Originally posted by: Honeyarjun
Udhay , sure absolutely understand that you don’t like him from your point of view.
I want to understand what contradicting information he gave about his family . Not for supporting him or fight for him . Just want to understand if I missed anything .
From my understanding, during first time he said his father was addicted to drinking and used to hit him when drunk. His mom was working abroad then she moved to India. She also started drinking along with his dad. Most of the times he used to go to school without lunch. Why parents give birth if they are not able to take care of their kids properly. He didn’t say anything bad about his mom there specifically other than this.
In the second incident when he talked about who he is missing the most, he wrote a letter to his mom and said he never said anything good to her when she was alive. wasn’t able to convey his caring as he spent most of the time being mad with her when she was alive . he regretted that now . Then talked about him winning mr.India contest and going home. His mom was innocent and naive enough to not understand what he really achieved.
That is exactly what I remember , I haven’t added anything extra or missed anything according to my memory.
Now , I want to understand what is contradicting in this. Just because he said his mom drank and didn’t send lunch to school doesn’t mean she is not innocent . She may be a good person but got badly influenced by alcohol. After all , she is his mom. He would love her despite anything . They might have had bad incidents but that doesn’t mean they had good memories and affection for each other. At times, he mentioned he was longing for affection and didn’t know how to react when he got it . Even Archana mentioned it during their mother-son scene.
One thing I accept is , whatever happened he shouldn’t have made it public. It will be like degrading your parents in front of others. But if we see it other way , He had a terrible past , he shared it with others so people who watch it should take care of their kids and take responsibility.
Saying all these , We can all assume and find different interpretations of what he said but he will only know what really happened.