Bigg Boss 14: Daily Discussion Thread - 5th November, 2020 - Page 81

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Why would I instruct anyone, it's so silly.

If people can write agaisnt ruby, cant I even defend her or share my opinion? It is a discussion thread right?

Ofcourse we can....its discussion thread.....anyone can participate and share views.....

Originally posted by: WhosTheFool

Oh come on! You can't ration people's posts now.

Feel free to spam the thread with your choicest words for any contestant you wish to, and allow others to do the same. If you have a problem with the narration or updates, then that really isn't others problem na? Each one will give the update according to their perceptions. We can't have a control over it. Feel free to set your narrative as well.

Now if Rubina centric negative updates irk you, that is something you need to deal with on your end rather than asking the opposite person to edit their thoughts and post.

But what's the harm if I stated my view? I'm not telling you guys to stop discussing rubina or anything. Just said what I felt that a lot of people will be doing wrong in the show but ruby will be bashed even if shes there for 1 sec and thats just me stating my POV. Yall are free to ignore me too if you want.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Why would I instruct anyone, it's so silly.

If people can write agaisnt ruby, cant I even defend her or share my opinion? It is a discussion thread right?

Indeed it's a discussion thread, and course you can defend her and share your opinion.

But when you say "I come to DDT for a narration of the episode, but all I see is Ruby Ruby Ruby" - while quoting me - you're talking about what DDT does collectively - i.e. only talk about Rubina. That's talking about what people should and shouldn't be writing about - and more specifically - the extent to which they post about a certain contestant.

That's not your opinion on the contestant - it's on what members are posting.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Though I like Shardul, I don’t know if one should get votes out of sympathy. I appreciate his loyalty in captaincy task but I dunno it doesn’t sit right with me that someone is given votes solely on that basis. I feel Naina hasn’t even been given an opportunity to do anything this week, not her fan in the least but yah.

Tough call.

I think Shardul should be given votes not just for sympathy but the fact that he actually brings a lot of balance and sanity to the show. I have been watching a lot of unseen dekha action lately, and he is shown actually be in a lot of these videos doing a lot of comedy skits n such. So I think he is definitely worthy of being on the show for that alone. With that said, I do not want Naina to go either. She should atleast stay for a couple of more weeks to show us what she is about.

Originally posted by: SP2684

Yeah I think he was able to keep it together until this week - when it all shot to hell. As you said - made a mockery of himself - and it'll get worse tomorrow. At the end of the day though - it's all about what reactions these people evoke in the viewership.

Some will feel disgust and dislike for him - I feel sympathy. But not the game kinda sympathy where you want someone to win. Rather, sympathy for a vulnerable person battling mental health issues - which are only being exacerbated there, with a side dish of deep humiliation - courtesy the others and Eijaz himself.

And I agree with you totally - I too believe he'll very much regret coming on this show.

Exactly SP!

I sympathized him for that same reason when these so called educated stars slinged mud at him and especially his character.

I dont want him to win the game or anything, but I want him to get all the help that he truly needs.

This was the wrong time for him to be in the show given what he is been through.

Infact being in this show where you are in so much pressure every day to perform, and then people mock fun of you behind your back, say shit about you, this all adds in to worsen your mental health more than anything. I hope he goes back to getting treatment after BB stops milking him. Good thing out of all this, hes getting paid so thats one positive but still mental health is more important!

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

No I cant write about rahul all the time because I'm not that invested nor am I that bothered by him. I just dont see myself doing that, itd be wasting my time imo

I can digest criticism agaisnt rubina, but just like you have free will to discuss her then I also have the free will to join the discussion. I've not instructed anyone please, just pointed out what I'm seeing. Nothing wrong.

Sure you can. I already said that you are more than welcome to discuss about the contestants and give your povs on them. It’s a free forum after all.

But you weren’t commenting on the contestants now were you? You were specifically questioning another forum member’s pov and that is against the rules of this forum.

You specifically asked SP why she’s always criticizing Ruby which is against the rules of this forum. It’s her choice who she’s critical about just like it’s your choice who you dislike but you can’t question another person’s opinions.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

No I cant write about rahul all the time because I'm not that invested nor am I that bothered by him. I just dont see myself doing that, itd be wasting my time imo

I can digest criticism agaisnt rubina, but just like you have free will to discuss her then I also have the free will to join the discussion. I've not instructed anyone please, just pointed out what I'm seeing. Nothing wrong.

But you are invested enough in Rubina to go ahead and question the opposite person's quantity and quality of posts?

Please feel free to join the discussion. If you have a differing view point counter it. But please limit this to the contestant and not the poster. I don't think the poster's choice or viewpoint should be a part of the judgement.

Originally posted by: SP2684

Indeed it's a discussion thread, and course you can defend her and share your opinion.

But when you say "I come to DDT for a narration of the episode, but all I see is Ruby Ruby Ruby" - while quoting me - you're talking about what DDT does collectively - i.e. only talk about Rubina. That's talking about what people should and shouldn't be writing about - and more specifically - the extent to which they post about a certain contestant.

That's not your opinion on the contestant - it's on what members are posting.

Yeah and so what? I feel its thay way, DDT is not a person that it will be offended. I was quoting you but I could have quoted anyone, dont take it personally baba.

I never said people shouldnt write about x y z -_-

Just said that ruby ruby ruby bohot ho raha hain. If its being interpreted as dont talk about ruby then thats a misconception.

If tomorrow someone says ruby is being praised a lot on this forum, toh kya does that mean I want people to stop praising her? No nah. I was just stating what I felt. Itna toh banta hain.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Though I like Shardul, I don’t know if one should get votes out of sympathy. I appreciate his loyalty in captaincy task but I dunno it doesn’t sit right with me that someone is given votes solely on that basis. I feel Naina hasn’t even been given an opportunity to do anything this week, not her fan in the least but yah.

Tough call.

I like Shardul for his wit, humour, and kindness. It has nothing to do with sympathy. I actually had a conversation with some of the members in yesterday's DDT that actors need to get off their butts and look for employment elsewhere rather than waiting for acting gigs and this was in regards to Shardul/Eijaz's discussion about finances. People are sympathizing with him but a lot of people are actually liking him as a human being too.

Originally posted by: Kalyudh

I think Shardul should be given votes not just for sympathy but the fact that he actually brings a lot of balance and sanity to the show. I have been watching a lot of unseen dekha action lately, and he is shown actually be in a lot of these videos doing a lot of comedy skits n such. So I think he is definitely worthy of being on the show for that alone. With that said, I do not want Naina to go either. She should atleast stay for a couple of more weeks to show us what she is about.

Exactly SP!

I sympathized him for that same reason when these so called educated stars slinged mud at him and especially his character.

I dont want him to win the game or anything, but I want him to get all the help that he truly needs.

This was the wrong time for him to be in the show given what he is been through.

Infact being in this show where you are in so much pressure every day to perform, and then people mock fun of you behind your back, say shit about you, this all adds in to worsen your mental health more than anything. I hope he goes back to getting treatment after BB stops milking him. Good thing out of all this, hes getting paid so thats one positive but still mental health is more important!

Well said on both discussions.

Im rooting for Shardul too and want to see more of him. He has plenty of potential to be in the top 5. Just because hes not argumentative doesnt mean hes not BB matetial so yea I agree with what you said.

Originally posted by: Kinginthenorth9

Sure you can. I already said that you are more than welcome to discuss about the contestants and give your povs on them. It’s a free forum after all.

But you weren’t commenting on the contestants now were you? You were specifically questioning another forum member’s pov and that is against the rules of this forum.

You specifically asked SP why she’s always criticizing Ruby which is against the rules of this forum. It’s her choice who she’s critical about just like it’s your choice who you dislike but you can’t question another person’s opinions.

If I did that then I'm sorry but I dont feel I questioned her. I was commenting on the discussion on this discussion thread, not on any particular member.