A filler filled with lessons - Page 2

Originally posted by: Aelin

What does this mean Akshu?

Reserved.

So that I can come back and write my comment.

You can check that post now.

Originally posted by: Aelin

Thanks so much Leanne(is that what I should call you?). You have the warmest words for my works. I am so glad you liked my POV about Bondita's interaction with the girls.

Yes, you can call me Leanne. What should I call you?

Originally posted by: leanne_1983

Yes, you can call me Leanne. What should I call you?

Rey at your service.

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Totally agree . RCS men were quick to understand the depth of the chhodi huyi aurat , heera mandi stuff. That is why they became little protective towards her . Also bondita has suffered thrice cruelty from the people which mini has only faced 1/3 as a mini humiliation !!

Bondita didn't show off nor she complain what they have done unlike mini jo ulta chor kotwal ko daante wala case tha !

Bondita tark are the reality and why her dialogues were little matured because she is growing and a sensible kid who had understood her responsibility after the death of her father . Circumstances forces her to become a mature .

There are two reasons why I am not surprised with Bon's maturity and intelligence.

1. She is ITV bahu (This needs no more explanation)

2. I have a thing for analytical thinking. I tend to dig deeper into the character to feel the scene and story shown on screen. I agree with everything you said. She saw her father die, she saw her mother being stripped of all the comfort and respect because she is a widow, she felt the burden of withholding things from her pati babu- who is never supposed to be lied, she felt the pain of separation and social stigma, she saw her husband get stabbed and she has seen death again.

She is already a sensitive girl, facing such tough situations does a lot of things to a person. So she is watching things happen, she is already been taught by her mother to be a good bahu and she is being guided by a good man. SHE IS LEARNING A LOT!!

Originally posted by: AK_2010

There are two reasons why I am not surprised with Bon's maturity and intelligence.

1. She is ITV bahu (This needs no more explanation)

2. I have a thing for analytical thinking. I tend to dig deeper into the character to feel the scene and story shown on screen. I agree with everything you said. She saw her father die, she saw her mother being stripped of all the comfort and respect because she is a widow, she felt the burden of withholding things from her pati babu- who is never supposed to be lied, she felt the pain of separation and social stigma, she saw her husband get stabbed and she has seen death again.

She is already a sensitive girl, facing such tough situations does a lot of things to a person. So she is watching things happen, she is already been taught by her mother to be a good bahu and she is being guided by a good man. SHE IS LEARNING A LOT!!

I agree with you . Bon is a girl who thinks from emotions and maybe she is feeling all these from inside and I am surprised makers have not yet shown her emotional breakdown which could have been there if she was a 15-16 or above old girl , her emotions could have come out easily in form of tears, anger on everyone even on ani also and pain. The Hira mandi track the choir huyi aurat and even her mother getting killed has left a deep impact on her which ani and kaka sasur knows that is why they have come protective of her and does not scold her much as compared to earlier , they expect from her but understand her now .remember she became so mature at that time in village and brothel track ,bon has in this she will never show her emotions and tears to anyone and instead portray her smile to everybody . She wipers her tears quickly and does not show it tot anyone . I would like makers to show bon emotional breakdown where she brings out all her emotions .

I also noticed people change her peronslaity sometimes as a 11 yrs old clapping around ani , being happy and sometimes as a mature . But that is how a human is Vibrant. mid we are too happy and carefree and moreover with our family safe and sound , we never show maturity , bring out our inner child in front of them and her innocence is intact with him as he is her world . Her kaka sasurji in whom she saw her lost father and found affection . Bon is like if someone shows a little ounce of affection to her , her heart is won over but after her Pari didi betrayal, she has realised not all care is genuine and sometimes angel meets unexpectedly like rasiya didi

. She has this in herself . She puts everyone above her ,loves everyone unconditionally and hats off to her character .

Originally posted by: Aelin

Rey at your service.

Hey Rey😃 Keep up the good work of writing👍🏼

If you don't mind telling me, what is your DP about? Is it some movie character?

Originally posted by: leanne_1983

Hey Rey😃 Keep up the good work of writing👍🏼

If you don't mind telling me, what is your DP about? Is it some movie character?

I shall try to keep writing more.

My DP is the sketch of character named Aelin Ashriver Galathynius, who is the protagonist of the book series Throne of Glass by Sarah J Maas. She is a total badass and one of my favourite fictional female characters.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

There are two reasons why I am not surprised with Bon's maturity and intelligence.

1. She is ITV bahu (This needs no more explanation)

2. I have a thing for analytical thinking. I tend to dig deeper into the character to feel the scene and story shown on screen. I agree with everything you said. She saw her father die, she saw her mother being stripped of all the comfort and respect because she is a widow, she felt the burden of withholding things from her pati babu- who is never supposed to be lied, she felt the pain of separation and social stigma, she saw her husband get stabbed and she has seen death again.

She is already a sensitive girl, facing such tough situations does a lot of things to a person. So she is watching things happen, she is already been taught by her mother to be a good bahu and she is being guided by a good man. SHE IS LEARNING A LOT!!

Touché on the ITV bahu point.

You and I have the same thought process. You have read my posts and you know I do not give a word by word review or recap. I pick specific moments from the episode and analyse them and try to expand them. That's exactly what you did as well. Kudos.

Originally posted by: Katy4566

I agree with you . Bon is a girl who thinks from emotions and maybe she is feeling all these from inside and I am surprised makers have not yet shown her emotional breakdown which could have been there if she was a 15-16 or above old girl , her emotions could have come out easily in form of tears, anger on everyone even on ani also and pain. The Hira mandi track the choir huyi aurat and even her mother getting killed has left a deep impact on her which ani and kaka sasur knows that is why they have come protective of her and does not scold her much as compared to earlier , they expect from her but understand her now .remember she became so mature at that time in village and brothel track ,bon has in this she will never show her emotions and tears to anyone and instead portray her smile to everybody . She wipers her tears quickly and does not show it tot anyone . I would like makers to show bon emotional breakdown where she brings out all her emotions .

I also noticed people change her peronslaity sometimes as a 11 yrs old clapping around ani , being happy and sometimes as a mature . But that is how a human is Vibrant. mid we are too happy and carefree and moreover with our family safe and sound , we never show maturity , bring out our inner child in front of them and her innocence is intact with him as he is her world . Her kaka sasurji in whom she saw her lost father and found affection . Bon is like if someone shows a little ounce of affection to her , her heart is won over but after her Pari didi betrayal, she has realised not all care is genuine and sometimes angel meets unexpectedly like rasiya didi

. She has this in herself . She puts everyone above her ,loves everyone unconditionally and hats off to her character .

I think it only natural.

Just like how we are not happy all the time or sad all the time or angry all the time, Bon reacts differently to every emotion as well. When she is happy she isn't afraid to express it, when is angry /upset she let's the concerned person know by puffing her cheeks but when she is sad... She doesn't let anyone know because as you rightly said, she is a person who keeps others above herself (typical ITV bahu, I tell you)

And they do this major swinging with her character because they keep reminding us and themselves that Bon is ultimately a kid. Very unrealistic but as discussed before, kids back then used to grow up sooner than they do now.

Originally posted by: Aelin

Touché on the ITV bahu point.

You and I have the same thought process. You have read my posts and you know I do not give a word by word review or recap. I pick specific moments from the episode and analyse them and try to expand them. That's exactly what you did as well. Kudos.

Glad to find a person who is equally lost in details!

Cheers bro!