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Originally posted by: PyaasiChudail69

Honey you really said “is there any parameter to know which incident is more horrific”. Like you need some kinda criterion to know which one is more horrific but ok.

I didn't say that honey😆 That's your interpretation only and u got it totally wrong. It's your pov that molestation is horrific than divorce, I didn't categorise trauma like yours. All I said we can't be so sure of triggering point of different people. Because it differs from person to person. I don't what's so difficult to understand this! But ok.

Originally posted by: PyaasiChudail69

Honey you really said “is there any parameter to know which incident is more horrific”. Like you need some kinda criterion to know which one is more horrific but ok.

Originally posted by: LoveAnny

I didn't say that honey😆 That's your interpretation only and u got it totally wrong. It's your pov that molestation is horrific than divorce, I didn't categorise trauma like yours. All I said we can't be so sure of triggering point of different people. Because it differs from person to person. I don't what's so difficult to understand this! But ok.

Originally posted by: LoveAnny

Is there any parameter to judge which incident is more horrific? It may differ from person to person! For eg, if someone hasn't faced molestation/rape but going through divorce, how can we judge the level of emotional trauma? Just because they haven't faced such incidents, it doesn't mean they are less traumatized by divorce!

I rest my case😳

Yes! You can. What I meant in that statement is that you can't judge which incident is more horrific. For someone, divorce can also be traumatic. And I stand on my point of view. You can have yours and stop moral policing others. 🥱

Well, if she knows any raaz, speak up. What's the point of beating around the bush and getting into blackmailing business which is a crime? Bringing outside matter into game is not allowed, but big boss himself doesn't care about his own rules and policies, maximum she would be nominated or something. Some people would believe it, some won't. But at least she would feel relief after vomiting.

Hopefully she's not coming back. Her in/out is annoying. Deal with big boss contract and joh raaz hai bahar jake kholo boiled chicken khake.

If this post would have been just about that how jaismine, kavita, nikki were absolutely wrong in asking such questions to them......i would agree because obviously you got a chance to ask, but what to ask is a choice.....and one should not cross a line. Questioning on someone's divorce isnt right. I am glad that rubina handled well though......abhinav ka gussa was justified. I guess isiliye woh nahi chahtha tha ki yeh sach bahar aaye ....rubina should have taken his consent before revealing such a thing about their life.

But under no circumstances, can divorce be compared to things compared in the post and i completely disagree with the thinking that the trauma caused by molestation as a child can be compared with trauma caused by divorce. And if somebody questioned on your divorce.....you get a free pass if you question about their molestation incident. It is not the same thing.....can't be put into same radar for me....kavita did crossed the line there as well with eijaz .....usse jyada expectation kavita se rakhi bhi kya ja sakti hain.

Obviously divorce also causes depression and is genuinely a sad phase of life but the kind of trauma can be caused to a child who suffered molestation is horrifying to even think about. It is a criminal offense for a reason. Obviously all the secrets come from a space where these individuals have suffered and may god give strength to everyone to come out of them completely one day and everyone leads a happy life. It is sad to see makers putting contestants through such a task. But i wish contestants were a bit smart and choose incidents which would impact them a little lesser. Why spoil your inner peace for a show ......this bb trophy isnt that important. But then, if them telling it here changes life for even person suffering from such a thing out there....it is worth it. I just hope that god give everyone the strength to not get affected by all the judgements being made in the house or social media.