Failiure is the road to success 16/11/2020

“Nobody can bring you peace but yourself.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

Dining table scene

Every cloud has a silver lining. Breakfast table turned in to a battle field thanks to Ani and Binoy. When Bihari said, who will give peace now , we all knew Bonditha will do it and we never wanted another ITV bahu scene. Truly the way she brought peace impressed me. If she had said anything it would have being putting oil on fire . I can understand that she hates this type of fights. She just said the alphabet which was enough to bring back the happiness to Ani and all except Binoy. He will see who is the real headache once GW enters with his wife🤣

"Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts."

-- Winston S. Churchill

Very first day of Bondithas education Ani wore the same shirt as I can remember . He wanted to educate Bonditha well. Bonditha passed first test . She could say the alphabet without any mistake today. Can imagine his happiness. It's like a parent who gets such an immense happiness seeing his / her child's progress in studies. Whether he in pre grade or Doctorate. As a teacher I have seen such a happiness in parents eyes.

Ani always wanted to change the society, wanted girls to educate and his first effort is his Patni Bonditha. I could feel that happiness from him, It's like you won a battle. You feel it though you have not fully succeeded.

We shall overcome someday

deep in my heart

I do believe

We shall overcome, some day

One more thing I noticed. As we all know Ani wanted to change the society but he never knew about Indian life as he had not being in India for 10 years. He always stayed with his books. Though he wanted to change others , he never went outside to learn their lives.

He gets married to Bonditha , whom takes him to the society. Bonditha lands up in Heera Mandi , where Ani starts his first mission. He rescues all of them. He got them machines and started his next mission of making them independent. But it wasn't easy as he thought we witnessed it today. Now he is becoming salesperson but he didn't know how to do. His Patni whom had being in the society taught him how to do it.

As I always shared like Bonditha learns from Anirudh there are a lot Ani too should learn from his Patni, Bonditha.

Ani other side is not too proud to sell clothes. I like that quality of him. No job is small. It's the way we think. I like that Ani is starting from small thing his journey. These experiences are much needed for his mission.

These husband and wife will always need each other's support.

Together they can win but not apart. One's imperfection is turned to perfection due to other.

The best partner Ani could get for his mission is Bonditha.

The best husband and teacher Bonditha could get is Anirudh Roy Choudry.

The best Patni Ani could get is Bonditha

Kaka loves Bonditha a lot and he thought that his partner in crime who is none other than Bonditha will stop Anirudh. But instead she blessed his work the way her Ma had taught her. I got pati Patni vibes here. He is sharing his fear with Bonditha and their talk with each other and the good omen and all.

Even Kaka is changing. Earlier Kaka used to shout if something not right. But today he waited Ani to go to confront Bonditha. It's like he felt Bonditha betrayed him by taking Anis side. Just kidding🤣🤣 Even if Bonditha couldn't complete she had succeeded as Kaka accepted that she is right . As he still rooted for traditions he might take time but it will be Bonditha who will change him.

“To shine your brightest light is to be who you truly are.”

― Roy T. Bennett

Like she said we cannot call one place is good and not the other. One person is good not the other. Mostly people have both good and bad. Compared to Mini Heera Mandi girls are 1000 times better. They became like that due to situation . Mini became like that due to her selfishness.

Even in last episode when Ani said let's go and teach those girls how to stich Kaka's expressions clearly said she's happy about it. So he is changing.

Batuk and Bonditha

This two always win my heart. Like the way Bon understood Batuk was in trouble. She knew how to get the things out of him. Don't know how others will treat these two when they get to know what they had done together. 😆 Partners in crime. 😆

Even Batuk knows Bonditha. I had a smile when he asked not to tark and giving advice.

Bonditha grah pravesh to the school

We all discussed this in the sneak peak. It's really quiet symbolic . She as the first girl of India doing grah pravesh to school. Keeping footsteps are like kind of invitation to other girls follow me. It's like she follows her pati babu and asking others to follow her and enter to school and learn.

She was behind Batuk but soon caught him. Even in her studies she will be back of Batuk who started before her and with faith and dedication she will soon catch up with him. Somebody has to keep the first step and everything has a first time. So for the first time Bonditha kept the first step to school in the Indian history.

Heera Mandi girls scene

Ani encouraging them was expected. He is such a person . When he determined something he won't step back. even Bonditha has the same quality. I don't about you all but I like that he didn't share what happened to them with Bonditha . Coz he knows that Bonditha cares for them a lot and she will be disturebed when she gets to know about it.

Binoy Bonditha scene

Binoy is trying his best to impress GW without knowing the storm he is inviting for. He couldn't stand her lectures right now. I now really want to see the face of Binoy and Ruditha when Mini enters with GW.

Another heated argument between Ani and Binoy on the way. 🤣

One thing is sure It will be confirmed that she never loved Ani and now seeing her as wife of GW Ani will be more protective of Bonditha. He knows what Mini promised to do to Bonditha . Marrying GW so soon will let Ani know who is Mini really.

But now whole RC should face her as a family and Binoy and Ani should reconcile . Unity is the strength to face any storm.

I love the way Ani shared the happiness of Bonditha reciting the alphabet correctly and there also he taught her to be her and be happy. It's a lesson for all of us. We have to our selves. We cannot be another. Each one is unique . We do not need to satisfy the society all the time. We just have to do the right thing and be happy and be ourselves

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.”

― Bernard M. Baruch

Asusual kate ❤️ loved your review 😳

I actually wanted to read from you because being a teacher yourself you can feel why ani was happy

Actually for me it wasn't OTT at all..! Only people who doesn't care about society or being judged will behave like this..! One such is Anirudh Roy Choudhury 😎 He never cared about what other people will think untill and unless it's for a good cause .!

He is raising bon in sucha manner where she will growup to be strong women who can be just like the way she want 😳 not caring about society and their rules.

Rudi's are imperfect without eachother ... they are growing up and helping eachother to be a better person.! They are giving so much of a couple vibes these days 😳 They are balancing eachother aren't they a perfect couple who balance and giving hands to eachother when necessary 😳

Batuk and bon are indeed partner in crime 😳 Today bon looked like a lil maa to her devar ⭐️ attending Pta meeting just to support batuk and batuk is teaching his boudi how to behave before principal is so like normal students teach their parents to handle their principal 🤣🤪 bon is already refilling the maa place to batuk afterall boudi is also treated like maa ❤️

I'm waiting for GreeNi entry 🤣 binoy's reaction is worth watching 🤪 but why I feel only GW will come to haveli for lunch and not his wife (mini) 🤣 he will invite RC's clan for his marriage party maybe 🤣

I wish binoy and Ani deal together with GreeNi they can easily ground them.!

Let's wait for the ultimate humiliation of Mini and GW 🤣

Hi Kate! Your reviews are brilliant and this is no different!! 😊 I know I am quite biased when it comes to Bon and Ani but I too did not find Ani's reaction OTT because for the struggles he had to go through and managing to overcome Bon' fear in studies atleast partially he feels that Bon had achieved a significant milestone in her basic learning of the language. I am glad he is asking her to think about how she feels then worrying too much about how the society sees. I am just a little worried if ever he would ask Bon to carry on her life without him once she grows telling her not to think about the society because child marraige was never suppose to happen in the first place as he feels that it is wrong to enforce a marraige on her that took place to safe her. I hope by then Bon will be able to reassure him of her her love and devotion to Ani and their marraige and save him from any unwanted guilt he has been feeling and that they always remain a loving couple! :)

You said it all Kate.. in most beautiful manner❤️

I loved episode ❤️ nowadays there is not even a single dull scene in whole episode 😆 I genuinely want them to maintain this even after someone's re entry🤪😆

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Asusual kate ❤️ loved your review 😳

I actually wanted to read from you because being a teacher yourself you can feel why ani was happy

Actually for me it wasn't OTT at all..! Only people who doesn't care about society or being judged will behave like this..! One such is Anirudh Roy Choudhury 😎 He never cared about what other people will think untill and unless it's for a good cause .!

He is raising bon in sucha manner where she will growup to be strong women who can be just like the way she want 😳 not caring about society and their rules.

Rudi's are imperfect without eachother ... they are growing up and helping eachother to be a better person.! They are giving so much of a couple vibes these days 😳 They are balancing eachother aren't they a perfect couple who balance and giving hands to eachother when necessary 😳

Batuk and bon are indeed partner in crime 😳 Today bon looked like a lil maa to her devar ⭐️ attending Pta meeting just to support batuk and batuk is teaching his boudi how to behave before principal is so like normal students teach their parents to handle their principal 🤣🤪 bon is already refilling the maa place to batuk afterall boudi is also treated like maa ❤️

I'm waiting for GreeNi entry 🤣 binoy's reaction is worth watching 🤪 but why I feel only GW will come to haveli for lunch and not his wife (mini) 🤣 he will invite RC's clan for his marriage party maybe 🤣

I wish binoy and Ani deal together with GreeNi they can easily ground them.!

Let's wait for the ultimate humiliation for Mini and GW 🤣

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I was waiting for this to come! I have said this before, have no problem in saying it again... Ani still kind of has his rose-colored glasses on because he never lived the life of a basic, common, middle-class man. He is new to all this and is picking up things from Bon and her experiences. Last night's episode was a clear example.

On the other hand, yesterday was such a hubby-wifey moment when Ani openly expressed his nervousness to her. It is another instance where she understands him and supports him unconditionally. I remember Mini asking him once about playing with dolls despite being gold medalist. While, Bon never discouraged him for anything he wanted to do. In fact she takes inspiration from him. The best part is he knows that she will support him, maybe he also knows that she can help him, like he helps her. He was listening to her so intently yesterday I went all

Originally posted by: caller123

“Nobody can bring you peace but yourself.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

Dining table scene

Every cloud has a silver lining. Breakfast table turned in to a battle field thanks to Ani and Binoy. When Bihari said, who will give peace now , we all knew Bonditha will do it and we never wanted another ITV bahu scene. Truly the way she brought peace impressed me. If she had said anything it would have being putting oil on fire . I can understand that she hates this type of fights. She just said the alphabet which was enough to bring back the happiness to Ani and all except Binoy. He will see who is the real headache once GW enters with his wife🤣

"Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts."

-- Winston S. Churchill

Very first day of Bondithas education Ani wore the same shirt as I can remember . He wanted to educate Bonditha well. Bonditha passed first test . She could say the alphabet without any mistake today. Can imagine his happiness. It's like a parent who gets such an immense happiness seeing his / her child's progress in studies. Whether he in pre grade or Doctorate. As a teacher I have seen such a happiness in parents eyes.

Ani always wanted to change the society, wanted girls to educate and his first effort is his Patni Bonditha. I could feel that happiness from him, It's like you won a battle. You feel it though you have not fully succeeded.

We shall overcome someday

deep in my heart

I do believe

We shall overcome, some day

One more thing I noticed. As we all know Ani wanted to change the society but he never knew about Indian life as he had not being in India for 10 years. He always stayed with his books. Though he wanted to change others , he never went outside to learn their lives.

He gets married to Bonditha , whom takes him to the society. Bonditha lands up in Heera Mandi , where Ani starts his first mission. He rescues all of them. He got them machines and started his next mission of making them independent. But it wasn't easy as he thought we witnessed it today. Now he is becoming salesperson but he didn't know how to do. His Patni whom had being in the society taught him how to do it.

As I always shared like Bonditha learns from Anirudh there are a lot Ani too should learn from his Patni, Bonditha.

Ani other side is not too proud to sell clothes. I like that quality of him. No job is small. It's the way we think. I like that Ani is starting from small thing his journey. These experiences are much needed for his mission.

These husband and wife will always need each other's support.

Together they can win but not apart. One's imperfection is turned to perfection due to other.

The best partner Ani could get for his mission is Bonditha.

The best husband and teacher Bonditha could get is Anirudh Roy Choudry.

The best Patni Ani could get is Bonditha

Kaka loves Bonditha a lot and he thought that his partner in crime who is none other than Bonditha will stop Anirudh. But instead she blessed his work the way her Ma had taught her. I got pati Patni vibes here. He is sharing his fear with Bonditha and their talk with each other and the good omen and all.

Even Kaka is changing. Earlier Kaka used to shout if something not right. But today he waited Ani to go to confront Bonditha. It's like he felt Bonditha betrayed him by taking Anis side. Just kidding🤣🤣 Even if Bonditha couldn't complete she had succeeded as Kaka accepted that she is right . As he still rooted for traditions he might take time but it will be Bonditha who will change him.

“To shine your brightest light is to be who you truly are.”

― Roy T. Bennett

Like she said we cannot call one place is good and not the other. One person is good not the other. Mostly people have both good and bad. Compared to Mini Heera Mandi girls are 1000 times better. They became like that due to situation . Mini became like that due to her selfishness.

Even in last episode when Ani said let's go and teach those girls how to stich Kaka's expressions clearly said she's happy about it. So he is changing.

Batuk and Bonditha

This two always win my heart. Like the way Bon understood Batuk was in trouble. She knew how to get the things out of him. Don't know how others will treat these two when they get to know what they had done together. 😆 Partners in crime. 😆

Even Batuk knows Bonditha. I had a smile when he asked not to tark and giving advice.

Bonditha grah pravesh to the school

We all discussed this in the sneak peak. It's really quiet symbolic . She as the first girl of India doing grah pravesh to school. Keeping footsteps are like kind of invitation to other girls follow me. It's like she follows her pati babu and asking others to follow her and enter to school and learn.

She was behind Batuk but soon caught him. Even in her studies she will be back of Batuk who started before her and with faith and dedication she will soon catch up with him. Somebody has to keep the first step and everything has a first time. So for the first time Bonditha kept the first step to school in the Indian history.

Heera Mandi girls scene

Ani encouraging them was expected. He is such a person . When he determined something he won't step back. even Bonditha has the same quality. I don't about you all but I like that he didn't share what happened to them with Bonditha . Coz he knows that Bonditha cares for them a lot and she will be disturebed when she gets to know about it.

Binoy Bonditha scene

Binoy is trying his best to impress GW without knowing the storm he is inviting for. He couldn't stand her lectures right now. I now really want to see the face of Binoy and Ruditha when Mini enters with GW.

Another heated argument between Ani and Binoy on the way. 🤣

One thing is sure It will be confirmed that she never loved Ani and now seeing her as wife of GW Ani will be more protective of Bonditha. He knows what Mini promised to do to Bonditha . Marrying GW so soon will let Ani know who is Mini really.

But now whole RC should face her as a family and Binoy and Ani should reconcile . Unity is the strength to face any storm.

I love the way Ani shared the happiness of Bonditha reciting the alphabet correctly and there also he taught her to be her and be happy. It's a lesson for all of us. We have to our selves. We cannot be another. Each one is unique . We do not need to satisfy the society all the time. We just have to do the right thing and be happy and be ourselves

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.”

― Bernard M. Baruch

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Asusual kate ❤️ loved your review 😳

I actually wanted to read from you because being a teacher yourself you can feel why ani was happy

Actually for me it wasn't OTT at all..! Only people who doesn't care about society or being judged will behave like this..! One such is Anirudh Roy Choudhury 😎 He never cared about what other people will think untill and unless it's for a good cause .!

He is raising bon in sucha manner where she will growup to be strong women who can be just like the way she want 😳 not caring about society and their rules.

Rudi's are imperfect without eachother ... they are growing up and helping eachother to be a better person.! They are giving so much of a couple vibes these days 😳 They are balancing eachother aren't they a perfect couple who balance and giving hands to eachother when necessary 😳

Batuk and bon are indeed partner in crime 😳 Today bon looked like a lil maa to her devar ⭐️ attending Pta meeting just to support batuk and batuk is teaching his boudi how to behave before principal is so like normal students teach their parents to handle their principal 🤣🤪 bon is already refilling the maa place to batuk afterall boudi is also treated like maa ❤️

I'm waiting for GreeNi entry 🤣 binoy's reaction is worth watching 🤪 but why I feel only GW will come to haveli for lunch and not his wife (mini) 🤣 he will invite RC's clan for his marriage party maybe 🤣

I wish binoy and Ani deal together with GreeNi they can easily ground them.!

Let's wait for the ultimate humiliation of Mini and GW 🤣

As a teacher I have witnessed parents hapiness and as a teacher I too have felt such a happiness by seen small progress of a weak child. So I can relate to Ani completely . It's not OTT for me. It's the real life.❤️

Agree regarding Ani, Lalz . He never cared about others or traditions unless it's a good cause . You are right ,he raising Bon like him. In future she will be his pillar and biggest support .

Regarding Ruditha .

Exactly they are the best couple , I have seen.I always believe that husband and wife relationship gets strong when you are bonded with eachother with all your heart and mind. They should have understanding , love, care support . Ruditha have all. Indeed they are the best couple .

Bontuk.

I cannot wait to see these partners in crime. They always glue me in to them. Today's sneak peak made me nostalgic . I cannot wait anymore.🤣

Only GW will come or he too may not come. He will invite all there. Somehow Mini won't come. She will RC'S to come there. I feel she is waiting to insult them. A word war is on the way🤣

Originally posted by: sharafah

Hi Kate! Your reviews are brilliant and this is no different!! 😊 I know I am quite biased when it comes to Bon and Ani but I too did not find Ani's reaction OTT because for the struggles he had to go through and managing to overcome Bon' fear in studies atleast partially he feels that Bon had achieved a significant milestone in her basic learning of the language. I am glad he is asking her to think about how she feels then worrying too much about how the society sees. I am just a little worried if ever he would ask Bon to carry on her life without him once she grows telling her not to think about the society because child marraige was never suppose to happen in the first place as he feels that it is wrong to enforce a marraige on her that took place to safe her. I hope by then Bon will be able to reassure him of her her love and devotion to Ani and their marraige and save him from any unwanted guilt he has been feeling and that they always remain a loving couple! :)

Thank you so much dear🤗❤️

The way you think will change each day. For me too my life taught me so much. I learnt from each incident . So at last I became open minded person . Learnt to see from their POV. Even watching BB taught me to see positive side of negative things. Special thanks to Mahi and Lalz .

I am sure Ani won't let Bon go. If you have noticed Ani has started accepting traditions related to Pati Patni rishta. Bon was always brought up that way and Kaka too guide them to see it as their darm .

In our lives too we change each day. Here also there is no saint. All have imperfections and each of them changing day by day.

There's a big progress in each character from episode 1.

Ok this my idea. I never meant to hurt. If I hurt you I am sorry .My reviews and my ideas solely on my life experience or what I have seen in my life.

Originally posted by: dsm123

You said it all Kate.. in most beautiful manner❤️

I loved episode ❤️ nowadays there is not even a single dull scene in whole episode 😆 I genuinely want them to maintain this even after someone's re entry🤪😆

I too wish the same with the re entry. I really enjoy these days episodes . Watch over and over.