and wait till the divorcee slip into Post-Divorce Trauma, PTSD and try to attempt suicide. tab dikhayenge apni sympathy. tab tak keep grilling her/him.


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Posted: 5 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: PyaasiChudail69

WAIT WHAT? ARE YOU SERIOUS???

WTF! You don’t have to go through something to make you feel the horrifications of the crime MY GOD!

Maybe take a break from stanning and focus on human side.

No rape/molestation/depression/suicide attempts trauma do not and never will be as equal as divorce. Not in any world except maybe in Rubina’s stan world.

So you mean a person who was raped and molested will have more or same trauma as divorce?

A person who is depressed will have more or same trauma as divorce?

A person who had multiple suicide attempts will have same or more freaking trauma as same divorce?

Yes. I'm serious. Stop writing in capital and going personal. Please! Otherwise don't quote me. You can't judge anyone's trauma and their level. And I stand on my point of view.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: hasini009


nah, humare sympathy bank locker mein deposit karke rakhna hain. and wait till the divorcee slip into Post-Divorce Trauma, PTSD and try to attempt suicide. tab dikhayenge apni sympathy. tab tak keep grilling her/him.



Tell me about it


I don't understand what is wrong with divorce in first place, Isn't it better to end something which is making you miserable? It's even better to give it a chance


Marriage is a legal contract which ends with divorce in court


Whats shameful about it?


How does someone who accepts it falls from grace or sells her relationship for money?

Why she has to feel that she needs to hide it from people?

It's people like Niki, who shiuld be stopped from mocking people


If revealing it on Television is inviting people like Niki to mock them then Rubina wasn't the only one who revealed her secret

Edited by Aegon - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: LoveAnny

Is there any parameter to judge which incident is more horrific? It may differ from person to person! For eg, if someone hasn't faced molestation/rape but going through divorce, how can we judge the level of emotional trauma? Just because they haven't faced such incidents, it doesn't mean they are less traumatized by divorce!


who are we to judge in the first place? You think a therapist has been through zillion traumas thts why they sit in tht chair and counsel ppl? You have to be mature and understanding enough to know that on your own. Any trauma that hapoens to a child is obviously more scarring whether its a girl or a boy, because they are innocent at that time.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: LoveAnny

Yes. I'm serious. Stop writing in capital and going personal. Please! Otherwise don't quote me. You can't judge anyone's trauma and their level. And I stand on my point of view.

I CAN WRITE IN CAPS AS MUCH AS I WANT NEITHER ITS ILLEGAL NOR ITS AGAINST THE RULES.

This is open forum where you can quote anyone you want, if you don’t want to be quoted don’t comment, because that’s the only way.

I never went personal to begin with.

Edited by PyaasiChudail69 - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: mz.gigglez


who are we to judge in the first place? You think a therapist has been through zillion traumas thts why they sit in tht chair and counsel ppl? You have to be mature and understanding enough to know that on your own. Any trauma that hapoens to a child is obviously more scarring whether its a girl or a boy, because they are innocent at that time.


Which therapist will mock someone who needs therapy after separation and divorce?


There's no comparison between a crime worthy of capital punishment and separation


But how can you tell someone that her divorce is not a big deal or deserves mocking?

Edited by Aegon - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#40

Because karne ko inke pass Aur Kuch nahi hai


Rubina ne divorce Ki baat ab kari hai but Kk said personal thing first and Jasmin also threatened to reveal a private thing.


Yeh hai hi aise 🤢👎🏼

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