Bondita will be one step ahead from Sauda mini , why ?

Hello guys ,

Well I realised watching the previous episodes that saudamini is just educated but her education is no use if they cannot decide if she is 10th pass or 12th pass or just educated to write and read which I feel she is .

Talking about Bondita contrary she is going to experience School where not only she will be termed as proper educated with 12th pass but later on she will go to university for barristery or later on barrister !

2 . Impressing vs impressed by !

Sauda mini has always focused on impressing the RC which I don't think hardly anyone was impressed by her except som and binoy! As Kaka said he never liked her because if he the head of the house could not impressed by her hospitality towards RC then how will Aniruddh ?

On contrary Bondita coming from a poor bg but was sharp and intelligent . In the span of time she made a beautiful relationship with the RC men that is Why kaka said you care for us because of apnapan you had for us.

Coming to Aniruddh , I saw few people are saying that saudamini is a true love if bondita didn't come etc. Well in my opinion it was never a love between them ! It was the infatuation between them but luckily Aniruddh friend zone her even he loves her he would have asked her hand for marriage ! Did he ?

Never . Similarly his breakdown was intense for saudamini but it was not that intense when bondu left the house. He could actually get hallucinations of her which is a sign of love ! Also saudamini never understood aniruddh or the family member but bondita does.

Rc men needed a woman who can bring the family together and care them as a mother ! And little bondita unintentionally fitted in this family. Her every move will make a huge change in the society as well as in the house. They have to break the norms to make her follow her dreams .

Good analysis of love and bonding. 🤗

Soudamini's love is selfish, she wants to get Anirudh at any cost!

But Bondita's bonding with him and his family is the bond that links her with her true family, which is not one of blood but of respect and joy, she shared a special bond with each and everyone there.

True love is not a hide and seek game, in true love, both lovers seek each other, that is called a true relationship.

Originally posted by: Viswasruti

Good analysis of love and bonding. 🤗

Soudamini's love is selfish, she wants to get Anirudh at any cost!

But Bondita's bonding with him and his family is the bond that links her with her true family, which is not one of blood but of respect and joy, she shared a special bond with each and everyone there.

True love is not a hide and seek game, in true love, both lovers seek each other, that is called a true relationship.

Exactly , true love is made with trust and pure emotions and unfortunately saudamini wasn't the true lover !

Well said Ayu.

Bondita has built every relationship on the basis of honesty and true respect. She has never tried to win anyone over with fake affection, unlike Saudamini. She tries to keep up with those relations from the depths of her heart, unlike Saudamini whose concern and affection is only skin deep.

About, Saudamini's education, I think she was home schooled as well. Since education was 'sinful' for a woman, it is unlikely that she got any certified education to be a 10th/12th pass. Maybe she was just taught to read and write.

Wow! On point. *claps *

Rightly said. Bondita is more smarter sharper logical and dedicated. She is kind of pratibimb of anirudh bhai. Thats why anirudh is impressed with her and will fall for her later.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Well said Ayu.

Bondita has built every relationship on the basis of honesty and true respect. She has never tried to win anyone over with fake affection, unlike Saudamini. She tries to keep up with those relations from the depths of her heart, unlike Saudamini whose concern and affection is only skin deep.

About, Saudamini's education, I think she was home schooled as well. Since education was 'sinful' for a woman, it is unlikely that she got any certified education to be a 10th/12th pass. Maybe she was just taught to read and write.

Exactly , that is why she doesn't understand woman right.

Originally posted by: Doe_gurl

Wow! On point. *claps *

Rightly said. Bondita is more smarter sharper logical and dedicated. She is kind of pratibimb of anirudh bhai. Thats why anirudh is impressed with her and will fall for her later.

Ofcourse he will fall for her very hard ...

Because what sauda mini didn't make out in her presence she will do hopefully that dialogue aaj jo mai kehna chahta hoon aur tum suna woh bondu ke liye kahega ...

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Ofcourse he will fall for her very hard ...

Because what sauda mini didn't make out in her presence she will do hopefully that dialogue aaj jo mai kehna chahta hoon aur tum suna woh bondu ke liye kahega ...

@bold feelings ko hawa mat do please hum ko sane rehne do 😔

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Exactly , that is why she doesn't understand woman right.

The thing is... To fight for justice and righteousness, you don't need education. You need humanity and courage. There were many freedom fighters and social reformers who fought for the right reasons but hardly had any formal degrees. The best example is Bondita herself. She is so young and innocent but she knows what is right and what is wrong, she questions the wrong ones without fear and stands by what's right but has no educational qualifications. She learns from what she sees and what she hears.

To stand for the truth, you need to be truthful yourself. Saudamini is full of deceit. Even her 'love' for Anirudh was deceitful. There was no way she would ever understand words like honour and dignity when she herself has none.