How can BAA say that?

I was so shocked yesterday by Baa’s behaviour. Imagine which mother would be proud to say that her son can’t even serve his own food? That’s actually embarrassing that a grown up man can’t even take water himself or serve a spoon of food in his plate. Baa needs a mental checkup i guess. She’s really the perpetrator of patriarchy in the house. But ANUPAMA ROCKS😭😭😭✌🏻

In fact it was Baa who made Vanraaj look like a semi god and when Anupamaa stepped in as his wife as she was so weak and genuine so she just followed her Baa.The latter is a dominating character.

As you said, “Baa is the perpetrator of patriarchy” in that house, but what makes matters worse is that Anupama was chosen by her own MIL who Baa seems to loathe. And she has projected those feelings on Anupama from the beginning. The financial difference between the Shahs and Anupama’s maternal family also is a factor in allowing Baa to belittle her. Their sense of decency also goes against them.

They need to stop babying Vanraj and he also should stop expecting these things after what he has done and he is spoilt with having each and everything in his hand - cant even find his own socks in his cupboard - pathetic, even the kids can take their own food these days (ok i get it one person can serve all at dinnertime, but Anupamaa is also allowed to eat with them too) and also esp if they want coffee or whatever during the day not each time go mummmy or Anupamaa, go and do it yourself.

As for Leela, she will not see fault in her son but her daughter in law. Hence why she is fickle.... i wont be suprised if she finds out about Vanya affair, she will expect Anupamaa to forgive... or say that she is the cause of him having a affair cos she lacked in something, and he needed elsewhere to fulfill his needs etc... typical mentality

When baa said to anupama ab to tumhari thaalli bhar gayii hai ab to vanraj ko khaana paros apne pati ko bhookha rakhegi kya

I mean what the hell baa is talking??

Anupama ne khaana bana ke rakh diya yeh kya kam hai ?

Aur kya vanraj ke haath nahi kya jo vanraj khud khana nahi paros sak

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Ek number ka lazy vanraj

Leela is bloody lazy too but her mouth works overtime lol. (I get it she is old, and look after her but if her hands and feet are working well, then she can also do some little things, and do some housework - basic things)

She couldnt even get her own granddaughter's food ready, when Anupamaa had her first day teaching at the school.

Originally posted by: VulnerableOP

I was so shocked yesterday by Baa’s behaviour. Imagine which mother would be proud to say that her son can’t even serve his own food? That’s actually embarrassing that a grown up man can’t even take water himself or serve a spoon of food in his plate. Baa needs a mental checkup i guess. She’s really the perpetrator of patriarchy in the house. But ANUPAMA ROCKS😭😭😭✌🏻

meraey saas ko aakar dekho apnaey 40 + saal kaey beti aur beta ko khana parosti hey..humesha bolti hey mera bachaen suffer kar rahaen hey..unko na bahu pasand hey na daamad😀 gaun valoan ka aadath hey..unka maanna hey khana parosana is symbol of love and care🧐 i was brought up in totally city set up..khudh lhaana daalkaey kaalo..meraey saas mujaey bhi khaana parosthi hey,ek aur baath,unaey koi aur ko radoi ghar kaey andhar chodnaey mein interest nagi hey ...naa doosroan ki pakaya hua khana kaathi hey..

Originally posted by: Lennie

They need to stop babying Vanraj and he also should stop expecting these things after what he has done and he is spoilt with having each and everything in his hand - cant even find his own socks in his cupboard - pathetic, even the kids can take their own food these days (ok i get it one person can serve all at dinnertime, but Anupamaa is also allowed to eat with them too) and also esp if they want coffee or whatever during the day not each time go mummmy or Anupamaa, go and do it yourself.

As for Leela, she will not see fault in her son but her daughter in law. Hence why she is fickle.... i wont be suprised if she finds out about Vanya affair, she will expect Anupamaa to forgive... or say that she is the cause of him having a affair cos she lacked in something, and he needed elsewhere to fulfill his needs etc... typical mentality

mujaey apni zindagi yaadh aagayi..woman in india spoil their son a lot i say...cant even find his own socks🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Arshi67

As you said, “Baa is the perpetrator of patriarchy” in that house, but what makes matters worse is that Anupama was chosen by her own MIL who Baa seems to loathe. And she has projected those feelings on Anupama from the beginning. The financial difference between the Shahs and Anupama’s maternal family also is a factor in allowing Baa to belittle her. Their sense of decency also goes against them.

thats the gamandi nature of so called ladkaey walaey in the society.. mujaey 8 saal mein bahuth kuch aadathbpad gayi ho anupama kaey liyae yeh tho kuch nahi hey..aakhir 25 saal ki shaadi shudha zindagi hey...😆

Meri MIL hamesha kehti thi ke mera beta kabhi galat nahi ho sakta galti hamesha bahu ki hi hoti hai aur bahu ko adjust karna hi chahiye kyo ki ye uska ghar hai na pasand ho to chali jaye bahu kya fark padta hai mai nayi bahu le aungi 🤢 Meri jethani ko bahot sataya tha Saasuji ne😡